March 8, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St John of God

Dear Jack, In your zeal you have forgotten one of the basic guidelines for Christian behavior: hate the sin, but love the sinner.  I have no doubt that the corrupting influence of the individuals you refer to needs to be stopped. You are right and valiant to take up the challenge.  At the same time, however, don’t forget that the “perpetrators,” as you call them, are also human beings. Jesus Christ died for them as much as he died for you, and he loves them just as he loves you, and he is longing for them to come and be with him forever in heaven, just as he wants you there as well.  So by all means, counteract their lies and seductions, but keep an eye open for chances to win them over to the Kingdom. Don’t think they are too far gone – today’s saint was a raucous, debauching mercenary soldier until he was 40, but when God’s grace caught up with him he became a whirlwind of holiness. His first step of repentance came when he took a job as a shepherd near Seville, Spain after his mercenary troop had disbanded.  Here the quiet reflection fostered by his pastoral occupation brought on remorse for his previous way of life. He set out to find some way of making it up to God.  Various providential adventures in his native Portugal brought him finally to open up a shop in Gibraltar where he sold religious articles. He spent his free time doing good deeds for his customers.  Soon after he had opened up this business (which did well), the famous preacher St John of Avila was invited to preach on the feast of St Sebastian. So moved was John of God by the sermon, that he started crying out in the church, accusing himself of his sins in a loud voice, beating his breast and begging for mercy.  Then he dashed outside and continued the exhibition while running about the streets and pulling at his hair like a madman. The crowds assumed he had gone insane and tried to calm him by throwing sticks and stones at him. He made his way back to his shop, sold all his merchandise and returned to the streets in his previous state of distraction.  Some kind citizens took him to St John of Avila, which temporarily calmed him down. But he soon resumed his wild penance and was forcibly interred in the local asylum. There St John of Avila visited him again and told him to serve God in a more productive way. He was immediately and lastingly calmed by this rebuke. When he left the asylum he began another little business in order to support a hospital for the poor, which he ran almost by himself at first.  The project grew quickly, gaining support from the local bishop and many well-to-do citizens, so that he could dedicate himself full time to tending the sick.  At night, however, he would go out into the streets to find other objects of charity. He took a special interest in finding reputable positions for destitute young girls, so vulnerable to deleterious temptations.  He never confined his zeal to his own hospital, but wore himself out attending to the needs of anyone he heard about, near or far, even if it took a miracle. Once when his hospital caught on fire, he carried the patients out to safety on his own back, walking over and over again right through the flames without ever being burnt.  In the end, his work not only gave rise to the religious congregation that bears his name, but kindled a revival of faith in the entire province, among poor, rich, clergy and laity alike… and all this in the mere 15 years between his return to the faith and his untimely death at the age of 55. Who knows, maybe one of those “enemies of the faith” you berate so passionately has a similar vocation.  For their sake, and for the sake of the Church, I encourage you to remember always to hate the sin, but love the sinner. Your affectionate uncle, Eddy

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40 Days to Peace and Union with God: Day 19 – Quenching Christ’s Thirst

“To show that he was not different from us, he undertook hard work, he went hungry and thirsty, he took rest and sleep, he did not shirk suffering, he revealed the Resurrection.”

READ: JOHN 4:5–26

He came to the Samaritan town called Sychar, near the land that Jacob gave to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well is there and Jesus, tired by the journey, sat straight down by the well. It was about the sixth hour. When a Samaritan woman came to draw water, Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” His disciples had gone into the town to buy food. The Samaritan woman said to him, “What? You are a Jew and you ask me, a Samaritan, for a drink?” — Jews, in fact, do not associate with Samaritans. Jesus replied: “If you only knew what God is offering and who it is that is saying to you: Give me a drink, you would have been the one to ask, and he would have given you living water.” “You have no bucket, sir,” she answered, “and the well is deep: how could you get this living water? Are you a greater man than our father Jacob who gave us this well and drank from it himself with his sons and his cattle?” Jesus replied: “Whoever drinks this water will get thirsty again; but anyone who drinks the water that I shall give will never be thirsty again: the water that I shall give will turn into a spring inside him, welling up to eternal life.”

“Sir,” said the woman, “give me some of that water, so that I may never get thirsty and never have to come here again to draw water.” “Go and call your husband,” said Jesus to her, “and come back here.” The woman answered, “I have no husband.” He said to her, “You are right to say, ‘I have no husband’; for although you have had five, the one you have now is not your husband. You spoke the truth there.” “I see you are a prophet, sir,” said the woman. “Our fathers worshipped on this mountain, while you say that Jerusalem is the place where one ought to worship.” Jesus said: “Believe me, woman, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know: for salvation comes from the Jews. But the hour will come — in fact it is here already — when true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth: that is the kind of worshipper the Father wants. God is spirit, and those who worship must worship in spirit and truth.” The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah — that is, Christ — is coming; and when he comes he will tell us everything.” “I who am speaking to you,” said Jesus, “I am he.”

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REFLECT

The Samaritan woman: I knew something was different about that man as soon as I came up to the well. He looked at me in a way that men didn’t usually look at me. I met His eyes for just a second, and then I looked away. But I wanted to look again. I had seen in His glance something that I had only dreamed about before: He knew me completely — He knew exactly what kind of person I was. Yet it didn’t bother Him; in fact, it was as if He was glad to see me — not because He wanted anything from me but because He seemed to want something for me, as if He were pure kindness. So when I looked away — because that was the proper thing to do— I was just dying to look at Him again, to see that kindness in His eyes, to drink it in.

But then I thought, no, it’s only my imagination. And then He spoke to me. He asked me for a drink. And that was the beginning of a conversation that changed my life. I didn’t understand everything He told me, but I understood that He knew me — He knew me through and through, and He still cared about me; He was interested in me. To Him, I was important, not just because I could give Him something but just . . . well, just because. In His eyes, I mattered. Even then I knew that what He said about being the Messiah was true. How else could I explain the change that was already happening in my heart? It was as if a door had opened in my life where before there had been only a thick, dark, high wall protecting my broken heart. He freed me. I had to tell the others in the town. I knew He was the Savior, and I just had to tell everyone. I knew that as soon as they met Him they, too, would realize it. And they did! Before that day, I was just surviving; after that encounter with His words, His glance, His presence — from then on, I began to live.

RESPOND

Jesus, tell me everything. Tell me about myself and the meaning of my life; tell me about Your love and Your wisdom and Your plan for my life. Lord, give me Your living water — how thirsty I am! I have tasted Your gifts; I know at least a little bit about what You are offering. I want to know more. I want to live closer to You. I want to lead others to Your heart, just as you led me. I believe in You, Lord, and in Your eagerness to save souls who are stuck in sin and darkness. And I believe that You can save them, just as you turned this woman’s life around — just as you have turned my life around. Thank You for guiding me. Thank You for not giving up on me. Thank You for giving me a mission in life.

REST

What does it mean, Lord, to worship in “spirit and truth”? You want it; You came to make it possible. To worship is to acknowledge Your greatness, majesty, and goodness. You want me to do so not only in external ceremonies but in my heart, in my attitudes, in my choices. You want me to live as You would have me live, Lord, trusting in You, seeking Your will always. Teach me to do so, because this is what You desire.

RESOLVE

How can I carry this encounter with me into the day? (Write / Journal)

CLOSING PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING

Most Blessed and Holy Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, thank You for Your love and Your grace in allowing me this time of prayer with You.

The world, the flesh, and the devil will all propose things I should focus on and run after today. I beg You to fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me instead to know and embrace Your will. Help me to see what You desire of me each moment of this day. Give me the wisdom, strength, and fortitude I need to avoid distractions, discern Your will, and focus on and carry out that which Wisdom reveals. Help me to work and live at a pace of peace and prayerfulness, always attentive to You, able to hear Your voice and to say no to anything that hinders my journey to You and a complete yes to every Holy prompting from You.

Help me to humbly and purposefully live, light, and lead others to the path of union with You and to tell everyone about this way of life. Amen.

About the Author

Bartunek-headshotFr. John Bartunek was ordained in 2003. He has taught moral theology at various ecclesiastical institutions at the graduate and undergraduate levels, and has authored many books, including the Gospel companion, The Better Part, and Inside the Passion, the only authorized behind-the-scenes look at the film, for which he provided on-set spiritual support. His online retreat guides are available in multiple formats at RCSpirituality.org. Fr. John currently resides in Atlanta, where he is serving as territorial vicar for the Legionaries of Christ.

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March 8, 2026 – The Woman at the Well

Third Sunday of Lent

 

John 4:5-42

Jesus came to a town of Samaria called Sychar, near the plot of land that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there. Jesus, tired from his journey, sat down there at the well. It was about noon. A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” His disciples had gone into the town to buy food. The Samaritan woman said to him, “How can you, a Jew, ask me, a Samaritan woman, for a drink?”—For Jews use nothing in common with Samaritans.—Jesus answered and said to her, “If you knew the gift of God and who is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him and he would have given you living water.” The woman said to him, “Sir, you do not even have a bucket and the cistern is deep; where then can you get this living water? Are you greater than our father Jacob, who gave us this cistern and drank from it himself with his children and his flocks?” Jesus answered and said to her, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again; but whoever drinks the water I shall give will never thirst; the water I shall give will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life.” The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may not be thirsty
or have to keep coming here to draw water.” Jesus said to her, “Go call your husband and come back.” The woman answered and said to him, “I do not have a husband.” Jesus answered her, “You are right in saying, ‘I do not have a husband.’ For you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true.” The woman said to him, “Sir, I can see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain; but you people say that the place to worship is in Jerusalem.” Jesus said to her, “Believe me, woman, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You people worship what you do not understand; we worship what we understand, because salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when true worshipers will worship the Father in Spirit and truth; and indeed the Father seeks such people to worship him. God is Spirit, and those who worship him must worship in Spirit and truth.” The woman said to him, “I know that the Messiah is coming, the one called the Christ; when he comes, he will tell us everything.” Jesus said to her, “I am he, the one speaking with you.” At that moment his disciples returned, and were amazed that he was talking with a woman, but still no one said, “What are you looking for?” or “Why are you talking with her?” The woman left her water jar and went into the town and said to the people, “Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Christ?” They went out of the town and came to him. Meanwhile, the disciples urged him, “Rabbi, eat.” But he said to them, “I have food to eat of which you do not know.” So the disciples said to one another, “Could someone have brought him something to eat?” Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of the one who sent me and to finish his work. Do you not say, ‘In four months the harvest will be here’? I tell you, look up and see the fields ripe for the harvest. The reaper is already receiving payment and gathering crops for eternal life, so that the sower and reaper can rejoice together. For here the saying is verified that ‘One sows and another reaps.’ I sent you to reap what you have not worked for; others have done the work, and you are sharing the fruits of their work.” Many of the Samaritans of that town began to believe in him because of the word of the woman who testified, “He told me everything I have done.” When the Samaritans came to him, they invited him to stay with them; and he stayed there two days. Many more began to believe in him because of his word, and they said to the woman, “We no longer believe because of your word; for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the savior of the world.”

Opening Prayer: Heavenly Father, I come to the well to drink of your living water, so that I may not thirst for the things of this world but for your will only. Hydrate my soul with your grace, the source of life that fulfills all other desires. 

Encountering Christ:

  1.  Living Water: How is it that when we drink of the Lord’s living water we no longer thirst? To thirst is human nature. To thirst means we have human needs that require quenching. In our spiritual reality, however, the more we drink of the Lord’s living water—in prayer, in the Mass, before the Eucharist in Adoration, marveling at his creation in our loved ones and in nature—the more our desire for the Lord increases while the desire for worldly things decreases. Only the Lord’s living water—pure grace—can make that transformation in our soul.

     

  2. Leave the Water Jar: A water jar is a heavy vessel and, when filled with water, it is that much more difficult to carry. Reflecting on this can help us to realize that some of the very things we depend on daily, even those that are deemed “good for us” may actually be burdens too heavy to carry. When we feel overwhelmed by our “to dos” or even by the ordinary responsibilities of our vocation in life, we need the grace to see what’s weighing us down and have the courage to leave those water jars behind as we fall into the Lord’s capable arms.

     

  3. Reaping and Sowing: Like a vain and prideful child we sometimes want to lay claim to our work and shout, “Look at me! Come see what I did!” But the Lord shows us that it is not we who work, but he who works through us. Each one of us is merely a link in a chain of souls who reap and sow for the Kingdom. In the words of St. Frances de Sales, Lord, help us to “be who we are and be that well so that we may give glory to the master craftsman whose handiwork we are.”

Conversing with Christ: Lord Jesus, giver of life-giving water, help me to drink from your well. Each day, I want to attach more to you and heavenly things, and detach from the material world and its short-lived joys. 

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will check my attitude about the burdens in my life by taking ten minutes to examine the “burden behind the burden,” as Fr. Mike Schmitz identifies it.

Marjorie Davin is a lay member of Regnum Christi who has served as director of the Women’s Section in the Washington, D.C., area. She and her husband have been married for over 30 years and are the parents of four adult children.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!