March 30, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St John Climacus

Dear Clive, I have told you before that you will get yourself into trouble and waste precious time if you try to pursue holiness guided only by your own judgment.  The old saying that “no one is a good judge in his own case” has been verified too many times already; we don’t need you to prove it yet again. All you need to do is find someone who loves and is obedient to the Church, and who is a little more experienced than you in the spiritual life.  All the saints had spiritual directors of some kind or another – God likes to work in our souls through human means; it helps keep our pride in check. Today’s saint is a perfect example. In his later years, John himself was a much sought after spiritual director, even though he lived in a hermitage on the top of Mt Sinai in Palestine (they made him descend to become Abbot for a few years, but he soon connived his retirement and returned to his solitude).  He guided countless souls on their path to union with God, and composed the revered spiritual manual “The Ladder to Paradise” (whence his name – “ladder” is “klimax” in Greek). But he started out his Christian discipleship just like you – ignorant and imprudent. And what was his first move?  To find a good spiritual director. Thus began the discovery of his vocation and his advance to heroic sanctity, which yielded abundant fruit for many years after his own death. He put it beautifully when he described the benefits he received from his spiritual director: “Under the direction of a prudent guide, I succeeded in shunning rocks that I could not have escaped if I had presumed to steer alone.”   So, my precocious nephew, be humble, don’t go it alone, and become a saint. Your concerned uncle, Eddy

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40 Days to Peace and Union with God: Day 41 – The Sweet Scent of Love

“An egg given during life for love of God is more profitable for eternity than a cathedral full of gold given after death.”

READ: JOHN 12:1–11

Six days before the Passover, Jesus went to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom he had raised from the dead. They gave a dinner for him there; Martha waited on them and Lazarus was among those at table. Mary brought in a pound of very costly ointment, pure nard, and with it anointed the feet of Jesus, wiping them with her hair; the house was full of the scent of the ointment. Then Judas Iscariot — one of his disciples, the man who was to betray him — said, “Why wasn’t this ointment sold for three hundred denarii, and the money given to the poor?” He said this, not because he cared about the poor, but because he was a thief; he was in charge of the common fund and used to help himself to the contributions. So Jesus said, “Leave her alone; she had to keep this scent for the day of my burial. You have the poor with you always, you will not always have me.” Meanwhile a large number of Jews heard that he was there and came not only on account of Jesus but also to see Lazarus whom he had raised from the dead. Then the chief priests decided to kill Lazarus as well, since it was on his account that many of the Jews were leaving them and believing in Jesus.

YOUR THREE-STEP GUIDE TO DAILY MENTAL PRAYER

REFLECT

“Martha waited on them.”

Martha: How can I describe to you that scene? Something new was in the Lord’s eyes in those last days before His Passion. It was a new intensity, a new determination. Maybe “new” isn’t the right word — it was just more of what had always been there: more intensity, more determination, more attention, more love. And it spread to everyone around Him. I will never forget watching Him at dinner, surrounded by His apostles, with Mary, so content, sitting at His feet and the other guests unable to look away from Him. He was like a glowing hearth that drew in and warmed everyone around Him. His presence filled everyone with light and vigor and a freshness of life.

What the aroma of Mary’s perfume was for our senses, Jesus had already been for our minds and hearts. Whenever I smell perfume now, it reminds me of the gentle power of His presence, which since then has never left me. And I knew that just as the perfume filled the house with its sweet and delicious scent, just so the Lord’s life-giving presence was going to spread and fill every corner of history and the world.

RESPOND

Teach me to love You as I should, Lord. Turn me around — I don’t want to keep gazing in the mirror and worrying about what others think of me and how I can achieve more than they do. I want to gaze at You, at Your truth, at the beauty of Your Kingdom. I want to care only about pouring out my life in Your service, like Mary’s perfume, so that I can spread the fullness of life to those around me.

I wonder if I have it too easy, Lord. Maybe if my life were a bit less comfortable and pleasant, I would more easily remember that I am here to fulfill a mission, not just to have a good time. You lived Your life intensely, focusing on Your Father’s will and the mission He had given You. And that intensity, that focus, was the source of Your joy and Your fruitfulness. Help me, Lord, to follow Your example.

REST

Lord Jesus, You have already given me so much, but I want to ask You to come anew into my life, to make me experience again the sweet aroma of Your presence. I forget so easily, Lord. The troubles of life dull my faith and hope. I need You to come and dine with me, to let me sit at Your feet and drink in Your wisdom. I want to keep fighting for Your Kingdom. Lord Jesus, give me strength.

RESOLVE

How can I carry this encounter with me into the day? (Write / Journal)

CLOSING PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING

Most Blessed and Holy Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, thank You for Your love and Your grace in allowing me this time of prayer with You.

The world, the flesh, and the devil will all propose things I should focus on and run after today. I beg You to fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me instead to know and embrace Your will. Help me to see what You desire of me each moment of this day. Give me the wisdom, strength, and fortitude I need to avoid distractions, discern Your will, and focus on and carry out that which Wisdom reveals. Help me to work and live at a pace of peace and prayerfulness, always attentive to You, able to hear Your voice and to say no to anything that hinders my journey to You and a complete yes to every Holy prompting from You.

Help me to humbly and purposefully live, light, and lead others to the path of union with You and to tell everyone about this way of life. Amen.

About the Author

Bartunek-headshotFr. John Bartunek was ordained in 2003. He has taught moral theology at various ecclesiastical institutions at the graduate and undergraduate levels, and has authored many books, including the Gospel companion, The Better Part, and Inside the Passion, the only authorized behind-the-scenes look at the film, for which he provided on-set spiritual support. His online retreat guides are available in multiple formats at RCSpirituality.org. Fr. John currently resides in Atlanta, where he is serving as territorial vicar for the Legionaries of Christ.

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March 30, 2026 – A Fragrant Sacrifice

Monday of Holy Week

 

John 12:1-11

Six days before Passover Jesus came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. They gave a dinner for him there, and Martha served, while Lazarus was one of those reclining at table with him. Mary took a liter of costly perfumed oil made from genuine aromatic nard and anointed the feet of Jesus and dried them with her hair; the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil. Then Judas the Iscariot, one of his disciples, and the one who would betray him, said, “Why was this oil not sold for three hundred days’ wages and given to the poor?” He said this not because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief and held the money bag and used to steal the contributions. So Jesus said, “Leave her alone. Let her keep this for the day of my burial. You always have the poor with you, but you do not always have me.” The large crowd of the Jews found out that he was there and came, not only because of him, but also to see Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. And the chief priests plotted to kill Lazarus too, because many of the Jews were turning away and believing in Jesus because of him.

Opening Prayer: St. Mary Magdalene, you poured out your costly oil for Jesus. Pray for me that I may hold nothing back from Our Lord.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Mary Who?: Just who is St. Mary Magdalene? Is she Martha and Lazarus’ sister from our readings today? Is she the sinful but repentant woman whom Jesus forgives (cf. Lk 7:36-50)? Is she a wealthy woman from Magdala whom Jesus freed from seven demons and who then followed him even to his Cross (cf. Lk 8:2 and Jn 19:25)? Western Church tradition holds that St. Mary Magdalene is actually the woman portrayed in each of these scriptural accounts. We learn from these stories how the Magdalene’s conversion, repentance, and healing lead to her generous, love-filled discipleship. An example of the generosity of her spirit is shown in our reading today when she used the costly nard to anoint Jesus.

     

  2. A Fragrant Sacrifice: St. Mary Magdalene generously poured out the fragrant, expensive oil to anoint Christ’s feet. Nothing we do for the love of Christ, no time we spend, no act of charity is ever wasted. Everything belongs to him, so whatever we return to him as a holy sacrifice is just. On the Cross, Jesus became a fragrant sacrifice for us: “[Christ] handed himself over for us as a sacrificial offering to God for a fragrant aroma” (Eph 5:2). Our own sacrifices also become a delightful fragrance that is pleasing to God (cf. Phil 4:18). During this Holy Week, what can we offer God as a pleasing sacrifice? Like the aroma of the perfumed oil filling the room, how can our loving actions fill our homes with the fragrance of our offerings? As St. John Henry Newman and St. Teresa of Calcutta prayed, “Dear Jesus, help me to spread your fragrance everywhere that I go.”

     

  3. Let Her Keep This: In this scene at Bethany, Jesus knew that his hour was approaching. He also knew that St. Mary Magdalene would be there with him at the foot of the Cross. Why else would he say, “Let her keep this for the day of my burial” (Jn 12:7)? He knew that only a precious few would stay with him during his Passion, and that she would be one of them. St. Mary Magdalene was there with the Blessed Virgin Mary and St. John as Jesus was crucified, died, and was buried. She was the first witness to the Resurrection as well. Let us pray for the courage and “the endurance of Christ” (cf. 2 Thess 3:5) that we will need to follow Jesus to Calvary this week.

Conversing with Christ: Lord Jesus, help me realize that every act of love that I offer you out of the purity of my heart is a fragrant offering. Help me find ways to lavish my love on you and on my neighbor.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will offer a generous act of charity out of my love for you.

Carey Boyzuck is a wife, mother, freelance writer, and a lay member of Regnum Christi. She blogs at www.word-life-light.com.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!