November 28, 2025

“Ask a Priest: How Can I Feel God’s Presence?”

Q: What does it take to feel God’s presence? I have been hoping and praying to God for 10 years that I could feel his love, but I’ve never felt anything. It feels like no matter what I do (going to Church, reading the Bible, going to Bible study, praying, reflecting, asking questions), I just feel nothing. I am so jealous of the people I see who seem so fulfilled and satisfied with God’s presence. I so desperately want to believe in God with all my heart, but my relationship, if it exists, seems so completely one-sided that it doesn’t feel like a relationship at all. I have no idea how to continue my faith at this point. – Bobby

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

It might sound odd, but having a close relationship with God doesn’t necessarily involve warm, fuzzy feelings about his presence.

God’s presence in our lives can be more subtle than that.

This might sound odd, too: The fact that for the last 10 years, despite the lack of feelings, you continue to go to Mass, pray, read the Bible, etc., indicates that you are growing in your relationship with God.

Just imagine: If prayer always brought warm feelings, the whole world would probably be praying.

Prayer is tougher when there are little or no warm feelings. Indeed, prayer is a “battle of faith” (Catechism, 2573). 

Prayer that comes harder for us might be a sign that our prayer is purer — we are doing it for God’s glory and not because we are immediately “getting anything out of it.”

An analogy might help.

When does a mom show her love more? When her children are perfectly behaved and the house is quiet? Or when she is up at 2 a.m. taking care of a sick baby?

She might not have a lot of warm feelings at 2 a.m. Yet it’s at that moment when she shows the true love of a mom; she is up in the wee hours for the sake of her baby, not her own warm feelings.

So, when prayer is hard, keep persevering in it. God certainly hears your prayers. He is closer to you than you can imagine.

Another sign that your prayer is fruitful is your growth in the virtues. If you are growing more charitable and patient (and less jealous), that’s a sign you are on the right road.

For further reading you might find Part IV of the Catechism, on Christian Prayer, to be worthwhile. Count on my prayers.

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November 28, 2025 – The Lesson of the Fig Tree

Friday of the Thirty-Fourth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 21:29-33

Jesus told his disciples a parable. “Consider the fig tree and all the other trees. When their buds burst open, you see for yourselves and know that summer is now near; in the same way, when you see these things happening, know that the Kingdom of God is near. Amen, I say to you, this generation will not pass away until all these things have taken place. Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will not pass away.”

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, increase my faith, trust, and love. Grant me true courage in the face of trials.

Encountering Christ:

  1. The Fig Tree: Figs are valuable for their sustenance in a land like Israel, where summers require that people carefully nourish themselves and hydrate to protect themselves from the heat. Jesus compared the coming of the Kingdom to the maturing of a fig tree. He seemed to be suggesting that, far from being a time of fear, the end-times will arrive at a time of blossoming and fullness. In the Bible, the fig tree appeared in the garden of Eden covering up the shame of Adam and Eve. In the midst of their sinfulness they found protection. Throughout sacred Scriptures, the fig tree symbolizes prosperity, well-being, and security. But these qualities are temporary, until the true protection offered by the Son of God comes.

     

  2. Heaven and Earth Will Pass Away: Jesus reminds us of the temporality and fleetingness of this life as he promises a new Heaven and a new earth. The Church teaches in the Catechism that “at the end of time, the Kingdom of God will come in its fullness. After the universal judgment, the righteous will reign for ever with Christ, glorified in body and soul. The universe itself will be renewed (CCC 1042). “Sacred Scripture calls this mysterious renewal, which will transform humanity and the world, ‘new heavens and a new earth.’ It will be the definitive realization of God’s plan to bring under a single head ‘all things in [Christ], things in Heaven and things on earth’” (CCC 1043).

     

  3. My Words Will Not Pass Away: Jesus offers us eternal food in his words. He is the eternal Word made flesh. In him and through him we enter into the heavenly Jerusalem. He is the gateway to the new universe, the new heavens and earth where God will dwell fully. Revelation 21:4 promises us that in the heavenly Jerusalem, “he will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, for the old order has passed away.”

Conversing with Christ: Lord Jesus, help me to be steadfast in the living of my faith and hope. I want to anticipate, not with fear but with joyful hope, the coming of the new heavens and earth. Grant that I may live fully in the present to make your Kingdom come here on earth as I await our final homeland.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will reflect on how I live with a vision of the world to come. How does this affect my decisions and attitudes in my daily life?

For Further Reflection: The End: A Study of the Book of Revelation.

Jennifer Ristine is a Consecrated Woman of Regnum Christi. Her predominant field of mission has included spiritual and faith formation through teaching, retreats, conferences, spiritual direction, and pilgrimages. She lived in Ancient Magdala (Holy Land) from 2014-2018. She has authored Mary Magdalene: Insights from Ancient Magdala, Nine Days with Mary Magdalene, a historical fiction novel, Becoming Magdalene and a Companion spiritual exercises guidebook.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!