Spiritually Mentoring Teenage Boys

Personal Dialogue to Make Young Saints

The goal of Catholic youth ministry is that teens experience Christ. Experiencing Christ is always personal. Even when an individual among the million at World Youth Day experiences Christ, the experience is still personal. Faith is always personal. Personal accompaniment offers a way to guide a teen towards such a personal experience. Spiritually Mentoring Teenage Boys is the first book explaining how to accompany teens spiritually.

The evidence shows that those teens who are mentored stick to their faith at a much higher rate than those who aren’t. The personal interest adults have in teens and the depth of conversation with those teens seems to be the number one factor for keeping their faith. Just having teens show up or helping them as a group is no longer adequate – it doesn’t keep teens Catholic. If we want teens to grow in their faith, or even just remain Catholic, spiritual mentoring is essential.

In this book you will learn:
• The changes teens go through and how to respond
• The structure of the spiritual life for teens
• The role of the Holy Spirit
• A practical outline for mentoring
• 10 principles of pedagogy
• 4 areas of formation
• Vocational discernment
• Depth-confidence
• Making a rule of life

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Why are there not more miracles today as in the Early Church?”

Q: Scripture records how commonplace it was for miraculous healings to take place throughout the apostles’ ministries … even when the shadow of an apostle’s cloak passed over someone. Why is it only very rare to hear of physical healings in the Church today? Why has God greatly limited the graces given to priests for physically healing those they minister to? It’s sad. -C.L.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I can understand your sadness at not hearing of more miracles nowadays. One of the great mysteries of life is why God allows so much suffering in this world, including among the innocent.

Your question touches on a number of important points, so let’s take them one by one.

True, the New Testament records that Jesus performed a lot of miracles, either directly or through his apostles. Miracles helped to give credibility to Jesus’ message and helped to demonstrate that he was indeed the Son of God. Miracles also gave credibility to the apostles’ preaching.

Yet miracles were not the end-all of Jesus’ mission. In fact, he tended to give more priority to his preaching than to his miracles. “Let us go on to the nearby villages that I may preach there also. For this purpose have I come” (Mark 1:38).

Presumably, Jesus could have spent all his time performing miraculous cures. But he didn’t. It is not that he was indifferent to people’s physical suffering. Rather, he was more interested in healing their souls, in bringing them to repentance.

Still, miracles seemed to have a more prominent place in the early Church. As time went on, it seemed that God relied on more-normal signs of his grace to accompany his Church. These included the numerous works of charity done by and within Christian communities and the witness of Christian marriages and families.

Of course, miracles are not a thing of the past. There are still miracles today. The Church canonizes saints, in part, on the basis of miracles done in their name. This does not imply that there are not other miracles in the world. Many of us have heard of seemingly miraculous cures, such as among cancer patients who enjoy an inexplicable recovery. True, the Church might never verify officially that these cures are miracles. Yet, our intellects can draw faith-filled conclusions when presented with powerful evidence.

It is good to remember that the best cures are spiritual. “Miracles” of grace can bring people back to the sacrament of confession after a lapse of decades. That kind of healing has consequences that can last longer than any physical cure. (For further reading, you might consider the “Amazing Grace” books series published by Ascension Press. The books compile real-life experiences of normal people in today’s world who had remarkable, “miraculous” encounters with God’s grace.)

In answer to your last observation, I’d say that God has already given priests the gift of being able to bring the best healing to souls, through the sacraments. God has been known to give special powers of healing to some priests and laypeople. In any case, the Almighty is not indifferent to our suffering. Often he wants us to simply embrace it and offer it back to him for the sake of souls and for his glory. I hope this helps. Rest assured of my prayers.

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Strength of Thousands | An RC Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Confirmation by Fr John Bartunek, LC

Strength of Thousands: A Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Confirmation

Life in this fallen world is a battle. And as Christians, we are not only called to engage courageously in the fight, but we are also equipped to do so. We are given supernatural strength and wisdom through a special outpouring of the Holy Spirit. That’s what the sacrament of confirmation is all about. Strength of Thousands: A Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Confirmation, is all about understanding and tapping into a little bit more of that supernatural strength.

  • The First Meditation delves into the nature of our mission as baptized and confirmed Christians in this fallen world.
  • The Second Meditation looks at what happens in our lives when we accept and live out this mission.
  • And the conference unpacks one of Our Lord’s best-known parables in order to discover how to release the full power of the Holy Spirit in our souls.

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River of Wisdom | A Regnum Christi Retreat Guide on the Rosary with Fr. John Bartunek, LC

River of Wisdom: A Retreat Guide on the Rosary

If there existed a deep, rushing river whose waters gave eternal wisdom to anyone who drank them, wouldn’t you want to seek it out? Well, such a river does exist: It’s called the Rosary, and it’s within arms’ reach of anyone.  But to drink of its waters, we have to discover its secrets: its connection to the Mother of God, and her connection to Christ. This month’s Retreat Guide, River of Wisdom: A Retreat Guide on the Rosary, offers just such a discovery.

  • In the first meditation, we will look at the essence of Marian devotion, and one fundamental form of that devotion.
  • In the second meditation, we will look at two other basic forms of Marian devotion.
  • And in the conference, we will talk about the practical activities – including praying the Rosary – that can help us develop and benefit from this devotion in our daily lives.

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The Tomb and the Pearl | A Regnum Christi Retreat Guide for Easter with Fr. John Bartunek, LC

The Tomb and the Pearl: A Retreat Guide for Easter

This Retreat Guide, “The Tomb and the Pearl,” is designed to help you “go forward towards the light”, as the Holy Father recently put it, so that the glorious Easter Mystery can make a fresh impact on your life.

  • In the First Meditation, you will participate in St. Mary Magdalene’s transforming experience of the empty tomb on that first Easter Sunday.
  • The Second Meditation shows you how to seek your own personal transformation through our Lord’s parable of the pearl of great price.
  • And in the Conference, we will review the “Four Last Things” — death, judgment, heaven, and hell — addressing the false ideas prevalent in secular culture that distort our vision of the afterlife and affect our vision of life here.

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Catholic Advice for your Spiritual Questions Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Answers: Catholic Advice For Your Spiritual Questions

Those who sincerely seek to know God (and themselves) better often struggle to find answers to thoughtful and sometimes troubling questions about the spiritual life, including: • Who is God? • How can I know God’s will in my life? • Does God really hear me when I pray? • Why is there so much suffering in the world today? • What makes Catholicism different than other religions? Father John Bartunek has spent much of his priesthood helping others understand what it means to have an authentic, personal relationship with God. A master communicator, he is able to make difficult truths understandable, while at the same time issuing a call to action. For those seeking real answers about prayer, spiritual growth, living in the world today, overcoming sin, and the distinctiveness of the Catholic faith, Fr. John’s advice will speak to their souls and touch their heart in this book.

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Trouble with Trust | A Regnum Christi Retreat Guide for Lent with Fr. Bartunek, LC

Trouble with Trust: A Retreat Guide for Lent

St. Paul tells us that because of Christ’s Passion — his suffering, death, and resurrection — God proves that he is completely trustworthy: … If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but handed him over for us all, how will he not also give us everything else along with him? –Romans 8:31-32 All of us would like to believe this as deeply as St. Paul did, to trust God more firmly in the midst of life’s trials. Lent is a season to strengthen our trust, precisely by turning our attention to Christ’s Passion, and this Lenten Retreat Guide, Trouble with Trust, is designed to help.

  • In the first meditation, we will discover why it is so hard for us to trust God, by going back to the Garden of Eden.
  • In the second meditation, we will watch Jesus rebuild the bridge of trust between humanity and God, in the Garden of Gethsemane.
  • And in the conference, we will go over some ways to exercise our own trust in God, and make it grow.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!