Q: I was raised in a Baptist church and became agnostic. I am a single mother of two children, and I was not raised Catholic. My children have not been brought up with religion. I want to convert to Catholicism as I feel God’s spirit is guiding me there. But I am not sure if someone in my position can be accepted in the Church due to having had children out of wedlock, and my ex-partners are not religious either. How can I become a Catholic and raise my children in the faith in my position? Please help, thank you. – J.L.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: It’s wonderful to hear about your interest in joining the Church.

You certainly can be accepted into Catholicism. Jesus is ready with an embrace of love to welcome you into his Church.

In preparation, you would need to receive the proper catechesis (instruction) in the faith.

The best thing would be to contact the nearest Catholic parish and ask about its OCIA program (formerly called the RCIA). This would teach you the basics of Catholic beliefs and practices.

It would be good to speak with the pastor or another priest at the parish and explain your situation. I’m sure they will be happy to guide you.

In the meantime, feel free to attend Mass, but please refrain from receiving Communion.

And pray for your children, too. You might want to start introducing them to the faith as soon as possible.

You could teach them to pray the rosary. And put statues of the saints and the Blessed Virgin Mary in your home, along with crucifixes.

It might help to tune in to Catholic radio in your area. This will help you to assimilate the faith.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers for you and your children.