October 13, 2026

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What Pleases God

Dear Friends,

 

What pleases God most? The question is not irrelevant. When we love, we want to please the person we love. If we love God, we naturally want to please him.

Perhaps our sacrifices are most pleasing to God?

Our sacrifices—if motivated by love—are important, but they’re not what pleases God the most.

Then maybe our fulfillment of the Ten Commandments and Church teaching is what pleases God the most?

Obviously the Ten Commandments and Church teaching are highly significant, and their observance—again, if moved by love—is pleasing to God, but there’s something that pleases God even more.

Thérèse of Lisieux—saint and Doctor of the Church, whose feast we celebrate every October—gives us an unexpected answer.

Her sister Marie, anguished by her own sinfulness, told Thérèse: “I do not love Jesus as you do [because I do not feel the same passion you express].” And St. Thérèse responded: “How can you say that my desires are the sign of my love?… it is not this at all that pleases God in my little soul.” She continued: “What pleases Him is that he sees me loving my littleness and my poverty, the blind hope I have in His mercy” (Letter of St. Thérèse, September 17, 1896).

How much can I trust in the Lord’s mercy?

On my worst days, how much can I trust in his mercy?

When I bitterly feel the lash of my own selfishness, how much can I trust in his mercy?

When I painfully recognize that I am not the person I’d like to be, how much can I trust in his mercy?

In those moments might I, like St. Thérèse of Lisieux, like all the friends of God, renew my trust in his endless mercy? And perhaps I can pray the words of Israel in the Book of Lamentations: “The steadfast love of the Lord is not exhausted, his mercies are not spent. He renews them each morning, so great is his faithfulness” (Lam 3:22–23). And “I will trust in your goodness, O Lord, forever and ever” (Psalm 52).

That, more than anything else, brings joy to God’s heart, and opens the floodgates to grace and growth in our own lives.

God bless you,

Fr. John Pietropaoli

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Edward the Confessor

Dear Eddie, Today, once again, God has granted that both of us are still alive on the anniversary of our namesake.  Let us thank him together for the wonderful (and often overlooked) gift of existence. I am pleased to hear of your plans to go into civil service (though I can’t say I agree with your decision to dive right into law school after you graduate this year – you will need more than book-learning to be a worthy political leader).  May I be so bold as to recommend you one, little thing, in honor of St Edward? As you know, Edward lived in exile until he was forty years old, when finally his rightful sovereignty was reestablished and he came to sit on England’s throne.  As you also know, he ruled with such equity and prudence that ever afterwards England’s folk recalled his days with longing.  Under his prayerful and gentle scepter, war was all but banished from the volatile island, and the rambunctious nobles were pacified (not least because of his judicious marriage to the beautiful and pious Edith, daughter of the brutal and ambitious Earl Godwin, who had previously murdered Edward’s brother Alfred).  Economic prosperity coupled with religious fervor gave England a truly golden age under Edward, the king who won the hearts of all his people.  But you can read all about his diplomatic and domestic policies in any good history of England.  I am rather interested in the secret source of his virtue and wisdom: he attended daily Mass.  Even on his extended hunting trips (his favorite pastime), which often kept him in the wilderness for days on end, he arose each morning to offer himself anew with Christ in the sacred mysteries.  A soul who stays close to Christ in the Eucharist, fills his mind each day with the torrent of doctrine flowing from the liturgical prayers and readings, and unites his own longings and efforts to Christ’s on the altar is guaranteed a fruitful life.  You can bank on it, and St Edward is one of many cases that prove it. So I would humbly advise you to start attending Mass daily.  Don’t wait.  The devil will put up obstacle after obstacle to make sure you keep delaying – and then years will pass, years in which you could have been soaking your every thought and decision in the sweet grace of God.  Years in which you could have been filling your heart and mind with the light and strength that made St Edward into such an effective ruler and exemplary follower of Christ.  Make the time, my dear nephew; you won’t regret it. Sincerely, Uncle Eddy

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What If My Mom Hoards Things?

Q: I suspect that my mom struggles with hoarding. I try to clean out excess of clothing and items, but I am stopped because my mom will check what I want to give away and will remove things from the donation bag “so she can use them instead.” As much as I want to secretly give, my dad tells me I should check with my mom first when it comes to giving away clothes — however, these clothes often go unused and continue to clog up a room in the house. What exactly is the Catholic response to all this? Would it be a sin for me to give away my belongings without checking in with my parents since I am supposed to obey them? — L.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

Your desire to weed what you think are excess clothes and other items is admirable. But other factors need to be considered.

First, you won’t honor the Fourth Commandment by doing things behind your parents’ backs. Healthy family life requires honesty and respect for proper authority.

Besides, it is their house, and they have a right to decide what to do with the clothes and other items.

A separate issue is your mom’s hoarding. Let’s assume for now that your perception is correct.

In principle, yes, we should be willing to share things with others. We shouldn’t accumulate things for their own sake.

On the other hand, hoarding might be a person’s way of dealing with memories of a difficult childhood.

If your mom grew up poor, she might be trying to overcompensate for that as an adult. Insecurity, not stinginess, might be the problem.

Your dad might understand this, which is why he wants you to check with Mom first before getting rid of things.

It would be good to pray for your mom and look for opportunities to encourage her to trust in God’s providence.

Then leave things in God’s hands. If Mom’s thinking ever changes, it might take a long time. So be patient.

In the meantime, it would be good to cultivate a simple and modest lifestyle for yourself.

Count on my prayers.

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October 13, 2026 – Reparation Is the Remedy

Tuesday of the Twenty-Eighth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 11:37-41

After Jesus had spoken, a Pharisee invited him to dine at his home. He entered and reclined at table to eat. The Pharisee was amazed to see that he did not observe the prescribed washing before the meal. The Lord said to him, “Oh you Pharisees! Although you cleanse the outside of the cup and the dish, inside you are filled with plunder and evil. You fools! Did not the maker of the outside also make the inside? But as to what is within, give alms, and behold, everything will be clean for you.”

Opening Prayer: Lord, you know the contents of my busy mind as I settle down to pray. I want to drink in the Scriptures and learn something new about you. Please bless my time and inspire me to leave distractions aside and focus on you. 

Encountering Christ:

  1. Something Greater: Jesus had been preaching that “something greater” (Lk 11:32) was in their midst when this Pharisee invited him to dinner. Did he want to be seen with this popular rabbi? Had he been curious about Jesus and wanted to hear more? Might he have been more openhearted to the message of salvation if he hadn’t been so full of prideful indignation at the fact that Jesus hadn’t washed before the meal? The dinner had just begun when he raised his objection. He hadn’t even given himself time to “be” with Jesus before he leveled his criticism. Jesus sometimes visits us in unexpected ways—through the poor, through an unexpected stranger, or through a contentious family member. May we treat every soul as a brother or sister in Christ and encounter him there.

     

  2. You Fools!: Jesus knew that the hearts of the Pharisees were full of “plunder and evil.” He called them fools because they valued the wrong things—status, wealth, power. We too would be “foolish” if we said, “Thank God I’m not like them.” Every one of us has a propensity to sin. The difference between us and this Pharisee is that we draw near to Christ, not out of pride or vanity (hopefully), but because we recognize our need for a savior and redeemer. We approach Jesus with a humble heart full of contrition for our sinfulness. We praise him, even when we don’t perfectly understand his ways.

     

  3. The Remedy: Our Lord did not condemn this Pharisee so full of plunder and evil. Rather, he assessed the state of the Pharisee’s soul and prescribed a remedy: “But as to what is within, give alms, and behold, everything will be clean for you.” The “cure” is reminiscent of the story about the rich young man who heard from Jesus, “If you wish to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me” (Mt 19:21). Our Lord knows exactly what keeps us from giving our whole mind, body, and soul to him. We can trust him to provide every grace we need. He desires our sanctity more than we do.

Conversing with Christ: Lord, this Pharisee did not understand why you hadn’t followed the rules about washing before meals. Sometimes I don’t understand your ways either, but I trust that you want my eternal salvation—you died for me. Give me the grace to put aside anything that stands in the way of my becoming a saint. I want to live with you one day in heaven.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will give alms of my time, talent, or treasure in reparation for my sins.

For Further Reflection: “We do not have to discover in which of several people Christ is to be found; we must look for him in them all. And not in an experimental spirit, to discover whether he is in them… but with the absolute certainty that he is… Christ does not choose to be known through outward appearances—even the appearance of virtue” (Caryll Houselander, The Reed of God: A New Edition of a Spiritual Classic).

Maribeth Harper celebrated paying the last tuition bill for her kids’ college by writing a book for parents who have college-aged young adults: A Spiritual Toolbox: Tips for Parenting through the First Year of College. She is a wife of over thirty-five years, mother of four, and grandmother of twelve and counting.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!