“Ask a Priest: Why Try to Scare People Into Believing?”

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Q: Do you really believe that scaring people and telling them that they ought to live by this specific set of rules, otherwise they will burn for eternity, is the way a supreme being would attempt to obtain followers? Serious question. – S.W.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: By “specific set of rules” I’ll assume that you mean Catholicism and its various precepts and norms and canon laws.

Catholicism isn’t about fear-mongering, and at its core it’s not about rules. Rather, the Church teaches what Jesus taught, guided by the Holy Spirit, in its mission to help souls reach heaven.

The notion of eternal punishment is not something the Church invented. Jesus himself warned of it on a number of occasions, for instance, in Luke 16:23 (“torment”), Mark 9:43 (“unquenchable fire”), Mark 9:43 (“their worm does not die”), and Matthew 25:46 (“eternal punishment”).

In general, the Church prefers to motivate people toward a path of love: love for God, love for fellow human beings. Love in the long run is generally a more effective motivation than fear.

The Church also emphasizes God’s mercy, which he is willing to extend to the repentant. (For more reading, see Pope St. John Paul II’s encyclical that focuses on God’s mercy.)

In any case, our eternal destiny is worth keeping in view.

The potential loss of souls helps explain why the Son of God would be willing to come among us and suffer a horrible death for our redemption.

His cross on Calvary is a reminder of how serious sin is.

 

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!