September 22, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Thomas of Villanova

Dear Tom, Remember Achilles!  You need to take care, my young nephew, that you remember the stuff of which you’re made.  You may be tall, strong, good-looking and an All-American athlete, but you will soon be gray-haired, wizened, and weak, unless you die before you get to that point.  We are mortal beings, and if we forget it, thinking that we are invincible, God will have to remind us (and those reminders are not always comfortable).  How the devil loves to turn into towering egoists those souls with which God has endowed health and vigor!  Health and vigor are gifts from God, and they need to bear fruit for the Kingdom. Today’s saint discovered the secret to keeping life in its proper perspective.  Though he became archbishop of the wealthy and influential see of Valencia, Spain, he never gave in to temptations to luxury, and always put his power and income at the service of the poor.  By the time he had reached his mid-twenties, he was named professor of philosophy in his native university town of Alcalá.  Soon afterwards, he joined the Augustinian Friars there, taking the habit and vows (poverty, chastity, and obedience) of a religious.  After being ordained a priest, he was put to work as teacher and superior among his brothers in religion, but his preaching and virtue shone so brightly that wherever he lived, lay students and citizens demanded permission to attend his lectures and sermons.  During his years as religious superior, he gave special attention to those who were sick.  He taught the young religious under his care that the infirmary was the burning bush of Moses, “where he who devotes himself to the sick will assuredly find God among the thorns with which he is surrounded,” as one biographer has put it.  His frequent ecstasies and raptures occurred at the most inopportune times (once when he was delivering a sermon he held up a crucifix saying “Christians, look here!” whereupon he himself was uplifted to such a state of ravished contemplation that he could not continue speaking), which spread far and wide the knowledge of his holiness and spiritual leadership.  Soon he was elevated to the Archbishopric of Valencia, and there he continued his tireless solicitude for every sector of his large and unruly flock, but especially the sick and the poor, whom he continued to serve with his own hands. Which is why I thought of him as I was reflecting on the temptations that you must be facing while you enter into your illustrious athletic prime.  Would it not be wise to follow the example of St Thomas and spend some of your time visiting the sick and the elderly, to bring them encouragement and to learn from them the lessons of the cross?  It’s just a thought… In any case, congratulations on being an All-American; I hope it won’t keep you from being a saint. God bless, Uncle Eddy

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Is It a Sin to Be Ugly?

Q: Is it a sin to be ugly or physically unattractive? I’ve never been seen as attractive by guys, and I have a very asymmetrical face. I know beauty is one of the transcendentals and that beauty is largely objective, but that makes me feel so awful because I know I’m ugly and I’m worried that it’s somehow a sin. My friends say that I should get plastic surgery as soon as I can save up for it, but I don’t really want to. I was raised to believe that the way someone acts/someone’s inner virtue is what we should focus on. But ever since becoming Catholic I’ve been wondering if being pretty is important too. Thank you for your help. — Natalie

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

“Ugliness” is not a sin.

I put that in quotes because beauty (and hence, ugliness) means different things to different people.

The beauty of a woman is found most profoundly in her loving heart.

The Old and New Testaments attest to this truth.

“Charm is deceptive and beauty fleeting,” says Proverbs 31:20; “the woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.”

Then there is the advice 1 Peter 3:3-4 to wives: “Your adornment should not be an external one: braiding the hair, wearing gold jewelry, or dressing in fine clothes, but rather the hidden character of the heart, expressed in the imperishable beauty of a gentle and calm disposition, which is precious in the sight of God.”

Closer to our own day, Pope St. John Paul echoed similar wisdom.

“[I]n giving themselves to others each day women fulfill their deepest vocation,” he wrote in his 1995 Letter to Women. “Perhaps more than men, women acknowledge the person, because they see persons with their hearts. They see them independently of various ideological or political systems. They see others in their greatness and limitations; they try to go out to them and help them.

“In this way the basic plan of the Creator takes flesh in the history of humanity and there is constantly revealed, in the variety of vocations, that beauty — not merely physical, but above all spiritual — which God bestowed from the very beginning on all, and in a particular way on women.”

(For related reading on plastic surgery, see this Catholic Answers post.)

Your focus on inner virtue is correct. God, too, looks beyond surface beauty and sees the heart.

It would be good to keep working on those inner virtues through prayer and frequent recourse to the sacraments.

And look to get involved in volunteer work. Lots of people, no doubt, would appreciate your help.

And they would likely see your inner beauty soon enough.

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How to make your work a prayer

“What does it mean to make your work a prayer, and how can you remain united to the Lord when your attention is absorbed in the task at hand?”

Dear Friends,

 

These were two of the questions that my community of consecrated women were able to ask during our parlor visit, across the double grill, at the Carmelite convent of the Incarnation in Avila last month.

                  The five Carmelite nuns who joined us were varying in age and years in the monastery, as was our community. The encounter lasted an hour, and after some initial small talk and introductions we posed these two questions to them, hoping to glean from their experience and wisdom.

                  Their answers were simple and easy to put into practice. “Often, throughout the day, return to the sanctuary of our heart where the Lord dwells, and make a short prayer to unite yourself to him.” Another one said, “Remember for Whom you are doing these things, and offer your work with love for a special intention.” The older nun wisely recommended, “It is very important to be faithful in the small things. That is the way of a true spouse of Jesus.” We shared our own experiences of living this as lay consecrated with a contemplative and evangelizing spirituality. What came through from both communities is that everything can be a means to unite ourselves to God, for we can find him in everything.

                  The bell rang for the sisters to attend the liturgy of the hours, and they graciously took leave of us. We went to visit their museum and gift shop, where we found an apron with this saying from St Teresa of Avila, seeming to sum up the message of the days… “Know that even when you are in the kitchen, our Lord is moving among the pots and pans.”

Glory Darbellay

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September 22, 2026 – My Spiritual Family

Tuesday of the Twenty-Fifth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 8:19-21

The mother of Jesus and his brothers came to him but were unable to join him because of the crowd. He was told, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside and they wish to see you.” He said to them in reply, “My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and act on it.”

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, I love you and I thank you for calling me to the spiritual family of the Church. I trust in you, and I believe that you are my good and provident Father. As I reflect on your words, I humbly ask for the grace to see all as my brothers and sisters in the faith and to love them as members of my own family.

Encountering Christ:

  1. The Father: Jesus was attentive to God the Father’s will and fulfilled it perfectly. And Jesus told us that those “who hear the word of God and act on it” become his family members. We are as important to Jesus as his own mother, his flesh and blood. In fact, he loves us so much he willingly died to save us from our sins. How grateful are we to God for our status as adopted sons and daughters?

     

  2. The Family of the Church: At a papal audience in Rome, a World Youth Day, or similar event, participants often experience the Church’s vibrancy and diversity. Being in the presence of hundreds of thousands of fellow believers gives the sensation of belonging to a huge family. It is peaceful, energizing, and strengthening. It helps us remember that when we are weak, we are supported spiritually by many others. When we are strong, we offer support to many others. “For as in one body we have many parts, and all the parts do not have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ and individually parts of one another” (Rom 12:4-5).

     

  3. Family Inheritance: Family members share a common inheritance. As family members of the Church, we have been promised eternal life with God in heaven. The saints, our brothers and sisters who have gone before us, have this to say about heaven: “Today I was in heaven, in spirit, and I saw its inconceivable beauties and the happiness that awaits us after death. I saw how all creatures give ceaseless praise and glory to God… This source of happiness is unchanging in its essence, but it is always new, gushing forth happiness for all creatures” (Sister Faustina). “There, good will shall be so ordered in us that we shall have no other desire than to remain there eternally” (St. Augustine). “My crown in heaven should shine with innocence and its flowers should be radiant as the sun. Sacrifices are the flowers Jesus and Mary chose” (St. Bernadette Soubirous). “Earth hath no sorrow that heaven cannot heal” (St. Thomas More).

Conversing with Christ: Lord, thank you for calling me to the family of the Church. Increase my awareness of the spiritual bond I share with fellow believers, and may my actions reflect your love. Help me to prepare myself one day for eternity with you and the rest of my family.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will reach out to a member of my faith community in whichever way I feel you inviting me to do so.

Renee Pomarico is Communications Director for the Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi. She is from Philadelphia, has been consecrated to God since 2000, and is currently stationed in Rome.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!