February 24, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Montanus, St Lucius, and their Companions

Dear Lucy, What good are all of your apostolic activities – retreats, guest speakers, social events, etc. – if you and the other organizers give in to jealousy, resentment, and backbiting?  If you yourselves are not living the touchstone of authentic Catholicism, sincere love for one another out of love for Christ, what do you think you will communicate to these newcomers whom you are trying to lead into the Church?  Certainly not the gospel, that’s for sure. Be careful, my dear niece; just because you have been living your faith consciously and energetically for years now, that doesn’t mean you are exempt from temptation – the devil is more interested than ever in poisoning your heart, because he knows that if he gets you, he gets all those who look up to you as well.  Stay humble, and above all make a constant effort to cultivate a servant’s heart. One of the most remarkable things about today’s saints is precisely the value they placed upon living in the unity of spirit.  They all suffered under the horrible persecutions initiated by Emperor Valerian, which lasted for two years straight. The eight martyrs commemorated today were captured, interrogated, ordered to sacrifice to the pagan gods, refused, and spent the next months in dark, filthy prisons, with minimal rations (sometimes nothing at all – not even water – for days at a time) and merciless guards.  They were repeatedly taken out and ordered again to sacrifice to the gods, but repeatedly refused, witnessing boldly (in spite of their physical sufferings) to the primacy of Christ. Through this extended trial, which wore them down in every way, their mutual charity keeps them faithful. One of them recorded the details of their experience up until the days immediately preceding their martyrdom.  Notice how he emphasizes this point as he describes their behavior in prison: “We have all one and the same spirit, and this unites and cements us together in prayer, in mutual intercourse, and in all our actions.  These are those bonds of affection which put the Devil to flight, which are most pleasing to God, and which by supplication in common obtain from Him whatever is asked. These are the ties which link hearts together, and which make men the children of God.  To be heirs of his kingdom we must be his children, and to be his children we must love one another. It is impossible for us to attain to the inheritance of his heavenly glory unless we keep that union and peace with our brethren which our heavenly Father has established amongst us.”  It wasn’t easy, as the rest of the narrative explains, but it was what mattered most. I would encourage you to imitate today’s saints.  Certainly don’t ease up on your apostolic endeavors, those who don’t know Christ or don’t yet follow him as they should are in desperate need of your efforts to bring them along, but take great care to give first priority to Christian charity, trusting that God will then clear the way for every kind of success. Your affectionate uncle, Eddy

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February 24, 2026 – How to Pray. Really.

Tuesday of the First Week of Lent

 

Matthew 6:7-15

Jesus said to his disciples: “In praying, do not babble like the pagans, who think that they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them. Your Father knows what you need before you ask him. This is how you are to pray: ‘Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.’ If you forgive men their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you do not forgive men, neither will your Father forgive your transgressions.”

Opening Prayer: My Lord, teach me how to pray. I want to recollect myself and become aware of your presence here and of your words for me now.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Prayer Is Tricky: We can successfully teach even to the smallest child how to pray and might yet fail to explain what prayer is to the smartest person on the planet. It is simple and complicated at the same time, not just for others, but also for us. Prayer is tricky. And it appears that the most difficult part to explain is neither the technique, nor the proper intention, nor the right words. All of that can be learned. No, the trickiest part of prayer is whether there is really someone there who hears it. The hardest part is to be confident or even certain that God is there listening to what I babble, or recite, or ask.

     

  2. Prayer Begins with Faith: Before we start talking in our prayer, we must activate and renew our faith in God’s presence and loving interest in our life. This is how an intimate meditation could start each time: “God, I believe that you are with me now; enkindle my faith in your presence and in your fatherly care for me.” When the heart feels the gaze of the Almighty upon it, prayer flows on its own. This is also why children are often better at praying than adults: They usually know how to act in the presence of the Father, trusting and certain of his presence, love, and protection.

     

  3. Jesus Teaches Us: In today’s Gospel, Jesus teaches his disciples how it sounds when God’s sons or daughters talk to their Father. Each phrase of the Our Father pulses with the certainty of God’s presence. And the petitions come alive on our lips when they are fueled by the faith that Jesus revealed to us: God is present, he is our loving Father, he wants our eternal happiness and wholesomeness, and he will give us all that is conducive to our salvation.

Conversing with Christ: My Lord Jesus Christ, you have become man in order to lift us up and bestow on us the identity of being the Father’s beloved sons and daughters in you. I am a child of the loving Father. And I believe that he looks at my soul in this very moment with all his love and fatherly care. Bathed in that light, I now pray: “Our Father…”

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will remind myself consciously of God’s presence and of his loving gaze in the midst of my daily activities.

For Further Reflection: Catechism of the Catholic Church, 257:

“O blessed light, O Trinity and first Unity!” God is eternal blessedness, undying life, unfading light. God is love: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. God freely wills to communicate the glory of his blessed life. Such is the “plan of his loving kindness,” conceived by the Father before the foundation of the world, in his beloved Son: “He destined us in love to be his sons” and “to be conformed to the image of his Son,” through ‘the spirit of sonship.” This plan is a “grace [which] was given to us in Christ Jesus before the ages began,” stemming immediately from Trinitarian love. It unfolds in the work of creation, the whole history of salvation after the fall, and the missions of the Son and the Spirit, which are continued in the mission of the Church.

Father Gabriel von Wendt, LC, is a priest who works as a professor at the Pontifical Athenaeum Regina Apostolorum. He has a passion for philosophy and the role of Catholic faith in contemporary culture. He is a co-founding member of the Catholic Worldview Fellowship, a study-abroad program for talented college students who want to evangelize culture.

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Our Lady of Silence

Dear Friends,

 

The late Pope Francis commissioned Capuchin Friar Fr. Emiliano Antenucci to write a relatively unknown Marian icon, Our Lady of Silence, for the Vatican offices. (One “writes”—not draws or paints—an icon because of how it is crafted: essentially, by an author who intends to convey a theology drawn from Scripture and Tradition such that the light of the Holy Spirit operates within them.)

In the icon, Mary holds up her right hand in a gesture inviting us to stop, calm down and wait. She invites us to step off the treadmill of hurry, to place ourselves quietly in God’s presence and to remember his promises. In theological waiting, we remember that He will listen to our prayers and will answer every single one of them. The peace her gaze transmits to us reminds us of his goodness and mercy. He will come through in the end. We can be certain of that.

Mary holds up her left hand and presses her finger to her lips. This gesture invites us to find a space of silence amid the noise of our doubts, fears, and frustrations. A space where God can communicate his Word of consolation, reassurance, peace, and joy.

The gesture could also be a motherly reminder to be careful of our judgements and words about others. Her wide eyes express tenderness, reminding us to be patient and merciful with one another, as our Heavenly Father is with each of us.

This icon has helped me to live the virtue of silence amid the ups and downs of life, looking with hope to the “already, but not yet” promise of eternal life.

To this vein, Pope Francis tells us:

“Silence prepares us for the explosion of Easter joy. Silence, the womb of the Word of God, also prepares us to have words that are a gift for others… In a society of noise, silence is a prophecy: it’s a prophecy of the future world.”

Yours in the heart of Christ,

Glory Darbellay

 

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40 Days to Peace and Union with God: Day 07 – Pray Like a Christian

“Mindful then of our condition, that we are essentially limited and absolutely dependent on the Supreme Being, before everything else let us have recourse to prayer. We know through faith how great is the power of humble, trustful, persevering prayer.”

READ: MATTHEW 6:7–15

“In your prayers do not babble as the pagans do, for they think that by using many words they will make themselves heard. Do not be like them; your Father knows what you need before you ask him. So you should pray like this: Our Father in heaven, may your name be held holy, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we have forgiven those who are in debt to us. And do not put us to the test, but save us from the evil one. Yes, if you forgive others their failings, your heavenly Father will forgive you yours; but if you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive your failings either.”

YOUR THREE-STEP GUIDE TO DAILY MENTAL PRAYER

REFLECT

Friends share what they have with each other. Good friends freely share their most valuable possessions. By this standard, Christ’s friendship is in a class all by itself. He didn’t just share things, or knowledge, or companionship; He shared His nature as God’s Son — His divine nature.

In this prayer, He teaches us to call God “Father.” And to make sure we don’t think that’s just some pretty poetry, He also describes God as “your Father [who] knows what you need.” In Christ, we have become not just citizens of God’s Kingdom but members of God’s family. We have Christ’s blood flowing in our veins. We have an eternal inheritance; we have our own room in the heavenly mansion, our own family servant (our guardian angel), and the rest of the family is eagerly awaiting our arrival. This is the core message of the entire New Testament: through our incorporation into Christ and through our friendship with Him, we have become full members of God’s household, along with everything that entails. Doesn’t it make you want to pray the Our Father in an entirely new way?

RESPOND

Thank You for the gift of prayer. I can always raise my mind and heart to You, no matter where I am or what I’m doing. Thank You for the prayers and prayer commitments that You have brought into my life. I want to pray them well. I want to seek and find You in prayer, not just go through the motions. Stir my heart, Lord; remind me that You are my loving Father. Lord, teach me to pray.

REST

Thank You for Your priceless gift of forgiveness and for letting me experience that forgiveness so many times. I want to forgive as You forgive. You know who and what offends and hurts me most — and You permit those offenses and hurts. They give me opportunities to become more like You. Whom do I need to forgive right now? Have mercy on me, Lord, and make me merciful.

RESOLVE

How can I carry this encounter with me into the day? (Write / Journal)

CLOSING PRAYER OF THANKSGIVING

Most Blessed and Holy Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, thank You for Your love and Your grace in allowing me this time of prayer with You.

The world, the flesh, and the devil will all propose things I should focus on and run after today. I beg You to fill me with Your Holy Spirit and help me instead to know and embrace Your will. Help me to see what You desire of me each moment of this day. Give me the wisdom, strength, and fortitude I need to avoid distractions, discern Your will, and focus on and carry out that which Wisdom reveals. Help me to work and live at a pace of peace and prayerfulness, always attentive to You, able to hear Your voice and to say no to anything that hinders my journey to You and a complete yes to every Holy prompting from You.

Help me to humbly and purposefully live, light, and lead others to the path of union with You and to tell everyone about this way of life. Amen.

About the Author

Bartunek-headshotFr. John Bartunek was ordained in 2003. He has taught moral theology at various ecclesiastical institutions at the graduate and undergraduate levels, and has authored many books, including the Gospel companion, The Better Part, and Inside the Passion, the only authorized behind-the-scenes look at the film, for which he provided on-set spiritual support. His online retreat guides are available in multiple formats at RCSpirituality.org. Fr. John currently resides in Atlanta, where he is serving as territorial vicar for the Legionaries of Christ.

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Ask a Priest: “Where Is God Leading Me After My Sports Injury?”

Q: I have been struggling with my faith lately and trying to understand why bad things are happening to me. I am a baseball player. Last year I worked very hard to try to make the varsity team at my school. I outworked the rest of my teammates and put myself in a position where I should have made the team. However, I got cut. This was tough on me, but I trusted God’s plan. This year, I continued to work harder than everyone else. And when the season came around, I was one of the best players on the team. I was so grateful. I began to pray a ton and even started reading the Bible every night. However, in the very first game of our season, I tore my PCL [posterior cruciate ligament], and I recently learned that I have no chance of returning this season. I am devastated and confused. I worked hard, I was a good person, and I prayed all the time, yet things still didn’t go my way again. I have continued to pray a lot. I was wondering if you could provide me with some advice as to why God is leading me down this path. — B.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

A: It’s good to recall a few basic truths.

First, your core identity is that you are a beloved son of God. Jesus suffered and died on a cross for your redemption, so much does he love you.

I mention this because your core identity is not that you are an athlete. Your identity is deeper than that.

God wants your holiness and your happiness, and that means whatever he allows in your day, can help you grow in holiness if you see it in the right light.

While it’s good that you are trying to cultivate your talents, you want to be careful about thinking that everything depends solely on your own efforts.

We all depend on God, and he can give and take away his gifts as he sees fit. And his interest is always in our growth in virtue.

These setbacks you have suffered might actually be graces since they might help you to rethink where you are basing your happiness.

If we place all our hopes in sports or a job or material things, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment. God alone will fill our hearts. If we put him first in our life, everything will find its proper place.

So, what about all those prayers? Were they pointless? No!

Prayers help us remember how much we depend on God. He certainly hears our prayers. It’s just that sometimes he responds by giving us what we most need, not what we want at the moment.

In your case, Our Lord might be trying to get you to focus on the things most valuable in your life: your faith, your family, your (relatively good) health, your intelligence.

Or he might be allowing some misfortune in order to form you. Amid adversity we learn tenacity — we don’t give up and we keep trusting in God’s providence.

Whatever lies in the future, if you stay close to prayer and to the sacraments, the Holy Spirit will guide you on the right path.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!