January 16, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Fursey

Dear Ferdinand, The excessive stress that you are always complaining about may have many different causes.  But whatever the cause, one spiritual exercise will surely diminish it: remembering heaven. Every Sunday we all go to Mass and dutifully profess our faith in eternal life and in a Kingdom that has no end, but the rest of the week we act as if this life were all there is.  We look for perfect peace and satisfaction in this passing, fragile, earthly existence. What a self-contradiction! Perhaps you should ask today’s saint for a special “stress-relief” intercession. He was born of nobility in Ireland (it seems that everyone in ancient Ireland was born of nobility), and early on showed exceptional interpersonal and intellectual ability.  But he forsook the promising career ahead of him because he wanted to delve more deeply into the riches of sacred wisdom. He went off and erected a monastery in the wilderness, attracting a slew of disciples.  Much later, he returned home to share the graces he had received with his relatives, and there began a series of well-attested ecstasies and visions. On multiple occasions, his body would be rapt in cataleptic immobility (such that his companions more than once thought he had died and begun preparations for burial) while his soul engaged in instructive conversations with the angels.  Mostly, they would show him their view of the world, which consisted almost solely in the spiritual warfare raging between the devil and the Church, a warfare that, as they vividly showed him, took place in the conscience of every human being. They showed him the earth covered in a dark black haze (the power of the tempter, father of lies); they showed him huge fires blazing between earth and heaven (fires that purified or consumed souls who had forsaken their baptismal grace), and many other things as well.  Eyewitnesses related that when St Fursey described his visions, he would break out in a profuse sweat, even in the cold of winter. For this saint, the eternal trajectory of our earthly pilgrimage profoundly affected his daily life, providing a perspective that positively banished all vain and petty “stress.” I hope you can stir up your faith sufficiently to glimpse the same perspective, even if you aren’t graced with supernatural visions. Your affectionate uncle, Eddy

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January 16, 2026 – Wonder at God’s Word

Friday of the First Week in Ordinary Time

 

Mark 2:1-12

When Jesus returned to Capernaum after some days, it became known that he was at home. Many gathered together so that there was no longer room for them, not even around the door, and he preached the word to them. They came bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men. Unable to get near Jesus because of the crowd, they opened up the roof above him. After they had broken through, they let down the mat on which the paralytic was lying. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the paralytic, “Child, your sins are forgiven.” Now some of the scribes were sitting there asking themselves, “Why does this man speak that way? He is blaspheming. Who but God alone can forgive sins?” Jesus immediately knew in his mind what they were thinking to themselves, so he said, “Why are you thinking such things in your hearts? Which is easier, to say to the paralytic, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise, pick up your mat and walk’? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority to forgive sins on earth”—he said to the paralytic, “I say to you, rise, pick up your mat, and go home.” He rose, picked up his mat at once, and went away in the sight of everyone. They were all astounded and glorified God, saying, “We have never seen anything like this.”

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, open my heart to hear your Word, and help me to see your saving action all around me.

Encountering Christ:

  1. The Word Fell Like Seed…: When Jesus returned to Capernaum, Scripture says that “he preached the word to them.” His central message was one of repentance. How he longed that his Word would fall upon fertile soil! He provoked faith where a piece of kindling was offered. He awakened consciences that dared to examine their lifestyle in the light of God’s commands. He excited hope in the possibility of promises fulfilled. How did that seed fall upon the soil of his listeners? How does his Word fall upon my spiritual ears? How does it speak to my conscience and desires?

     

  2. Getting to the Heart of the Matter: Jesus knows the deepest affliction—division between us and God, namely sin. He doesn’t beat around the bush with the paralytic man by curing him of a “superficial ailment” when the true ailment is sin. He must have been able to see the heart of this man, for God cannot forgive sin where the heart is closed. Reading between the lines, it seems that this is the story of a soul longing to return to the Father. Sincerity and a contrite heart open the path to reconciliation and healing of the rift between us and God. Jesus is the way to the Father.

     

  3. True Affliction in Hardness of Heart: The Pharisees are fixated on catching Jesus in any misdemeanor they can find. Their jealous attention blinds them to the action and power of God manifest in their presence. Hardness of heart blinds and deafens us as well. Jealousy, rancor, envy, etc., create a thick filter through which God’s light cannot penetrate. Our capacity to perceive objective reality is obscured, and we create a completely different narrative about God. It changes our relationship with him. We are not able to relate to him as we ought, praising and glorifying him for his wondrous deeds, hidden or evident. Hopefully we are among the lot whose astonishment at Jesus’ deeds turned into rejoicing.

Conversing with Christ: Lord Jesus, may your word effect in me a sincere repentance. May your goodness and mercy move me, so that I may be reconciled to you and praise and glorify you.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will examine my conscience in the light of faith to see if jealousy, envy, or anger blind my capacity to wonder at your mercies in me and in others.

For Further Reflection: Conquer Spiritual Blindness, https://catholicexchange.com/conquer-spiritual-blindness.

Jennifer Ristine is a consecrated woman of Regnum Christi who is dedicated to spiritual and faith formation through teaching, conferences, writing, and spiritual direction. While serving in Ancient Magdala she wrote Mary Magdalene: Insights from Ancient Magdala, https://rcspirituality.org/book/mary-magdalene-insights-from-ancient-magdala/.

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Ask a Priest: “Should I Skip Mass to Please My Husband?”

Q: My husband has become a lapsed Catholic and no longer attends Mass. On Sundays, I get up early and take my 11-year-old son to Mass while my husband is asleep (he likes to sleep late), and he’s fine with this arrangement. However, on holidays or vacations when we have plans in the morning, my husband is unwilling to sacrifice those plans [for me] to go to Mass, and if I press the issue, it causes stress in our marriage and will potentially cause an argument. If it wasn’t for my husband, I would happily seek out a Catholic church while on vacation and still attend Mass. So, my question is, am I committing a mortal sin by not going to church during these times? Is not wanting to upset my husband and cause issues in our marriage considered a valid reason? Thank you! — J

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

I’m sorry to hear about the situation.

The short answer is: Your first duty is to God. No one has no right to ask you to skip Mass.

If you skip Mass, it’s more likely that your son will start to conclude that Mass — and the Catholic faith itself — isn’t that important. After all, if Mom and Dad skip Mass, what’s the big deal?

You might be tempted to skip Mass to “keep the peace” at home. But it will be a false peace.

It will reinforce your husband’s idea that Mass isn’t important if he sees you skipping it. A consequent danger is that religion starts to fade into the background of your home.

A big part of your duty as a wife is to try to help your husband get to heaven. You won’t accomplish that by neglecting your own duties as a Catholic.

This is the moment to double down on the practice of your faith.

You might want to intensify your prayers for your spouse and to offer sacrifices for him. These sacrifices could include cooler showers or moderate fasting.

Try to look for opportunities to remind him how important the faith is to you and how important it is to you to pass on the faith to your son.

It might also be good to speak with your pastor or confessor for further guidance.

Count on my prayers.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!