Q: I have recently turned to the Lord, but I do not associate myself with any specific religious denomination. I do not consider myself Christian, Catholic, or anything else — I simply say that I am with the Lord. I feel that different beliefs are often in conflict, each claiming to be right while others are wrong, when in reality, we are all meant to be united. Lately, I have been having dreams about a particular person, as well as other people visiting me in my dreams. I do not understand their meaning, but I would like to share them with someone who can help me uncover their significance. I also want to grow stronger in my relationship with the Lord. However, I do not wish to attend church, religious school, or any formal gatherings. I practice my faith privately, in my own home, alone in my room. — Alejandro

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

A: It’s good that you are turning more to the Lord.

Part of Our Lord’s plan for us, however, is that we worship him within the Church.

He doesn’t want us to be lone wolves. It’s too easy to fall into subjectivism, too easy to start making our own rules. Besides, where do we go for guidance?

Deep down, you are seeking truth, and there is a truth. The different interpretations among Christians doesn’t mean that there is no true way to interpret the way God wanted to reveal himself.

This is where the affirmations of the Catholic Church are of great interest.

For the Church has spent 2,000 years meditating on Scripture and the mystery of Jesus. A fruit of that is reflected in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Its teachings all fit together.

My short advice is to dedicate time to prayer each day.

And think of getting a copy of the Youth Catechism (an easier read than the Catechism mentioned above).

The Holy Spirit seems to be working in you. Our Lord doesn’t want you to remain alone in your room.

Count on my prayers.