July 14, 2026

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The Road Less Traveled

Dear Friends,

 

The great poet Robert Frost wrote a poem titled “The Road Not Taken.”

The premise of the poem is that all of us encounter forks in the road we are traveling that require us to make a choice as to where we will go next.

There has been a stir in the media as of late due to a recent post by an “influencer”. This is not a political piece nor a judgment on anyone but rather a journey down a path less traveled.

In May of 1962, a tiny little boy was born to a young military couple in their early twenties in El Paso, Texas. His name was Michael, and he had Down Syndrome. In 1960, little was known about this syndrome, and my parents were encouraged to leave him in an institution in Texas and resume their life. My parents chose to travel an unknown road.

No one could have guessed the incredible graces and love that would fill our household for the next 59 years. All of my siblings learned to experience life in ways only Michael could teach us. We learned to defend the weak and the “different” among us. We learned to be patient and above all things, we learned to see the inherent dignity in every human life.

My parents could have taken the road traveled by the influencers and ended Michael’s life, and with it terminated six decades of incredible blessings and grace.

Life asks hard things of us all at one point or another, and rarely is the road we walk easy, but it is always an opportunity for God to show his goodness in ways we cannot foresee.

 As the poem closes, Frost writes:

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took  the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

I pray each of you remember you are never alone on the roads you travel, and God is ever present, loving us and blessing us each step of the way.

Yours in the Heart of Jesus,

Donna

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Camillus de Lellis

Dear Cammie, If I knew you less than I do, I would think it quaint that you have taken a summer job as a hospitality manager in one of those Las Vegas hotels.  Since I know you well, however, I am obliged to throw you a life preserver. I have always thought it highly appropriate that you inherited the same vice as your namesake, and I continually pray that through his intercession you will inherit the same cure.  Gambling, betting, games of chance – in and of themselves, most are innocent and entertaining. But when they start devouring money that you don’t have, monopolizing your time and attention, inspiring you to rejoice in others’ losses, or encouraging you to compromise your integrity in the interests of winning – these are telltale signs that the thirst for money (or power) is leading you into a deadly idolatry.  (And don’t tell me “Everyone does it! It’s no big deal!” Tell that to a lemming.) I only hope that God will not have to let you descend to the depths of misery, destitution, and shame that it took to bring St Camillus to his knees in repentance. Although, if the results are equally propitious, maybe it wouldn’t be such a bad idea. Camillus was a large man, 6’6”, and went off to fight in the wars with his dad when he was still quite young.  He contracted some strange disease in his leg, and had to spend time in one of those horrendously unhygienic pre-modern hospitals in Rome.  In and out of hospitals and wars, he repeatedly frittered away his livelihood by gambling, won a reputation as bad-tempered and argumentative, and led a generally unpromising life, until his regrettable state and the memory of a vow he had once made to God started him on the road to conversion.  He took a job as a construction worker at the erection of a new Franciscan monastery, and the words and examples of the friars brought the grace of God into his troubled soul. He so fully repented that he entered the Franciscan novitiate, but was dismissed on account of his diseased leg. He returned to the hospital where he had once been interred, and there began serving the sick.  The rest of his life was spent in gathering disciples who would dedicate themselves to reform the inhumane practices of contemporary hospitals and nursing. His efforts spawned houses of “Ministers of the Sick” throughout Italy, and though he himself suffered from a combination of illnesses until the day he died, he succeeded in bringing the love of the gospel into the lives of the most miserable of his countrymen.  He and his ministers would tend those whom no one else would tend. Once a fleet of plague-ridden ships was forbidden to enter the port of Naples, whereupon Camillus’s ministers rowed out to them in order to ease their suffering and help them prepare their souls to meet the Lord. Camillus also formed the first military “ambulance” unit; sending some of his men to the wars in Hungary, where they dedicated themselves full time to tend the wounded and dying. So you see, my energetic young niece, by the grace of God, this ornery and brusque soldier went from skinning his fellow men (or being skinned by them) to saving them; instead of aggrandizing himself at their expense (the bottom line of excessive gambling), he ended up ennobling them at no expense.  May our Lord lead you down a similar path. Sincerely, your Uncle Eddy

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Am I Living My Role as a Catholic Mom Well?

Q: I’m a Catholic and my husband is non-Catholic. We had our first child a few months ago. My question is about how to properly live out my role as a Catholic woman, with submission and respecting my femininity. My husband is entirely selfless, kind to everyone he meets, and supportive of my faith. We’re a strong partnership, and we talk through everything. My husband, however, struggles with faith. He was baptized Methodist but never got a true faith foundation. He’s been starting to develop his faith and has been coming to Mass with me for the last two years. Recently, I had a reawakening of my faith and started learning what the role of a Catholic wife and mother looks like. From my limited understanding, it’s the husband’s role to lead in faith and provide for the family. Since my husband is still learning the faith, I’ve been trying to support him by leading him to the faith. So, I have the role spiritual leadership, and it’s my job to lead my daughter in her growth as a Catholic. I also do things like taking care of the finances because I have gifts with numbers and organization. My husband and I consult each other, but I know he likes to let me have the final say because he trusts my financial judgment. We need two incomes to stay afloat. I can’t afford to stay home with our infant daughter, especially if we want to send her to a Catholic school. I’m struggling to figure out how to live with femininity when I find myself needing to lead at home, provide for family through my work, and develop leadership at work. What can I do? — A.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

It’s great that you seem to have a positive effect on your husband’s journey in faith.

I wouldn’t get too concerned about who should be the spiritual leader in the house.

From a Catholic perspective, the ideal of the husband being the leader assumes that he is Catholic.

For now, be confident that you can hold on to the reins, so to speak, since you have the true faith and you are the key person who will teach your daughter the faith. And you will likely have a big impact on your husband’s possible entrance into the Church someday.

The same could go for the financial end of things. If you as a couple have decided that you should manage the books, that’s fine, too. Every marriage is unique, and it’s great that you two can dialogue about all these issues.

From what you say, it seems that you are living your femininity well.

You are supportive of your husband and daughter and try to keep the family living within its means, all the while keeping an eye on the spiritual well-being of everyone. All this is a sign of a feminine heart.

Be sure to nurture yourself. Dedicate time to prayer and the sacraments; these are the fertile ground on which to build a solid life.

Then, take things one day at a time. That you are struggling is normal. Struggles help to keep us humble and close to Our Lord in prayer.

One suggestion: Try to form a network of friends with other Catholic moms. That could provide a great support group.

A helpful book is Sacred Marriage, by Gary Thomas (a Protestant, but with a very sacramental view of marriage).

Count on my prayers.

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July 14, 2026 – Reproach for Repentance

Memorial of Saint Kateri Tekakwitha, Virgin

 

Matthew 11:20-24

Jesus began to reproach the towns where most of his mighty deeds had been done, since they had not repented. “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the mighty deeds done in your midst had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would long ago have repented in sackcloth and ashes. But I tell you, it will be more tolerable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. And as for you, Capernaum: Will you be exalted to heaven? You will go down to the nether world. For if the mighty deeds done in your midst had been done in Sodom, it would have remained until this day. But I tell you, it will be more tolerable for the land of Sodom on the day of judgment than for you.”

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, let me never tire in spirit or become interiorly resistant to see where your love is calling me to ask for your forgiveness. May my help and my salvation be always to lean more deeply upon your mercy and to be more spiritually aware of what in my life causes your heart sorrow.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Repentance: Throughout this discourse, we can detect in the voice of Jesus a note of exasperation. His heart is lamenting the unrequited love of stubborn hearts unwilling to repent; the ingratitude, indifference, and rejection of such hearts in this moment of anguish. He finds no comfort in hearts who betray him and cannot see what mighty deeds he has done for us.

     

  2. Rejection and Remorse: The spiritual battle going on in our hearts is real. There are difficulties, struggles, and hardships that we have to conquer to be faithful in courageously living for Christ’s Kingdom of justice and love. We are all caught up in this drama. While following the Lord, I have fallen and turned away from him and resisted his will. At times, I have said “no” out of fear, defiance, and greed. Lord, I come to you and humbly ask for your forgiveness and mercy. Forgive me my sins. Do not let me turn away from you.

     

  3. Judgment Day: The hour is coming, our hour to be welcomed into the eternal embrace of the Father. It will also come with a settling of accounts where we will see the truth of our lives in the full light of God’s merciful love. Jesus’ passionate exhortation invites us to look into our hearts now, to imagine our final reckoning. This practice can be a good remedy against any inclination we have to pass judgment on others. It can help to soften the harshness or stubbornness of our hearts.

Conversing with Christ: Lord, be with me throughout this day, guiding my mind and heart to see the wonders of your actions, the great things you are doing in my life. Grant me the courage to face whatever happens today by responding in a way that pleases you so that I can see the Father’s plan for me more clearly. Open my heart and mind to be attuned to your presence both within me and through those around me today.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will be quick to seek forgiveness of any fault or harm I may cause you or others, and I will make a special effort not to judge others, asking for your grace to dismiss any harsh thoughts or criticisms.

For Further Reflection: Check out “The Last Four Things,” a YouTube video by Fr. John Bartunek, LC. 

Lucy Honner is a Consecrated Woman of Regnum Christi and the Assistant Director of Campus Ministry at University Catholic, a community of students in the Nashville area who are serious about their faith. Since 1998, she has exercised her apostolate as a speaker, spiritual director, integrated health coach, and retreat director throughout North America.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!