Lent 2025 – Day 1 – How Much is Up to Me?

We now need to profit from the grace received, by putting it into practice in resolutions and guidelines for action. 

  —  St. John Paul II, Novo Millennio, 3

Jesus seems to contradict himself. On the one hand, he tells us that “apart from me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). He is the vine, he explains in the same passage, and we are only branches, completely dependent on the flow of sap and life that comes to us through the vine. The word used for nothing in the Greek, in fact, is the simple, total negative — nothing at all, absolute zero.

Yet on the other hand, Jesus looks us in the eye and implores us, “Strive to enter by the narrow door; for many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able” (Luke 13:24). Here he begs us to put all our effort into following him, obeying him, seeking him. The Greek word for strive connotes struggle, fight, and the kind of intensity that amazes us when we watch, riveted, as Olympic athletes battle for the gold.

What is going on here? How can we reconcile our Lord’s injunction that we are absolutely helpless and dependent in the spiritual life with his command to fight to the death, as it were, in order to achieve spiritual maturity and salvation?

St. Paul to the Rescue?

What a relief it would be if St. Paul were to resolve the dilemma for us! But, this time anyway, he comes up short. He too, it seems, contradicts himself. In defending his apostolic credentials, he points out to the Christians in Corinth that “by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me has not been ineffective. Indeed, I have toiled harder than all of them; not I, however, but the grace of God with me” (1 Corinthians 15:10). 

Paul attributes all that he is and all that he has accomplished as a follower of Jesus to “the grace of God.” But in the same breath, he claims to have contributed to his Christian greatness by having “toiled harder” than anybody else. The Greek word used for toil connotes wearisome, back­breaking exertion. Etymologically, it harkens back to a term associated with the demanding, harsh, and unrelenting work of an agricultural laborer before the advent of mechanized farm equipment. That’s the kind of contribution St. Paul feels that he has made to his Christian mission, even while he affirms that God’s grace is the sole source of all the good fruits his mission has borne.

We can see no light at the end of this tunnel. We are stuck with the paradox: Our Christian life depends entirely on God’s grace, yet it also depends on our human efforts in order to make that grace bear fruit. It is a partnership. The theologian-pope, Benedict XVI, affirmed this paradox without trying to explain it away when commenting on our Lord’s parables about seeds.

Every Christian, then, knows well that he must do all that he can, but that the final result depends on God: this knowledge sustains him in daily toil, especially in difficult situations.

The Holy Father went on to quote the cavalier-turned-mystic, St. Ignatius of Loyola, to drive the point home: “Act as if everything depended on you, knowing that in reality everything depends on God.” 

The Right Proportion

Here we have one of the many binary star systems, spiritually speaking, in the galaxy of the Gospels. 

A binary star system happens when two stars share a common center of mass. In such a situation, their orbits are perfectly harmonized and inextricably interdependent. As one moves, the other moves. As one turns, the other turns. They seem to pull against each other, and yet the tension between them is actually the source of their dynamism. Likewise, in our growth toward spiritual maturity, the mysterious partnership between God’s action and our action creates a healthy kind of tension from which spiritual dynamism flows.

Each binary star system consists of a brighter star (the primary star) and a dimmer star (the companion star). In our pursuit of intimacy with God — of the spiritual maturity that alone will yield the lasting fulfillment we are created for — God’s grace is the primary star, and our effort is the companion star. God’s grace is primary, 99 percent. Our striving is secondary, 1 percent. And yet, both are necessary; without the 1 percent, the job will not be done.

To switch analogies, think of cooking. The ingredients for a plate of primavera pasta come from myriad suppliers: the farmers who grow and harvest the wheat and the vegetables, the olive oil and the tomatoes (not to mention the God-given natural forces that give and sustain the lives of those plants); the transportation companies that bring those products to food-­processing plants; the food-processing plants themselves; more transportation companies to put the goods in the grocery store; the grocery store team that preserves and arranges and sells. . . . By the time those ingredients are lined up on the kitchen counter and ready to be prepped and cooked, hundreds if not thousands of people have already contributed to the meal. That’s like the 99 percent. And yet, unless someone chops, simmers, boils, and stirs, the meal will never make it to the table. That’s like the 1 percent.

True Partners

St. Augustine, the great bishop from North Africa who helped the Church survive the cataclysmic fall of the western Roman Empire early on in Christian history, expressed this truth cleverly when he wrote: “God created us without us: but he did not will to save us without us.” God created us to live in a relationship with him, not to be robots. So, even though we are entirely dependent on him for our existence and our spiritual growth, he chooses to limit his omnipotence, in a sense, in order to leave us room to become true partners in salvation history.

Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion

What idea in this reflection struck you most and why?

 In what ways have you personally experienced this paradox of Christianity, this binary star system of God’s grace and your effort?

 Explain why God chooses to make the fruitfulness of his grace in your life depend so much on your collaboration.

 What will you do today to keep yourself in better harmony with God, the “primary star” of your life?

  • I will say a short prayer of thanksgiving before each meal.
  • I will write a “note to God” thanking him for a specific blessing.
  • (Write your own resolution) I will

Concluding Prayer

O God, strength of those who hope in you, graciously hear our pleas, and, since without you mortal frailty can do nothing, grant us always the help of your grace, that in following your commands we may please you by our resolve and our deeds.

  —  Roman Missal, Collect for the Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!