Bridge to Eternity: A Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Holy Orders

Bridge to Eternity: A Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Holy Orders

For many years, my religious order followed a tradition of ordaining our members to the priesthood on Christmas Eve. I remember preparing for my own ordination: eight days of silent retreat full of prayer and penance as Christmas approached; and then, on Christmas eve, becoming a priest of Jesus Christ for all eternity. It’s hard to forget an experience like that. But why schedule priestly ordinations for Christmas Eve? Why not choose a date more convenient for families traveling to celebrate their sons’ ordinations? What’s the point of piling such an important celebration onto a day that is already overflowing with liturgical significance? It’s all about the symbolism. The sacrament of Holy Orders, instituted by Jesus himself, is meant to be an extension throughout history of Christ’s own incarnation, of his priestly mission to this fallen world, which begins to shine out with the birth of the Savior in Bethlehem on Christmas night. In a sense, every ordination truly is another Bethlehem: the birth of a messenger and bearer of God’s saving grace into a world needing redemption. Bridge to Eternity: A Retreat Guide on the Sacrament of Holy Orders, will explore this mysterious reality.
  • In the first meditation, we will prayerfully reflect on God’s vision for the Holy Orders of deacon, priest, and bishop.
  • In the second meditation, we will look at how Jesus the Good Shepherd is the model of every priest.
  • And in the conference, we will examine some of the reasons behind the discipline of priestly celibacy.

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Is it OK to Exercise on Sundays?”

Q: Would you please be able to tell me Church teaching on doing exercise/working out on Sundays? Is it wrong to do this or is it OK? Thank you very much for your time and the work you do! -C.S.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Your question touches on the first precept of the Church, “You shall attend Mass on Sundays and holy days of obligation and rest from servile labor.”

Two numbers in the Catechism help us to understand the context of the precept:

2184 Just as God “rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had done,” human life has a rhythm of work and rest. The institution of the Lord’s Day helps everyone enjoy adequate rest and leisure to cultivate their familial, cultural, social, and religious lives.

2185 On Sundays and other holy days of obligation, the faithful are to refrain from engaging in work or activities that hinder the worship owed to God, the joy proper to the Lord’s Day, the performance of the works of mercy, and the appropriate relaxation of mind and body. Family needs or important social service can legitimately excuse one from the obligation of Sunday rest. The faithful should see to it that legitimate excuses do not lead to habits prejudicial to religion, family life, and health.

In practical terms we could say: If exercise impedes you from worship, do it on another day; if exercise impedes you from “adequate rest and leisure,” do it on another day.

In the mind of the Church, the Lord’s Day needs to be different from other days. So how we choose to live that day should reflect this difference. That choice is in your hands. Prayer will help you make the right choice.

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“Ask a Priest: How Could One Being Keep Track of Us All?”

Q: I am a Catholic. I was raised Catholic. I go to church on Sundays. I am in a 12-step program through Overeaters Anonymous. This is a program based on a belief in a higher power. I have been in the program for over nine years. I am successful in maintaining my weight loss, but I am struggling with believing in an all-knowing, invisible supreme being. How can one person keep track of the millions and millions of us in the past and in the future? That is my quandary. I am a 72-year-old widow who wants to believe and wants to receive guidance. Thank you. -J.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You raise a big question: How, indeed, does one person keep track of all us?
First, it is good to note that God is not one person but Three: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. It is the core mystery of the Christian faith. It is beyond our capacity to understand it totally. We believe because Jesus revealed it. (“Persons” in God are not like three human persons; rather, they are what theologians call “subsistent relations.” But we don’t need to pause on this point.)

If it seems impossible that God, the Supreme Being, could keep track of all of us, it might be good to look at what he has produced.

At the macro level he has created a physical universe that is estimated to be tens of billions of light-years across (and growing). On the micro level each one of our cells has DNA with billions of “rungs” in it. Our brains, which weigh a little over 3 pounds, have an estimated 86 billion nerve cells. Think of insects. Some weigh a fraction of an ounce, yet they are self-propelled and can reproduce. The wonders of nature are all around us and in us as well.

Who made all this? God did. And a God who is capable of producing so much intricacy, so much beauty, so much grandeur – well, that is a God whose intellect and power goes well beyond anything we could imagine.

And the truly wonderful thing about all this is that this God is a loving God. And you are his beloved daughter. He has looked after you all your life and probably spared you from more trouble than you ever imagine. He also puts a desire in you. You have a desire for perfect love, for eternal love. You mention that you are a widow. I could only imagine the pain you went through to lose your husband. Deep down, don’t you hunger for a love that will never end, a lover who will never be separated from you? That is who God is.

Maybe at this point of life you might just try to pray. Ask God for the gift of faith to trust in his presence in your life. He is mysterious, but he will hear your prayer. And his Spirit can lead you. (For further reading, check out the works of Peter Kreeft, here.)

I pray that the Holy Spirit lead you to all truth. God bless.

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A Cure for Discouragement | A Regnum Christi Retreat Guide for Easter with Fr. John Bartunek, LC

A Cure for Discouragement: A Retreat Guide for Easter

The appearances of Jesus after his Resurrection, as recorded in the New Testament, are, to be honest, kind of confusing.  The people he appears to don’t recognize him right away, even though they knew him before. Critics of Christianity attribute these appearances to the imagination of Christ’s followers.  They say that the first Christians simply invented the Resurrection, and that’s why the Gospel accounts are so confusing. Pope Benedict XVI attributes the unique character of these Gospel pages to one simple cause: Christ’s Resurrection itself was something entirely, radically new. He writes:  “It was an utterly unique experience, which burst open the normal boundaries of experience and yet for the disciples was quite beyond doubt.  This explains the unique character of the Resurrection accounts…” In this Easter Retreat Guide, A Cure for Discouragement, we will dive into one of these accounts, our Lord’s appearance to the disciples on the road to Emmaus.

  • The first meditation will look at the cause of their discouragement.
  • The second meditation will contemplate our Lord’s cure for it.
  • And the conference will offer practical tips to help us do for others what Jesus did for them.

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“Ask a Priest: Am I an Apostate for Converting to Judaism?”

Q: A few days after my 60th birthday, I received a powerful revelation from Almighty God directing me to convert to Judaism. The only other time in my life that I’ve had a revelation was at the age of 18 as I lay dying of major injuries following a cataclysmic auto accident. It was then that an angel appeared to me and said, “Your time has not yet come, you must fulfill your destiny.” For the next 42 years I prayed and prayed to God to reveal my destiny — but there was nothing but silence. When I first approached a rabbi, I said, “Rabbi, I truly believe that God has directed me to this (conversion).” I didn’t want him to think me crazy, but I would have much rather said, “Rabbi, the Most High has commanded this of me, through a divine vision, to abandon my past and convert to Judaism.” Whatever the case may be, I’ve left my lifelong Christian beliefs behind to follow the directives of Adonai (God). And so, my question is whether I’m a recognized apostate who has committed the ultra-sacrilege in light of Pope St. John Paul II’s declaration that “Judaism is a sister religion”? And if so, then how can a Catholic commit the high crime sin of apostasy when he does the command of God? -S.A

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: In fact, the answer to your question is pretty simple. It is unlikely this revelation to convert to Judaism came from God. Why do I say this? Because the fullness of God’s revelation came in the person of Jesus Christ.

And what did Jesus tell his disciples? To seek converts to Judaism? No. Rather he commanded, “Make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:19-20).

Notice what Jesus commands: baptism (a Christian sacrament) in the name of the Trinity (a Christian revelation). God will not contradict himself, commanding that people be evangelized and baptized and brought into the Church, on the one hand, and then turning around and telling you to convert to Judaism. That is not how God works.

Judaism can be thought of as the precursor to Christianity, but the latter supersedes the former in its revelation. John Paul II’s description of Jews as “our elder brothers and sister” in the faith should not be interpreted as his somehow equating Judaism and Christianity.

And what about your “powerful revelation”? We could heed Scripture again: “Beloved, do not trust every spirit but test the spirits to see whether they belong to God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1).

Now, the Catechism defines apostasy as “the total repudiation of the Christian faith” (No. 2089). Still, the Church recognizes a person’s freedom of conscience in regard to religious belief, even if he is mistaken. And in practice the Church won’t be running around pinning the apostate label on this person or that person. God alone knows the hearts of men.

I pray that you reconsider your decision and take it to prayer, so that the Spirit may guide you to all truth.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!