June 3, 2025

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: If God Is Love, Why Is There a Hell?”

Q: For many years I have been tormented by the thought of hell, so much so that I have started to rationalize the possibility that it doesn’t exist. It has ruined my life, frankly. I just can’t understand how hell exists if God is love. Couldn’t he figure out a way to save all of us, even in the afterlife? And honestly, I have experienced how unfair the world is, in that some people have better conditions for holiness in this life, such as good holy parents, while others were dealt with many things that didn’t support a holy lifestyle and so they might struggle with sin. So, we don’t all get an equal chance. And how God can even give us free will to sin? I get that it’s because he “wants us to love him freely,” but it doesn’t make sense to me. If I had a child and I knew they were going to do something evil like kill someone or take drugs, I would stop them if I could and they would probably be thankful later on. If God is a loving father and knows everything, how can he just sit back and watch us mess our lives up? How can he expect us to be perfect? Even though confession exists and we can always repent, still, some are not lucky to do so or have something that prevents them from doing so. While I still believe in a hell (more out of fear I guess), I just can’t fathom it. And I am also terrified I will never live a holy life because of what I struggle with. I don’t even know if it’s worth trying anymore. The odds are against me if the Church is right. – Karen

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Certainly, you raise good questions.

The line between God’s grace and our free will is a fuzzy one that theologians have wrestled with for centuries. And the question of why a good God allows so much evil in the world was a puzzle to the ancients, too (see the Book of Job).

It’s helpful to remember a few principles.

First, God “wills everyone to be saved” (1 Timothy 2:4).

Second, “God is faithful and will not let you be tried beyond your strength; but with the trial he will also provide a way out, so that you may be able to bear it” (1 Corinthians 10:13).

Third, Jesus is quite clear about the eternity of hell. “These will go off to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life” (Matthew 25:46). We disbelieve Jesus at our own risk.

Now, God alone knows the heart and mind of each person. And he knows that he hasn’t given the same gifts to everyone.

And as for folks who didn’t have a lot of advantages growing up: God takes all that into consideration. He is merciful … as well as just. And that is why “Much will be required of the person entrusted with much, and still more will be demanded of the person entrusted with more” (Luke 12:48).

Use of our talents hinges on free will. People can use that free will to sin. God won’t force his love on anyone.

The sobering consequence of all this is that hell is a possibility for those who die in mortal sin.

None of this is the fault of God. He sent his Son to redeem us and gave the sacraments to sustain us.

If ever we feel the urge to blame God, we fall into in the same trap that the devil set for Adam and Eve.

He tempted them to think that the Almighty was cramping their style by barring them from eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.

And when they fell, Adam’s reaction is to shift the blame to God. “The woman whom you put here with me — she gave me fruit from the tree, so I ate it” (Genesis 3:12).

So, beware of the temptation to blame God for the faults of humans. Be doubly wary of any discouragement settling in. Discouragement can corrode the spirit.

If you have difficulty with these teachings, take them to prayer. Try to see yourself as the beloved daughter of a heavenly Father. Ask the Holy Spirit for a deeper faith.

And seek out a solid, regular confessor or spiritual director. You might need to confront other issues lurking under the surface.

 

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A Familiar Call: Be Not Afraid

Dear Friends,

 

 When Pope Leo XIV stepped out onto the loggia of St. Peter’s Basilica on May 8, there was something calming about his presence.

He wore the accoutrements of the occasion and addressed the crowd with such a humble and natural demeanor that you would think he had been doing it for quite a while.

That’s when a thought came to mind: We are in good hands. We have a new Holy Father. Everything will be OK.

How refreshing it was to see a leader who called for peace, with a spirit to match. What a tonic, in an age so rife with strife.

It was a sign that the Petrine ministry is indeed a gift for the Church and the world.

It’s an office that helps to keep humanity pointed in the right direction, even if not everyone follows that map.

During Easter season the first readings at Mass draw heavily on the Acts of the Apostles. The book chronicles in dramatic detail those who did and those who didn’t embrace the Church’s news of the Risen Christ.

So many of the worldly figures mentioned in Acts have left barely a trace in history. What endures is the Church and the proclamation of the Gospel and the celebration of the sacraments bestowed on us by God.

Now is as good a time as ever to focus on those treasures. They help to make life bearable. They give us the hope and strength we need to persevere in this valley of tears.

To connect with an early message of Pope Leo XIV — “Be not afraid!” — it might be useful to pray with a Retreat Guide that focuses on the Holy Father who decades ago popularized that call, “Be Not Afraid: A Retreat Guide on St. John Paul II.”

Let’s pray for Leo XIV, who was fearless enough to accept the mantle of the papacy.

In Christ,

Father Edward McIlmail, LC

Ask a Priest contributor

 

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June 3, 2025 – Communion of Love

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Memorial of Saint Charles Lwanga and Companions, Martyrs

 

John 17:1-11a

When Jesus had said this, he raised his eyes to heaven and said, “Father, the hour has come. Give glory to your son, so that your son may glorify you, just as you gave him authority over all people, so that he may give eternal life to all you gave him. Now this is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and the one whom you sent, Jesus Christ. I glorified you on earth by accomplishing the work that you gave me to do. Now glorify me, Father, with you, with the glory that I had with you before the world began. I revealed your name to those whom you gave me out of the world. They belonged to you, and you gave them to me, and they have kept your word. Now they know that everything you gave me is from you, because the words you gave to me I have given to them, and they accepted them and truly understood that I came from you, and they have believed that you sent me. I pray for them. I do not pray for the world but for the ones you have given me, because they are yours, and everything of mine is yours and everything of yours is mine, and I have been glorified in them. And now I will no longer be in the world, but they are in the world, while I am coming to you. Holy Father, keep them in your name that you have given me, so that they may be one just as we are.”

Opening Prayer: Lord, open my ears and help me hear and understand your words to your disciples. Help me listen to your voice today and be open to what you are asking of me.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Communion of Persons: Jesus prayed out loud to his Father, and he gave us a glimpse into the depth of his Father-Son relationship. Jesus, God made flesh, walked on earth, but his heart was never far from his Father in heaven. They were continually united, heart-to-heart and Person-to-Person. Jesus asked his Father to “give glory to your son, so that your son may glorify you,” and the Son was glorified at the Resurrection. When the disciples received the Holy Spirit (cf. Jn 20:22), that outpouring of love that existed between the Father and the Son appeared as flames above the heads of the disciples. The communion of persons is not only a lofty Trinitarian reality, but also one we are called to make manifest in the world. “Man and woman, created as a ‘unity of the two’ in their common humanity, are called to live in a communion of love, and in this way to mirror in the world the communion of love that is in God, through which the Three Persons love each other in the intimate mystery of the one divine life” (Mulieris Dignitatem, 7). Marriage and family life are a reflection of the life of the Trinity, and the everyday opportunities that present themselves to do something small for a spouse, son or daughter, or aging parent are signs of that communion of love.

  2. Jesus Conquered the World: Since the fall, human relationships have often been a point of contradiction and division. The “world” that Jesus referred to in the Gospel is not the world God created in the beginning, but the fallen natural world that is subject to concupiscence. The unity that man and woman were called to is constantly at risk due to self-seeking and pride. “In the ‘unity of the two’, man and woman are called from the beginning not only to exist ‘side by side’ or ‘together’, but they are also called to exist mutually ‘one for the other’” (Mulieris Dignitatem, 7). The mutual subjection of one to the other out of love for Christ is difficult because we often prefer domination and competition. Christ’s followers are called to live in Christian unity, and not give in to the worldly desire to manipulate one another. We are able to live Christian unity when we rely on the grace of God.

  3. That They May Be One: The first of the four marks of the Church is that she is “One.” But this “oneness” is found in the unity of “the Trinity of Persons… because of her founder… because of her ‘soul’: ‘It is the Holy Spirit, dwelling in those who believe and pervading and ruling over the entire Church, who brings about that wonderful communion of the faithful and joins them together so intimately in Christ that he is the principle of the Church’s unity’” (CCC 813). This communion of persons becomes the reflection of the Trinitarian relationship of God, for “man becomes the image of God not so much in the moment of solitude as in the moment of communion” (St. John Paul II, General Audience, November 14, 1979).

Conversing with Christ: Jesus, I want to discover the unity of your life in the life of my family and my parish community. Give me a sensitivity to your voice alive in the Scriptures and in the community of persons you have put around me. I know you are speaking to me in your word and in my life.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will listen to your invitation through the word to reconcile with someone I have been meaning to reach out to with a phone call or email.

For Further Reflection: Mulieris Dignitatem, August 15, 1988 (St. John Paul II).

Leah Nguyen, mom to six children ranging in age from nine to twenty-four, resides in Kansas City with her deacon husband. She graduated with a master’s degree in theology from Holy Apostles College in 2019, which helps her lead Bible studies in her parish as well as defend the Catholic faith when talking with her teenagers.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!