January 13, 2026

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Hilary of Poitiers

Dear Heidi, You feel like you’re in exile?  Long dark nights, short grey days, cold icy windowpanes and the same boring “gruel” each day (I doubt cafeteria food is THAT bad…).  It does indeed sound a bit exilic.  So you have two choices: transfer (which would mean renouncing all the good reasons that brought you north for college in the first place), or take advantage.  Yes, it is possible to take advantage of being in exile.  Don’t just believe me (though I do have some experience in this regard), believe today’s saint, and follow in his footsteps. He was born in western France, to well-to-do pagan parents, who dutifully brought him up in the deadening falsity of paganism.  But God had other plans.  After he married and started his family, he decided to dedicate himself to further study (he had already received a solid classical education in rhetoric).  Questions about the meaning of life interested him most, and with the help of Providence, his sincere, inquiring mind made its way step by step towards Christianity, which he eventually embraced wholeheartedly.  So fertile did the soil of his soul show itself that he was soon ordained and then named bishop of his hometown of Poitiers.  Tirelessly, he preached and taught and served the temporal and eternal needs of his flock.  But a few years into it things got complicated. The Arian heresy was spreading like wildfire at the time (the greatest of heresies, that lasted almost six centuries; it claimed, among other things, that Christ was not truly divine).  And the Emperor got into the fray – on the wrong side.  He started to promote Arian bishops and demote faithful ones.  Hilary happened to be one of the latter, and he was carted off to Phrygia when he wouldn’t sign the Arian papers.  For four years he was exiled, with all the sufferings that entailed (the ones you listed in your note, plus a host of others), but he was never idle.  He increased his already prolific writing, striving to do through the written word what his exile precluded him from doing in person.  He sent a defense of the true faith the Emperor, he composed commentaries on books from the Bible, and he redacted a treatise thoroughly defending Catholic truth called “On the Trinity”.  Eventually, he made his way to Constantinople, the seedbed of the rebels, and publicly challenged the leading Arian to a debate.  It was rather embarrassing, but Saturninus declined, and Hilary was sent back to Poitiers, where they thought he would drop into obscurity.  Instead, he called a council of the bishops in Gaul and continued confounding the Arians and supporting Christ’s Church. So as you can see, he got a lot done in his four years of exile – more than most people do in a lifetime.  If you stay close to Christ, and focus more on what opportunities he gives you than on the sacrifices he demands of you, I will venture a bet that your four year “exile” will be equally fruitful, if not equally dramatic. Your fellow deportee, Uncle Eddy

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Change the World

Dear Friends,

 

Have you ever wanted to change the world, to leave a lasting imprint that will be felt long after you are gone? I do. I specifically joined a lay movement in 1999 to change the world with Jesus. After 26 years, I’m still holding on to that. The other day, I came across a song the Newsboys popularized in 2013 called That’s How You Change the World that spoke to my heart.  The song begins with:

All my life I had big dreams
To do big things and make a change
And all the while I just passed by
The simple needs right here next to me

So it is, with all our lives. Every day brings new opportunities for Christians to be agents of change for the good of others. Peter Damian, a Saint and a Doctor of the Church was very much an agent of change.

Peter’s parents died when he was young. He was educated by one of his brothers and became a teacher. He felt the call to a monastic life of seclusion, prayer and penance. At the age of thirty-five, Brother Peter Damian was appointed Prior of his Benedictine monastery and eventually named a cardinal, a position he did not desire.

He wrote many letters to bring about clergy reforms. He fought against simony (the selling of Church offices and spiritual favors) and he led the Gregorian Reform Movement to address sexual abuses by clerics. In all his tasks, Peter Damian gave a compelling personal witness of holiness. The way he lived his life inspired others to change. 

You and I may not be called to reform the Church, but we are all called to be agents of change among our neighbors, speaking truth in times of confusion, extending mercy where there is unforgiveness and offering love where there is hatred.

It’s the prayer in an empty room
Little things we do when nobody’s around
A hand reaching out to a heart in doubt
It’s the smallest spark that can light the dark
That’s how you change the world

When we bow our heads in prayer tonight, let us ask for the grace to be the spark that lights up someone else’s dark or the love that comforts another’s heart. It may go unnoticed but it will make the world a better place one soul at a time.

Yours in the Heart of Jesus,

Donna

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Ask a Priest: “How Can I Overcome Pride?”

Q: I am struggling with the sin of pride. I was proud and felt superior to someone whom I got to know who had some temptations. Now I am experiencing the same temptations as him. I have understood the cause and feel repentant, but the pride keeps creeping in and I still am being tormented by the temptations. What can I do to overcome this situation and be closer to God? — Josina

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

If you struggle with pride, you aren’t alone. We all struggle with it.

Pride is the root of all sin. Fighting it will be a lifelong task.

Some short advice is this:

Learn to contemplate Jesus on the cross and ask yourself what makes you feel superior to anyone, since it was your sins that helped put Our Lord on that cross.

Meditate on the Gospel accounts of the passion and death of Jesus and ask if God is demanding the same kind of sacrifice from you.

Then, learn to be humble. Admit your mistakes quickly. Never think you are better than others. Whatever good we have, is a gift of God; it’s not something we give ourselves.

And learn to be the first to volunteer to help people. Only through constant service and putting others first will we make progress in fighting pride.

For related reading, see:

St. Elizabeth of the Trinity on Combating Pride

Knowing and Fighting the Queen of Sin

I hope that some of this helps. Count on my prayers.

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January 13, 2026 – A Time for Order

Tuesday of the First Week in Ordinary Time

 

Mark 1:21-28

Jesus came to Capernaum with his followers, and on the sabbath he entered the synagogue and taught. The people were astonished at his teaching, for he taught them as one having authority and not as the scribes. In their synagogue was a man with an unclean spirit; he cried out, “What have you to do with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Have you come to destroy us? I know who you are—the Holy One of God!” Jesus rebuked him and said, “Quiet! Come out of him!” The unclean spirit convulsed him and with a loud cry came out of him. All were amazed and asked one another, “What is this? A new teaching with authority. He commands even the unclean spirits and they obey him.” His fame spread everywhere throughout the whole region of Galilee.

Opening Prayer: Jesus, grant me the grace to response to your healing touch, your Word, and your presence, and so give you glory.

Encountering Christ:

  1. The Pharisees’ Response to Jesus’ Healing on the Sabbath: The Pharisees continually complained about Jesus healing on the Sabbath, as it was a day of rest. Their emphasis on the absolute living of the law blindsided them to the purpose of the command—to maintain right worship of God. The Sabbath reminds us to keep God in the center of all our human activities. It reflects the culmination of creation when God rested—when all was subject to him. Saint Paul understood this, saying, “He subjected everything under his feet… When everything is subjected to him, then the Son himself will [also] be subjected to the one who subjected everything to him, so that God may be all in all” (1 Cor 15:27-28). Jesus’ healings on the Sabbath were precisely a subjection of all things to the Father.

     

  2. The Listeners’ Response to Jesus’ Teaching “As One Having Authority”: Jesus’ teachings caused a stir. Bystanders who felt the irritation of Christ’s message resisted. They couldn’t stand to let go of their own perceived control and listen to someone who spoke with authority, especially when what he was saying required a change of life. On the contrary, those who listened with open hearts were impacted by God’s Word. Saint Paul, who did not know Jesus in the flesh, had firsthand experience of the impact of God’s Word. “The word of God is living and effective” (Heb 4:12). Pope Benedict exhorted us in Spe Salvi to be open to the Gospel, as it is beyond informative—it is performative. It has the power to change our lives, open us to new horizons of hope. Jesus offers us hope of a new life when we encounter him in Word and sacrament.

     

  3. The Demons’ Response to Jesus’ Holiness: Isn’t it ironic that we are quick to deny truth when it creates discomfort, yet the demons themselves will call it by name? This Gospel invites us to a deeper examination of conscience, to recognize any resistance to the Holy Spirit, to put things in the right order, to resist the temptations of pride that causes us to refuse to relinquish our power. We bow our heads in humility before the presence of God.

Conversing with Christ: Come, Holy Spirit, illumine my mind to see what I must see and respond to you in true humility and right worship.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will be attentive to the dispositions of my heart and allow Christ to be in the center of my decisions and actions.

For Further Reflection: Spe Salve 2, 3: “Faith Is Hope.”

 Jennifer Ristine is a consecrated woman of Regnum Christi who is dedicated to spiritual and faith formation through teaching, conferences, writing, and spiritual direction. While serving in Ancient Magdala she wrote Mary Magdalene: Insights from Ancient Magdala, https://rcspirituality.org/book/mary-magdalene-insights-from-ancient-magdala/.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!