January 23, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St John the Almsgiver

Dear Ruby, In my avuncular opinion, you are worrying about the wrong thing.  Discerning God’s call in your life is not about tallying all the things you have to give up if you consecrate your life to his service and then sighing with regret.  Not at all! Following God is about loving! It’s about joyfully giving him everything you have and then looking for more to give! Haven’t you ever heard the favorite saying of wise Christian widows, “God can never be outdone in generosity”?  There is nothing truer. It is a truth that today’s saint grasped firmly, much to the delight of the thousands of Christians under his charge in the great metropolis of Alexandria, Egypt, the exchange center of the ancient Mediterranean world.  He is called St John the Almsgiver because his number-one diocesan priority was the relief of the poor. Before he had been in the bishopric for a month, he had emptied out the vast sums of money in his treasuries (it was one of the riches patriarchates in all of Christendom) in support of the monasteries and hospitals.  The constant revenues of his see, along with a steady stream of contributions that he obtained (not without effort) from wealthy Christians, flowed continuously into the hands of those in need. His stewards complained vehemently, accusing him of impoverishing his church. He merely replied with a smile that God would provide for them (which he did).  Once when a recipient of his benefactions was thanking him too profusely (at least, so the Patriarch judged), he said to him, “Brother, I have not yet shed my blood for you, as Jesus Christ, my Master, and my God, commands me to do.” St John the Almsgiver had come to understand the real meaning Christian love: give and give and never count the cost. Only in heaven will we find out how much eternal good this one man did through his faith-filled generosity.  If you follow his example, giving God whatever he asks of you (even if it’s your most cherished plans) for the sake of his Church and out of love for him, you too will store up dazzling treasures in heaven, where no one and nothing can take them away. Your loving uncle, Eddy

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January 23, 2026 – Gathered and Sent

Friday of the Second Week in Ordinary Time

 

Mark 3:13-19

Jesus went up the mountain and summoned those whom he wanted and they came to him. He appointed Twelve, whom he also named Apostles, that they might be with him and he might send them forth to preach and to have authority to drive out demons: He appointed the Twelve: Simon, whom he named Peter; James, son of Zebedee, and John the brother of James, whom he named Boanerges, that is, sons of thunder; Andrew, Philip, Bartholomew, Matthew, Thomas, James the son of Alphaeus; Thaddeus, Simon the Cananean, and Judas Iscariot who betrayed him.

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, you reveal to me in Scriptures and through the Tradition and teachings of the Church your plan for humanity. Help me to recognize the gift of the Church in your plan of salvation.

Encountering Christ:

  1. “He Went Up the Mountain”: Throughout Sacred Scriptures, mountain summits are revelatory places: The Ten Commandments were revealed on Mount Sinai; the foreshadowing of the Messiah’s sacrifice was revealed on Mount Moriah upon which Abraham brought his son Isaac; the Transfiguration in which the Spirit and the Father revealed the Son took place on Mount Tabor. They also represent solemn moments of encounter with God in which he established some truth. We could make a parallel to our spiritual life. When we set aside some time to “go up the mountain” to pray (on a daily basis or at a retreat, for example), it often bears fruit in a deeper knowledge of God. We can return from the mountain more deeply convicted about the plan of God for our lives.

     

  2. A Chosen Twelve: In this Gospel passage, Jesus “makes” or appoints twelve Apostles. From all the other disciples he chose twelve, mysteriously even choosing one who would fall away from the fold. These twelve Apostles were chosen as the foundation stones of the Church to “be with him,” “to preach,” and “to have authority to drive out demons.” Jesus gave them the mandate to continue his mission and the power to do so. I, too, am chosen and bear gifts to bring about the Kingdom here and now.

     

  3. You Are the Eternal Shepherd: With the mandate came a promise to be with them. Christ’s presence with those appointed for this mission continues today through the apostles’ successors. The Mass Preface of the Apostles I proclaims, “You are the eternal Shepherd who never leaves his flock untended. Through the apostles you watch over us and protect us always. You made them shepherds of the flock to share in the work of your Son.” Though one may fall, they are nonetheless appointed. This truth highlights the need for the rest of the Church to pray for its leaders, that none may be lost.

Conversing with Christ: Lord Jesus, I do not always understand your ways, but help me to trust in you and your Mystical Body the Church. I pray for her leaders and all the fold, that we will be faithful to your desires for holiness and mission, bringing many more to encounter you more fully through the Church.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will pray for those in leadership in the Church, that they may use their invested authority for the holiness of the Church and all peoples.

For Further Reflection: Scott Hahn on Papal Infallibility,  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5crScs1uWtg.

CCC 857-870 http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P29.HTM.

Jennifer Ristine is a consecrated woman of Regnum Christi who is dedicated to spiritual and faith formation through teaching, conferences, writing, and spiritual direction. While serving in Ancient Magdala she wrote Mary Magdalene: Insights from Ancient Magdala.

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Ask a Priest: “Is It OK to Put Sentimental Value in a T-shirt?”

Q: Is it OK to put sentimental value onto things, or is that considered unhealthy attachment to objects? For example, I have this shirt in my closet from when I was in middle school which a lot of my friends signed. Although it doesn’t fit me anymore, I enjoy keeping it because it reminds me of when I was in middle school and of good times. Is this sinful? I am aware it is just a T-shirt, but are we allowed to add more value to it? I believe it is OK as long as I don’t value it more than God or put it above God. Am I correct? Is sentimental value OK to have? Thanks for your help. — Pablo

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

One factor that needs to be considered is the intensity of the attachment. Obsessive attachment to things isn’t healthy.

On the other hand, we do need to use things to help us and others reach our true goal in life (which is heaven).

Let’s take a few simple examples.

A mom might guard her kitchen utensils to ensure that she has the tools she needs to cook meals for her family. Keeping her spouse and children well fed helps them carry out their missions in life.

Her guarding of the utensils is understandable; but she can do that without getting attached to them.

A man might keep a photo of his deceased parents in a prominent place in his house. If the photo reminds him to pray for their souls, that’s fine.

But if the photo prompts constant sorrow in him or makes him pine for the past in such a way that he neglects giving attention to people around him, that’s not good.

Now, keeping a T-shirt for sentimental reasons might not hurt your spiritual life so long as you don’t give it some elevated status.

You want to be careful not to get stuck in the past, to the extent that you are distracted from doing the things you need to do now, such as your education and growth in the faith.

The fact that you are asking this question might be a sign that the Holy Spirit is nudging you to rethink whether the shirt is worth keeping.

It can be helpful to go through your things occasionally and ask that famous question of St. Bernard of Clairvaux, “Quid hoc ad aeternitatem?” What does this matter in the light of eternity?

A solid prayer life and sacramental life can help you to answer that question.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!