A Los Angeles Priest Takes the Cross to the Streets, Literally

He is a soft-spoken native of New Zealand and priest of the Legion of Christ. His subtle accent and gentle spirit are the perfect combo for a man who spends a lot of time greeting people on the street.

You could say that Fr Peter is a mission priest through and though.  He is not a priest who wants to sit around in a parish rectory and wait for people to come. He’s not the “maintenance-church” type at all.  He is what Pope Francis would like to see, a shepherd out in the streets with the sheep.

When asked why he started doing this, he said: “I saw the need to go out to the people.  Just sitting in the parish and waiting for the people to come just wasn’t happening.  So many are too hurt, too confused or too busy.  Pope Francis says the world is like a battle-field hospital.  I just assumed we’d need to go out and bring the wounded home. They needed someone to help them.  So, we went out!”

While Pope Francis may have been a big inspiration for Fr Peter, it seems he was also inspired in 2014 by the encouragement of Bishop Daniel O’Connell, auxiliary in LA, who at the time was just pastor of St. Michael the Archangel parish.  What started at St. Michael the Archangel on Manchester Ave then we went to St. Frances parish on Imperial Highway and includes St. Odilia in South Central and now Skid Row.  Members of these parishes accompany Fr Peter with the cross.

According to Fr Peter, the cross of Jesus is its own catechesis. “By taking the cross to the streets, we are giving people a direct experience of the love of Jesus from the cross, people are coming closer to this sign of salvation.  That’s the message they need. Hope and salvation… and most importantly, that they are worthy of being loved.”

When out on the streets with a cross over his shoulder, Fr Peter says: “I see my own heart. Somehow, being with the people on the streets opens my heart; I feel strangely ‘alive’. The Gospel comes to life all around me. Many times I am reduced to nothing, to ashes, to the beginning. I want to cry out and solve all the problems around me small and big. I want everyone to have a home and food and clothing. I don’t want to see what I see.”

Part of the reason Fr Peter keeps going out multiple times each month, accompanied by now dozens of different people, is the gift of feeling Christ come alive as a missionary.  Many Catholics need this awakening.  For Fr Peter, his way of forming apostles is to give them this experience.  It helps people to no longer be passive in the pews, but on fire for Jesus. Fr Peter’s gentle demeanor and priestly heart comes out when he says “the ministry is like a highway of love, the Sacred Heart of Jesus pours his love out through our ministry.  I love the experience of being a bridge for the love of Jesus”

Fr Peter is an avid social media poster. His facebook feed is full of videos and heart-warming messages from the streets of LA. He doesn’t really know how many people are sharing and viewing his posts. Like much in Fr Peter’s life, that’s up to the Holy Spirit! “I post, and leave the rest to God” he simply says.

 

For more information:

– Find Fr Peter’s Facebook here:

– How to Set-up a Holy Week Mission

– More info on Mission Youth Missions here.

 

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“Ask a Priest: Does the Bible Contradict Itself?”

Q: Does the Catholic Church teach that the Bible contradicts itself? Do you believe that the Church’s teachings contradict the Bible? – H.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You raise very good questions. Let me try to answer the second question first.

The Church believes that Revelation comes down to us in Scripture and Tradition. Tradition, with a capital T, is the oral transmission of Christ’s teaching that was passed down through the apostles. “Sacred Tradition and Sacred Scripture form one sacred deposit of the word of God,” says Dei Verbum, the Church’s dogmatic constitution on divine Revelation.

Before the New Testament was written, it was Tradition that passed along Jesus’ teaching. On Pentecost morning, for instance, when Peter preached and saw the baptism of 3,000 people, he didn’t hand out copies of the New Testament. That polished collection of texts wouldn’t exist as such for several hundred years. Rather, Peter preached from Tradition — what he had heard from Jesus.

The Church relies on Tradition to help her interpret the Bible correctly. The Bible, like any text, needs to be interpreted. It is the correct interpretation of Scripture that forms a basis for Church teaching.

So, there is a kind of chicken-and-egg answer here. Church teaching doesn’t contradict the Bible because Church teaching by nature involves the correct interpretation of Scripture.

By now you might have figured out the answer to the first question: No, the Bible doesn’t contradict itself if it is interpreted correctly.

A common misconception about the Bible is that it is a handbook of moral dos and don’ts. It is much more complex than that. It is a collection of books that include the good, the bad and the ugly. And while on the surface the Bible contains a range of views and perspectives that seem to differ wildly at times, the God who inspired the whole of Scripture is one and the same deity.

Suffice it to say that the Bible is a work that needs to be interpreted well. And who decides whether an interpretation of Scripture is correct? The Church, guided by the Holy Spirit.

For more reading see “The Interpretation of the Bible in the Church.” I hope some of this helps.

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Engaging Young Men and Women in the Catholic Adventure of a Lifetime

Dr. Brian and Valerie Doran of Alberta, Canada, are a Regnum Christi family with seven children, and have been married for 20 years. Brian is a Family Physician, and currently has a full-time practice with hospital privileges in a rural area. Together, they lead the internationally acclaimed top-tier Catholic camps Arcātheos (for boys) and Captivenia (for girls).

Brian and Valerie first encountered Regnum Christi just as Brian was about to begin 10 years of education to become a physician.  Their hearts soared at the call to holiness, community and mission, but they wondered how they would manage it with a large family and the educational and professional ‘burdens’ ahead of them.

What they found is that the formation and mission they discovered in RC helped them to live their family life and professional life better. It also brought out the missionary zeal of their children. Brian takes his calling as a Catholic man, a father, and a Regnum Christi member very seriously. He believes that putting God first has helped him manage his time and priorities in order to live his prayer, family and professional life well.

In 2003 Brian launched Camp Rivendell, which would later become known as Arcātheos. His dedication to the apostolate of Arcātheos comes from a sincere desire to help form young men in the faith. The camp has grown in numbers and in excellence- with themes and story lines that call to mind The Lord of the Ringsand The Chronicles of Narnia, and a setting, costumes, and props that belong on the set of an epic movie, but all at the service of an experience that teaches boys that Christ is the Lord and they were born to live the adventure of serving him. Each year up to 90 men join his leadership team and 150 boys from across North America come to the camp, which ranges from 7-11 days long, depending on the age of the boys.

After seeing the success of Arcātheos over the first eight years, Valerie heard a growing cadre of  girls ask for a similar camp.  In 2010, in spite of her introverted nature, she took the leap to found the girls’ camp, Captivenia, and gathered a team of talented young women and mothers to lead with her. They have endeavored to help girls discover God’s love and the gift of the feminine genius he gives them. This is Valerie’s true passion. She was adamant that “this would not be just a copy of a boys’ camp,” stating, “I wanted to help girls become women of God filled with authentic beauty, dignity, grace and leadership.”  Captivenia has grown from 25 people the first year to an annual average of a 40 person leadership team (20 young women and 20 moms) and 100 girls attending. Many of the women who help Valerie lead the camp grow in their own spiritual lives, learning to pray, and some going on retreats for the first time.

Arcātheos & Captivenia fill a unique role in building up the kingdom. But how do the incredibly successful, but demanding, camps help the Dorans build their own family?  Brian and Valerie include their children every step of the way.  The Doran kids are involved in the planning, building, scripting and running of the camps right along with their parents.

Their oldest daughter Maria is now a Regnum Christi member herself, and is currently serving as an RC Mission Corps missionary in France.  Their son Stephen is in the early discernment of a potential call to the priesthood while completing his high school education at the Legionaries of Christ’s Apostolic school in Rolling Prairie, Indiana.

When asked how they manage it all, the Dorans light up.  Valerie encourages people to “imagine if your family was open to the inspirations of the holy spirit and united in a common mission of evangelization.” Brian continues, “What if God provided the grace needed to include your children and your family in evangelization, and actually drew you closer as a family through it?”  This has been the Doran family experience of Regnum Christi and their mission of leading Arcātheos and Captivenia.  The camps involve the whole Regnum Christi spiritual family as well, with Legionaries of Christ and Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi serving as chaplains.

Their advice to other families? “Be open. Allow God to take you out of the box, to take you past your pre-conceived limitations. Allow him to inspire you and challenge you to do something unique and different. There’s more that God knows you can do than you could imagine.  We are called to an ascent of family life, to work with our children to build up his kingdom and bring people to Christ.”

Discover Arcatheos and Captivenia at www.arcatheos.com and www.captivenia.com

 

 

 

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“Ask a Priest: Are Annulments Really Licit?”

Q: Our daughter with three little ones was divorced from her husband because of his adulterous affairs. She’s now seeking an annulment. They married 10 years ago. He converted before they married. His family background suggests that he didn’t know or believe marriage was indissoluble. He also broke the engagement prior to getting back together. My husband and I are conflicted about annulments, as they seem to be merely Catholic divorces. So many are granted. It makes us uncomfortable that a few people (on the tribunal) can dissolve what God has joined. Our concern is for her immortal soul. She’s a good Catholic, and we’d like to help her do God’s will. She’d really like another chance with a faithful Catholic man. But we just can’t understand how she can justifiably remarry. We are very, very concerned about this. – K.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I am sorry to hear about your daughter’s situation, especially for the sake of the children. It must be a terrible wound for the family to bear.

Annulments (technically, decrees of nullity) are judgments by the Church, after an investigation, that a marriage was faulty from the start, and thus a valid union never took place.

This isn’t some kind of canonical sleight of hand. It has a real basis in theology. For a couple to enter a marriage there need to be certain conditions in place, such as (as you mention) an understanding of the indissolubility of the union. Also, the adultery could reflect some fundamental problems in the man, even beyond basic human weakness.

The point here is that we can have faith that the Church is within its rights to make this type of decision, notwithstanding the occasional abuses of the annulment process in the past.

Ideally, the marriage-prep programs should avoid these kinds of marital breakdowns. But those programs aren’t always as effective as they should or could be. This is one reason why Pope Francis has called for more effective catechesis in preparation for marriage.

From what you describe about the situation, there might be grounds for an annulment. We don’t need to speculate further; suffice it to say that this is the kind of decision a tribunal could legitimately make.

If and when an annulment is granted, however, it would be advisable not to try to sow doubts in your daughter. The decision about an annulment is up to the Church — it is not for you or me to decide. So if the Church says that an annulment is justified, then it would be good to accept that ruling.

Your daughter already has a heavy burden on her shoulders. This is the moment your love can do a lot for her and the little ones.

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“Ask a Priest: What If I Think a Priest Has Feelings for Me?”

Q: I’m a 19-year-old girl, raised by a single mom and I have two younger siblings. We have always had a relationship with our parish priest as a family — I guess because we needed spiritual support. Currently our priest friend has developed some sort of feelings for me. Part of me wants to cease contact, and a part of me wants to keep touch but keep it casual as always, because he has been there for us. Even personally he has encouraged me to be better because I have been battling severe depression. I don’t want to be a distraction or cause him to break his vows, and I can’t tell my mom. She would be disappointed. – M.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: My sympathies go out to you and your family. It must be very difficult to be in a home without a dad.

If you think the priest is developing feelings for you, it would be good to keep a healthy distance from him. Even if you are misinterpreting the situation, it is better to trust your instincts and to err on the side of caution.

He is probably a good man. He obviously has been there to help your family. But he is also human. And so he can be tempted. It isn’t hard to see how your home situation – without a father present – could stir the heart of a parish priest in a deep but inopportune way.

Perhaps the best route, the most practical route, is to remain polite with him, but to consciously limit your contact from him. If need be, you might find reasons for avoiding him, either at the parish or if he visits your home.

This slight change in your behavior might even help the priest recognize and address what is happening in his own heart. He might eventually get to a better place, where things can get back to normal and you no longer feel those uncomfortable vibes from him.

You might want to pray for him, too. And realize that your keeping distance from him might be the best thing you can do for him. It could help him persevere in his priesthood, so that he is available to continue to assist others. Count on my prayers.

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Everest Academy Nuvali Breaks ground in the Philippines

Ver Peña, a trustee of the board of Everest Academy Manila and a Regnum Christi member shares how the vision of beginning RC Education schools in the Philippines began to take shape. “‘Aiming Higher,’ That’s the slogan we saw when we first visited Legionary or Semper Altiusschools in other countries. My wife and I said,  ‘we need something like this in the Philippines.’ That’s when the dream started.”

Everest Academy Manila came to life in 2007, the first RC Education school in Asia, and the first Catholic international school in the Philippines. It now has 560 students and is one of over 200 Regnum Christi schools in 16 countries around the world.  In 2008, a sister school was born. Mano Amiga Academy, 45 minutes outside of Manila, uses the same RC Education curriculum and pedagogy while providing top quality education to underpriviledged families and breaking cycles of poverty.

Now, a third RC Education school is getting ready to open its doors. An affiliated Everest Academy campus, Everest Academy Laguna,  is coming to life on a 20 hectare mixed-use institutional development in Nuvali, an hour south of Manila.  The development includes three buildings to cater to K-12 students, an Administration/Retail Building, and Mary, Queen of Apostles Church.

The first building to rise on the site is the Lower School, which will house the Preschool, Kindergarten and Grades 1 to 4. This building will be completed by July 2019, just in time to open its doors to its pioneering students on August 2019 for school year 2019-2020.

Everest Academy Laguna currently exists as a preschool which offers a coherent progression of skills, concepts, and knowledge in all areas of child development.

The Everest Academy Laguna Preschool Curriculum was developed by researching and reviewing exemplary early childhood education practices by the International Center for Integral Formation (ICIF).  It provides a solid, coherent foundation of knowledge, concepts, and skills which are aligned with the Regnum Christi Education K-12 curriculum standards. The curriculum addresses the physical, intellectual, social, emotional, and moral development of children and the new Everest Academy Laguna lower school will continue to integrate the curriculum and pedagogy in place.

Students of Everest Academy Laguna receive more than a world-class academic education. They are provided the tools necessary to grow in the attitudes and virtues that characterize intellectually and socially mature persons, such as perseverance and completion of tasks, clear and controlled expression of thoughts and emotions, self-reflection, self-mastery, friendliness, and appropriate manners.

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“Ask a Priest: My Online Love Dumped Me … Now What?”

Q: My girlfriend dumped me and the whole thing has just got me confused about life and everything. I just felt like my relationship with Jane was so different. My whole life I’ve never really dated or had any type of real relationship with a girl. And I was extremely self-conscious. I hated pictures of myself. But then one day, I found this app, where you upload a picture and people swipe left or right if they think you are attractive. I took a selfie and put it on this app. And Jane and I were a match. So we started talking, and instantly I just felt a great connection. We ended up having SO much in common it was almost scary. And I remember sitting in my living room texting her, and just having this feeling inside me. And I was talking to God, and I could’ve sworn he was saying, “There’s something about this girl ….” Like even though we’re in different states, someway, somehow, it would work. Jane was literally everything I dreamed of — her personality was so amazing, she was the most beautiful girl in the world to me, and she believed in God. But then a couple of things changed that. She started dating K., and when that didn’t last, she dated J. And I just got really confused, and I thought I had lost her for good, and I got anxiety pills and everything else. She just lost feelings for me somehow, and I think distance had a lot to do with it. It’s just been so hard for me to move on. Our story was so special, and I just don’t feel like I’ll ever have that with anybody else, and it just felt like it was so meant to be and that’s what God wanted. It’s been so hard and confusing for me. What should I do? – N.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: It sounds as though you are going through what a lot of young people go through: the first experience of being attached to another person, and then having that “perfect” relationship crash and burn.

It’s not the end of the world, believe me. There are other possibilities for relationships out there.

It is doubtful whether anyone would say anything that will ease your heartbreak in the short term. But a few observations might be worth considering.

One, you are human, which means you are meant to love and to be loved. There is someone who loves you enough that he suffered and died on a cross for you. That is Jesus. He is your best friend. He will never let you down. In day-to-day life this means that you need to make Christ the first relationship of your life. If that relationship is stable, you will be able to deal better with all the others.

Second, it sounds as though your relationship with this young lady was shaky from the start. For one thing, it was virtual — through social media and texting, etc. — not face to face. That isn’t a real relationship. That is a kind of artificial (or at least very incomplete) connection through cyberspace.

People are human, which means they have their weaknesses and flaws. It’s important that we see those weaknesses and flaws, and that other people see ours. This clears away any starry-eyed views we have of one another.

Only when two people see other’s flaws and accept each other, can real friendship begin. And that is a good rule in the future: If you find yourself falling for a young lady before you are real friends with her — in a face-to-face relationship — the risk is that the relationship becomes idealized and unrealistic.

The temptation is that we project all our dreams and hopes onto another person. This is unrealistic because no one (except Jesus) can ever live up to our hopes. We can end up expecting perfection from imperfect people — and then we are disappointed when they can’t deliver.

Perhaps the best way forward is to intensify your prayer life and sacramental life, and to look for ways to network with real people in your area. You can do this through volunteer work or a church activity. It will help you to reach out and give support to someone who needs it: the poor, the elderly, the shut-ins, etc.

Along the way you will get a glimpse of the suffering that is out there in the world. It will help you realize you have something to contribute. It will build your sense of service and generosity. And it will put you in contact with like-minded people who take their faith seriously. There will be where real friendships take root.

All of this, in turn, will help you discover who you are and your mission in life. And stay close to the Blessed Virgin Mary. She is a woman who will never leave you.

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Building the Church as a Regnum Christi Deacon

Pepe Carafi is a commercial engineer who is member of Regnum Christi for 37 years, and will be ordained a deacon in 2019. He shares his testimony as a professional, husband, father, apostle and deacon.

Pepe is married to Maria Cecilia Laso Rogers who he met in Regnum Christi, and together they have seven children. He has been studying for the deaconate with the Archdiocese of Santiago, Chile for the past four years. His studies were in commercial engineering but the last 12 years Pepe Carafí has ​​worked as an investment agent and for financial companies. However, his business work has never diverted the focus of his life: surrender to Christ and service to others.

Can you give us a little history of your life in Regnum Christi?

“Not long after joining the movement, I was appointed head of the young men’s team of Tabancura. In 1985, graduating and preparing theses, I devoted a few months to the Movement and formed an apostolate: the Pontevedra Academy, a Pre-university and Study Center. In 1987, already married and with a newborn son, I was the group leader of the Papal Guard. [The Papal Guard is a group committed Catholics in Chile: he is not referring to the Swiss Guards in the Vatican.] Together with Maria Cecilia, we have directed RC teams in Buin, Curicó and Concepción. In 2001 I was appointed Director of the Zambrano Institute and in 2003 I was appointed to the San Juan Diego School, of the Mano Amiga network, until 2005.”

In your daily life, as a professional and father, please tell us a little, how are you doing Church every day with your mustard seed?

“I think it is very important that we are people of prayer and Eucharist. The time dedicated to God is not lost, but won. There is little that we can build if we are far from Jesus Christ and Mary our mother. As a Christian husband, the first thing is to live the love of Maria Cecilia and our children. And beyond that, try to do God’s will at work, with family, friends and community. This is easy to say but difficult to fulfill. Fr. Hurtado [a well-known saint in Chile] recommends us to think ‘what would Christ do in my place.’ I seek to contribute a grain of sand to the great challenges we have in our church and our homeland and transmit the Faith through social networks.”

Why did you decide to do the Permanent Diaconate?

“In May 2011, Regnum Christi asked me to attend a meeting of lay people in Punta de Tralca and I met Javier González, another Papal Guard group leader who was attending the 3rd year of the Diaconate School. Talking with him and his wife, Rosa Maria Rogers, they invited me to enter the Diaconate and I felt clearly that God was asking me for it as the logical continuity of everything I had experienced up to that moment. I spoke with my parish priest, Fr. Julio Dutilh. I was also introduced by Fr. Xavier Castro, LC. The Cordillera Vicariate accompanied Maria Cecilia and me, in the obligatory year of discernment (2013) and introduced me to the Permanent Diaconate School of the Archdiocese of Santiago, where I began my formation at the beginning of 2014, in the evening, together with others 20 students from all over Santiago. Today we are finishing the 5th year and would be graduating, God willing in July.”

How do you think being a Deacon as you are becoming can help the Church?

“Deacon means servant, the first seven Deacons were appointed by the apostles (Acts 6:1-6). Service is the mark of the Deacon: to be available to help, accompany, comfort, celebrate baptisms, marriages, liturgies, responses, accompany the parish priest and the community. With the lack of priests the deacon will have more and more work every day.”

How can you link your Diaconate to Regnum Christi?

“Regnum Christi taught me to love the Church, to live and grow in Faith in communion with the Pope and with the local Church. Hence, the Lord has led us to participate in different ecclesial instances and thus we have reached the Diaconate, which is lived mainly linked to the Parish and to the service of the community. In our parish of St. Alberto Hurtado there is a rich experience of charisms, many parishioners come from different movements, but act together with great joy and charity in the service of the community, under the guidance of Fr. Pedro Ríos.”

The original in Spanish is on the RC site of Chile.

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“Ask a Priest: Isn’t It Better to Abort and Spare Later Suffering?”

Q: A family member wrote this and I am truly conflicted. “It kills me that there are so many children in terrible living situations and so many children waiting to be adopted every single day but the most important thing on the agenda is making sure that women who know they’d be an unfit parent can’t terminate their pregnancies. Clog the adoption agencies. Fill up foster care. Put children in homes where they’re neglected or abused. Let more and more kids go day after day not knowing where their next meal will come from. Allow more and more children to be born into families that can’t care for them.” What is your answer to this? I am pro-life and I never think abortion is OK, but what about the truly innocent born into the world in such abusive and neglectful circumstances? – G.M.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The short answer is that we need to increase our efforts to help the children and to support marriage and family in general.

To say that we’ll solve the problem of innocent, neglected kids by killing them in the womb is hideous logic.

Would your family member advocate taking all the children who are currently living in neglect and poverty and simply kill them all in order to relieve them of their suffering? I hope not. And yet, killing a baby in the mother’s womb is the exact same thing — it is killing an innocent human being.

Many human beings who grow up in difficult situations become strong and productive members of society. It is arrogant and narrow-minded to consider underprivileged children as unworthy of life simply because the injustices of society increase their share of suffering.

Moreover, abortion does serious violence to women, even as it “lets men off the hook.” More than a few women spend years and decades battling depression and other problems because of the guilt of their abortions.

Your family member does touch on a valid point, however. Some people are content to voice their opposition to abortion but do little else to help women in crisis or to help children in need.

Perhaps you can find common ground on this point with your family member and challenge him/her to join you in support a charity that helps moms and their babies. There is likely a pro-life crisis pregnancy center or similar group in your area that could use your help.

Remember the words of Matthew 25:40 — “Whatever you did for one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.”

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!