September 13, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St John Chrysostom

Dear Crystal, If you spent as much time finding ways to spread Christ’s truth as you do complaining about campus “political correctness” you would already have eliminated the problem.  Everything you say in your notes is right on target, and extremely well put – but you don’t have to convince me!  I already agree with you!  I would be willing to receive fewer pieces of correspondence from you in order to see you put your writing skills to work in more productive ways.  Why not start a column in the student Daily?  Why not write letters to the editor?  Why not start your own counter cultural student newspaper dedicated to publicizing the other side of the story?  Get the word out!  You can follow in the footsteps of today’s saint. Chrysostom, like you, had the gift of eloquence, though it shined forth more n his speaking than in his writing.  As a matter of fact, many generations of scholars have agreed that he may be the greatest preacher ever.  His Christian mother saw to it that he received the best education available in his day, with a concentration in rhetoric, and he far surpassed his instructors by the time he reached adolescence (this all happened in Syria).  After finishing his studies and being baptized, he and some buddies (among them the future St Basil the Great – saints of a feather flock together) went off to the desert to learn the spiritual ropes under the tutelage of the holy monks.  They learned the art of prayer, self-discipline, and penance before returning to civilization, where their holiness and talent were immediately recognized, and they were ordained to serve the Church. John was made a deacon in the ancient city of Antioch.  There he began his preaching career, which soon became a primary agent of religious and political influence throughout the empire.  His eloquence won the hearts of his listeners, and his exemplary virtue and concern for the poor solidified his victory.  In a few years he was made archbishop of Constantinople, the most important See in the eastern empire, and the residence of the emperor.  There he undertook a reform of the clergy through personal appeals and changes in ecclesiastical discipline, and a reform of the city through vehement preaching and numerous pastoral initiatives – all of which got him in trouble.  Many of his fellow bishops envied his popularity with the people and the success of his apostolic labors, and numerous courtiers resented his reproaches of imperial pride and licentiousness.  They conspired to have him exiled.  Only a few days after his departure, however, the city was struck by mild earthquake.  The superstitious empress had him quickly reinstated, fearing further reprisals from on high.  But her clemency was short-lived.  The holy archbishop soon fell out of her graces again, when he denounced a colossal silver statue of herself (and the immodest celebrations that accompanied its unveiling) that she erected outside the Cathedral.  From his second exile he never returned.  The aged prelate died of exhaustion and exposure brought on by his unending trek further and further into the harsh lands of his banishment. In a time when Christian morality needed a courageous spokesman, St John Chrysostom shouldered the task, defending Christ’s Kingdom even by sacrificing his popularity and his very life.  Does Christian morality need a courageous spokesperson on your campus?  Perhaps God wants you to pick up the torch – or, rather, the pen. Prayerfully yours, Uncle Eddy Uncle Eddy

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September 13, 2026 – Choosing to Forgive

Twenty-Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time

 

Matthew 18:21-35

Peter approached Jesus and asked him, “Lord, if my brother sins against me, how often must I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus answered, “I say to you, not seven times but seventy-seven times. That is why the kingdom of heaven may be likened to a king who decided to settle accounts with his servants. When he began the accounting, a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount. Since he had no way of paying it back, his master ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, his children, and all his property, in payment of the debt. At that, the servant fell down, did him homage, and said, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back in full.’ Moved with compassion the master of that servant let him go and forgave him the loan. When that servant had left, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a much smaller amount. He seized him and started to choke him, demanding, ‘Pay back what you owe.’ Falling to his knees, his fellow servant begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ But he refused. Instead, he had him put in prison until he paid back the debt. Now when his fellow servants saw what had happened, they were deeply disturbed, and went to their master and reported the whole affair. His master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you your entire debt because you begged me to. Should you not have had pity on your fellow servant, as I had pity on you?’ Then in anger his master handed him over to the torturers until he should pay back the whole debt. So will my heavenly Father do to you, unless each of you forgives his brother from his heart.” 

Opening Prayer: O my Jesus, as I begin this time of prayer I realize that forgiving others can be difficult. Sometimes I am afraid of letting go of how others have hurt me. It makes me feel protected to hold on to that hurt. As I open my heart, help me to empty out the fear and remember that you are my protector and have forgiven me for so many of my own sins.

Encountering Christ: 

  1. A Priceless Debt: We could never pay back the debt on our own for our sins. Some sin can cost us our very lives, “for the wages of sin is death” (Rom 6:23). This is why God the Father sent his beloved Son to ransom us. Christ literally paid the price for our sins with his own blood: “You are not your own. For you have been purchased at a price” (cf. 1 Cor 6:19-20). None of us are exempt from the need for God’s mercy: “All have sinned and are deprived of the glory of God. They are justified freely by his grace through the redemption in Christ Jesus, whom God set forth as an expiation, through faith, by his blood” (Rom 3:23-25). How cognizant are we of the price Christ paid for our sinfulness?

     

  2. Justice and Mercy: Because God is love, the justice we deserve is overcome by his mercy. Pope Francis said, “Justice and mercy in God are one thing. Mercy is just and justice is merciful.” There at the cross, justice and mercy met in the person and sacrifice of Christ. Jesus endured the punishment we deserve and paid every ounce of the penalties we deserve to pay. Because we all have sinned, we have therefore received the gift of God’s mercy; we are called to act accordingly by being merciful and compassionate, like God (cf. Ps 103).

     

  3. Choose to Forgive: When we forgive others, even and especially when they cannot make amends for how they have hurt us, we are acting in imitation of Christ: “And be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another as God has forgiven you in Christ” (Eph 4:32). We must choose to forgive whoever has wronged us. Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is an act of the will. What happens when we do not choose to forgive? We run the risk that our own sins will be held against us. Our first reading for Mass today considers this point: “Forgive your neighbor the wrong done to you; then when you pray, your own sins will be forgiven. Does anyone nourish anger against another and expect healing from the Lord? Can one refuse mercy to a sinner like oneself, yet seek pardon for one’s own sins?” (Sir 28:2-4).

Conversing with Christ: Dear Jesus, thank you for paying the price for my sins with your own precious body and blood. Help me to remember that I belong to you, and to live with gratitude for that fact. Help me to choose to forgive others, as you have forgiven me.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will choose to forgive someone for a wrong they have done to me. I will pray and ask God to help me to forgive that person fully and with my whole heart.

For Further Reflection: Read St. Thomas Aquinas’s writing on justice and mercy here: Summa Theologiae I, q. 21. Or, read all of Psalm 103, meditating on God’s kindness, mercy, and compassion.

Carey Boyzuck is a wife, mother, freelance writer, and a lay member of Regnum Christi. She blogs at word-life-light.com.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!