October 6, 2026

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Learning from the Carthusians

Dear Friends,

 

October 6 is the feast day of St. Bruno, the founder of the Carthusian order.

Delve into Church history a bit, and eventually you learn how the Carthusians never had to be reformed … because they were never deformed.

One trait that has served them well is their austere lifestyle, renowned even among other religious.

That austerity marks the lone Carthusian monastery in North America, in Vermont.

A writer who visited the monastery recalled one (apparently faint-hearted) visitor: “One arrived by taxi, without luggage, of course, entered the building, approached his cell, then stopped, turned around, and sped back to the same taxi, never to return.”

Few are called to the hardscrabble life of a Carthusian. But all of us can learn something practical from the monks, namely, to be willing to embrace tough choices and stick with them.

What might those tough choices be? Perhaps getting rid of cable TV or streaming services. Or going back to flip phones if the smart ones make a mess of our spiritual lives. Or purging our homes of every superfluous gadget or item of clothing or piece of furniture.

Given the state of the culture, now is as good a time to make radical decisions to change the contours of our lives.

In a world that prizes wealth and pleasure, we can gain a lot by cultivating a spirit of poverty and austerity.

To that end, it might be helpful to pray with our Retreat Guide on the First Beatitude.

The Carthusians have endured, thanks in part to their asceticism. That’s a trait that could help the rest of us who must live more embedded in the world.

In Christ,
Father Edward McIlmail, LC
Ask a Priest contributor

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Bruno

Dear Bruce, I am quite exasperated with you.  Your sister (God will bless her for it) has kept me duly informed of your deplorable dissipation in recent weeks.  Why must you tempt Providence with your repeated relapses into dissolute living?  I can only conclude that God has huge plans for you, otherwise the devil wouldn’t spend so much time and energy drawing you into worthless (and potentially harmful) distractions over and over again.  I am convinced that God has such plans, but what does it matter if I am convinced?  You need to be convinced of it; otherwise you’ll continue to be easy demon fodder.  Today especially I will pray for you, and ask St Bruno to aid you with one of his miracles. Actually, Bruno would be a good patron for you.  He’s one of those spiritual giants that tried his best to keep under the radar screen of fame, but God foiled his efforts.  He was born in central Germany, educated at the famous cathedral school of Rheims, became professor there, and in turn educated a generation of holy priests, bishops, and even a Pope.  After maintaining that famous school for 18 years, the local bishop appointed him diocesan chancellor (kind of like personal secretary for the bishop).  Soon thereafter, Bruno realized that the bishop was living a scandalous life, and confronted him about it, following the proper ecclesiastical channels.  The bishop was resentful, to say the least, and his threats of reprisal sent Bruno and his fellow accusers into hiding.  During the years when he served the Church in an “active” capacity, he had developed a deep yearning to devote himself to God more exclusively, free from the shackles of worldly concerns.  He took advantage of this incident with his scandalous bishop to pursue that desire. You see, as his reputation for scholarship, holiness, and prudence spread, it became clear that he would eventually be nominated to the archbishopric of Rheims.  But in his heart he knew that God was asking him to pursue a more solitary life.  So he left behind the popularity, comfort, and prestige of his coveted position (bishops played important roles both ecclesiastically and civilly in the Middle Ages), and approached St Hugh (bishop of Grenoble) with a few companions, asking for permission and land to start a community of monks.  St Hugh saw the hand of God in the proposal, and gladly provided him with everything he needed, most especially a harsh mountain plateau called the Chartreuse, where Bruno and his companions built a little chapel and a cluster of cells.  There they took upon themselves the regularity and austerities of a religious community dedicated to prayer (individual and communal), solitude, study, and work (mostly copying books –their lifestyle was poor to the extreme, but their library was rich).  They arranged themselves in little huts separate from each other, and came together periodically for Mass and for parts of the Divine Office.  Thus was born the only ancient religious order that has never been reformed, because it never needed a reform, the Carthusians. Six years after the foundation of this religious order, God gave Bruno a heavy cross.  One of his former students had become Pope, and asked the saint to leave behind his hermitage and come to Rome, where he could be a papal advisor.  Nothing could have been more distasteful for the holy monk than returning to the “toils and honors” (as he called it) of the world.  But out of love for Christ and his Vicar, he obeyed.  In Rome (and, later, in Calabria, in southern Italy) he advised Church officials, but he also managed to continue a semi-monastic life style, which attracted more disciples.  Soon communities of Carthusians sprang up in Italy as well as France.  Since then, this remarkable religious order has never ceased being one of the most inspiring lights in the large constellation of the Church’s communal charisms. Perhaps St Bruno will be able to help you decide once and for all to make Christ and his Kingdom your first priority.  Only in that way will you find the peace and joy you keep hoping to get from all those other pursuits of yours. Love, Uncle Eddy

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Should I Miss Mass and Go to Confession Later?

Q: Today I missed a morning Sunday Mass due to being up all night. I want to go to 6 p.m. Mass but will have to leave right after communion (which I don’t like to do), but I need to get to my birthday party dinner that my daughter is having for me. Would this be OK or should I just miss Mass and go to confession as soon as possible? — D.H.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

Ideally, no one should never leave Mass right after communion. The Mass ends with the final blessing.

I hope that you went to that 6 p.m. Mass and that you stayed for the whole thing. The birthday party can wait.

More troubling is your question about skipping Mass and going to confession later.

To deliberately choose to gravely offend God while presuming on his mercy is, to put it mildly, lamentable. Not to mention dangerous.

At the very least, failing to give God proper worship, especially on your birthday, is no way to treat the one who gave you the gift of life.

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October 6, 2026 – Charity Above All (Part 2)

Tuesday of the Twenty-Seventh Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 10:38-42

Jesus entered a village where a woman whose name was Martha welcomed him. She had a sister named Mary who sat beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak. Martha, burdened with much serving, came to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving? Tell her to help me.” The Lord said to her in reply, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things. There is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.”

Opening Prayer: Lord, I want to sit at your feet like Mary. I have many things crying for my attention, but I know that being here with you and listening to you speak is the only thing I really need. Give me the strength in this short time of prayer to remain with you throughout the day.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Sitting at the Feet of Christ: Sometimes prayer seems confusing, faraway, impossible. We can feel like we need a new method, more peace and quiet, less to do. When we feel like prayer is impossible, this is the passage to return to. Prayer is not a method; rather, it is being like Mary and simply sitting at the feet of Christ. Or as St. Thérèse put it, “For me, prayer is a burst from my heart, it is a simple glance thrown toward heaven.” Sometimes it will seem like Christ says nothing, sometimes we will feel like doing anything besides getting on our knees, but those are the moments to strive even more to put our heart into prayer, make it real. Mary in this Gospel wanted to soak up every word that Christ uttered, so she planted herself next to him and listened. Let us do the same and foster a real desire to listen to Christ.

     

  2. “Lord, Tell Her to Help Me”: Before we start criticizing Martha for being self-focused, we might want to put ourselves in her place. After all, it is not as if Christ came to the house alone—his seventy-two disciples had just returned from their mission, and they may have all accompanied him to Lazarus’ home. It’s very possible that Martha had almost one hundred mouths to feed on short notice. Martha loved Christ as Mary did. Actually, she was one of the very few who explicitly called Jesus “Christ, the Son of God,” and that was right after Jesus had let her brother die (cf. Jn 11)! But she was a practical woman. As she served, she let her pragmatism get the best of her and believed that Mary’s time would have been better spent feeding the dozens of hungry men.

     

  3. “Martha, Martha…”: Jesus saw the hearts of both women; Mary was not being lazy, maybe just a little distracted, and Martha, while being very responsible, had forgotten that the guest is more important than the meal. So he gently soothed her: “Martha, Martha, it’s going to be okay! Mary has chosen the better part, and I can’t tell her not to love me.” It is easy to imagine Jesus with a gentle smile on his face, lovingly chiding Martha. When we feel overwhelmed by life and its very real difficulties, let us go to Christ, look him in the eyes, and hear him tell us, “Don’t worry! There is one thing necessary: Put your trust in me, and I will never fail you.”

Conversing with Christ: Lord, thank you for this time of prayer. I know that no matter how much it seems like I am weak, like I mess up, you will be there to pick me up and send me on my way. Teach me to focus on the one thing necessary, even in the midst of the activity and rush of daily life.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will take a moment during the day to put myself back in your presence and offer what I’m doing to you.

For Further Reflection: Fewer have reflected on “the one thing necessary” more than St. Augustine, particularly in his Confessions.

Riley Connors was born in Dayton, Ohio. He studied classical humanities and philosophy with the Legionaries of Christ. He enjoys running, thinking, praying, and, on occasion, all three.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!