May 12, 2026 – It Is Better for You That I Go

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Tuesday of the Sixth Week of Easter

 

John 16:5-11

Jesus said to his disciples: “Now I am going to the one who sent me, and not one of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’ But because I told you this, grief has filled your hearts. But I tell you the truth, it is better for you that I go. For if I do not go, the Advocate will not come to you. But if I go, I will send him to you. And when he comes he will convict the world in regard to sin and righteousness and condemnation: sin, because they do not believe in me; righteousness, because I am going to the Father and you will no longer see me; condemnation, because the ruler of this world has been condemned.”

Opening Prayer: Dearest Lord, I know that you will always speak the truth no matter how difficult it may be for me to hear or understand. Send your Holy Spirit to keep me on the path of righteousness.

Encountering Christ:

  1. “Where Are You Going?”: Jesus had to leave this world in order to fulfill his mission. Perhaps none of the Apostles asked where he was going because they trusted him despite their lack of understanding. In our own experience, we can trust that everything happens for a reason, even though at times we may not understand and even desire a different course or outcome. We trust because we know we are beloved sons and daughters of our loving Father.

     

  2. “Grief Has Filled Your Hearts”: The Apostles had met Jesus, devoted three years of their life to following him, learning from him, depending on him—and now he was talking about departing. No doubt, they were more than sorrowful—they were probably frightened, confused, and angry. Their vague understanding of “the Advocate” who was to come did not assuage their grief. We know that most of them scattered during Our Lord’s Passion. Grief, fear, uncertainty—these are difficult and powerful emotions. When we suffer loss in our own lives, Our Lord desires to accompany us, perhaps mitigate our suffering, or at the very least give us supernatural strength to carry it. We can’t suffer well without his help, and so we stay close to Jesus in prayer, knowing that he works everything out for our ultimate good (cf. Rom 8:28).

     

  3. Humility: Jesus made it clear to his Apostles that he had to leave so that he could send the Holy Spirit. He was passing his ministry onto the Apostles, who were to be strengthened and readied by the Holy Spirit. He shows us that there can come a time when it is good and necessary to hand our mission over to the next person. We don’t want to pridefully cling to our work if that’s not his will, so let’s beg for the Spirit’s discernment and, if required, let go.

Conversing with Christ: Christ Jesus, when I feel “abandoned” and filled with sorrow, confusion, or anger, help me to trust that you are with me and give me the grace to lean into your loving embrace. Additionally, help me to know when to stay focused and when to let go of the work you have given me to do.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will prayerfully evaluate all areas of work to see if it is time to let go. If so, I will begin a plan for transition.

For Further Reflection: Some books to help: Humility; The Temperament God Gave You; Abandonment to Divine Providence.

Marjorie Davin is a lay member of Regnum Christi who has served as director of the Women’s Section in the Washington, D.C., area. She and her husband have been married for over 30 years and are the parents of four adult children.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!