October 31, 2025

Fr José LaBoy

Fr José LaBoy, LC, is Called to the Father’s House (1969-2025)

Father José LaBoy, LC, was called to the Lord’s house on October 24, 2025. He was living in Brazil. Father José was born on March 29, 1969, in New York City. He was the son of José Bolívar LaBoy and Carmen Delia LaBoy. He entered the Apostolic School in Center Harbor, New Hampshire, in August 1985. He entered the novitiate in September 1986. He made his perpetual profession in October 1994. He was ordained a priest on December 22, 2001, in the Basilica of Saint Mary Major in Rome.

Fr José LaBoy Fr José LaBoy

December 22, 2001

Priestly ordination presided by Card. Severino Poletto in the Basilica of Saint Mary Major, Rome, Italy

Fr José LaBoy

November 1987, choir of the novitiate in Cheshire, Connecticut, USA

With degrees in philosophy and theology from the Pontifical Athenaeum Regina Apostolorum, he completed his apostolic internship between 1990 and 1994, and again from 1998 to 2001, as a professor of Classical Humanities in Salamanca, Spain, and Cheshire, USA. From 2001 to 2007, he was the study coordinator and a lecturer at the Athenaeum’s Institute of Religious Sciences, and from 2008 to 2012, he was a philosophy and theology professor at what was then the Center for Higher Studies in Thornwood (New York).

On October 13, 2012, he arrived in Brazil, where he served as a professor at the Maria Mater EcclesiaeSeminary and as a spiritual director for seminarians. During these years, he also accompanied numerous lay and consecrated people in spiritual direction and retreats, serving the Regnum Christi communities in Ijuí and Criciúma with generosity and exceptional dedication.

Father LaBoy was an example of generous self-giving to Christ. Those who knew him remember him for his joy, spirit, and enthusiasm.

Fr José LaBoy

As the Territory of Brazil reported, a group of Regnum Christi women visited him in the hospital on the day of his passing. They related that they asked him who his best friend was, to which the priest replied without hesitation:

“Jesus is my best friend!”

That phrase brilliantly summarizes the way in which he lived: with his whole heart in Christ and a faithful friendship with the Lord, who called him from a young age.

Father Dana Lundburg, superior of the community of priests working at the seminary, presided over the funeral wake Mass on Sunday, October 26. Father Julio Martí, territorial director of Brazil, celebrated the Mass on Monday, October 27, and the funeral Mass was presided by Father Paulo Valentini.

We thank God for the gift of his life and his priesthood, and we invite everyone to remember him in their prayers, especially at Holy Mass and the Holy Rosary, praying also for his family and for all those who shared with him their path of consecration and mission.

Fr José LaBoy

Fr José LaBoy

 

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“Ask a Priest: Could an Active Lesbian Be Baptized Catholic?”

Q: Can I be baptized into the Catholic Church as a non-celibate lesbian? I’m in a long-term relationship with another woman but have discovered great peace and meaning in the Catholic faith and would like to be initiated as a full member of the Church. I am aware that receiving Communion as a non-celibate homosexual would be considered sacrilege, but is it possible to be baptized? To what extent can I engage with the Church at this time? — R.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

It’s good that you are attracted to the Catholic faith. That shows the Holy Spirit is working in the heart of you, his beloved daughter.

Undergoing baptism and becoming Catholic would be a person’s way of saying she embraces Church teachings and recognizes the faith as true.

It sounds as though you are not at that point yet, since you don’t seem ready to give up homosexual behavior, which isn’t part of God’s plan for creation.

But don’t despair. Even St. Augustine struggled to cut with his former ways before fully embracing the Catholic faith (“Lord, give me chastity and continence, but not yet!”).

My short advice is to intensify your prayer life and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Feel free to attend Mass (but refraining from Communion, of course).

And try studying the basis for the Church’s sexual ethics.

You might look at Man and Woman He Created Them: A Theology of the Body, by Pope John Paul II. 

A more accessible read might be Theology of the Body for Beginners.

You might also consider reaching out to Courage International, which ministers to people with same-sex attraction.

Even if you aren’t 100% on board yet with the faith, you might consider contacting a nearby Catholic parish and asking about its OCIA program for potential converts.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.

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October 31, 2025 – Sabbath Blues

Friday of the Thirtieth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 14:1-6

On a sabbath Jesus went to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees, and the people there were observing him carefully. In front of him there was a man suffering from dropsy. Jesus spoke to the scholars of the law and Pharisees in reply, asking, “Is it lawful to cure on the sabbath or not?” But they kept silent; so he took the man and, after he had healed him, dismissed him. Then he said to them “Who among you, if your son or ox falls into a cistern, would not immediately pull him out on the sabbath day?” But they were unable to answer his question.

Opening Prayer: I know you are here, Lord. You are always at my side, and you are always on my side. You never stop thinking of me. You delight in me—this is why you created me, why you went to the cross for my sins, why you have gone to prepare a place for me in your Father’s house. I come to you today full of gratitude, wanting to praise you, to bless you, and to hear and heed whatever word you wish to speak to me.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Stuck on the Sabbath: The question of the Sabbath comes up repeatedly in the Gospels. In fact, a very similar encounter occurred just a few verses earlier in Chapter 13 of St. Luke’s Gospel. The Pharisees had the wrong idea about God’s commandments. They considered them a kind of obstacle course. Successfully navigating through them was a way of proving oneself, of showing oneself worthy of praise. But the commandments of God are never merely random rules of a game. They are linked to our very nature. Their purpose is to remind us of our purpose—to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and to love our neighbor as ourselves. Anytime the commandments of God or the teachings of the Church are separated from this root, they are easily misinterpreted. Jesus continues to challenge the Pharisees’ conception of the Sabbath, because the Pharisees had created so many stipulations regarding keeping the Sabbath that they had entirely lost sight of its true purpose. And they had done similar things with the other commandments as well. His question about rescuing a son or an ox who falls into a cistern, even on the Sabbath day, is meant to awaken them to a new avenue of reflection, an avenue that can help them get back on track. With what spirit do I see and understand the commandments and the teaching of the Church? Do I need to get back on track, in some way or another?

     

  2. A Surprising “Existential Periphery”: St. Luke points out that Jesus went to dine at the home of one of the leading Pharisees. This is worth noting for at least two reasons. First, by this time the Pharisees were already marshaling their power and influence against Jesus. They had set themselves up as his enemies. But Jesus continues to interact with them, to spend time with them, to try and reconcile with them. This is the spirit of Christ, who never gives up on anyone, no matter how hopeless they may seem to be. Is that my approach as well? Second, this encounter, which isn’t the only one of its kind in the Gospels, breaks down a common misunderstanding about Jesus. Very often, Jesus is depicted as a champion of the poor, the downtrodden, and the marginalized, to the exclusion of the popular, the wealthy, and the well-educated. This is a false opposition. It doesn’t come from the Gospels, but from modern sociopolitical agendas. Jesus was and is the champion of every human being. He came to bring his grace to every single person. He didn’t exclude or condemn the wealthy and successful. Rather, he simply pointed out that the poor and downtrodden often seem to be more open to the Gospel message than those who tend to be self-sufficient. But he reached out to all of them. In today’s world, the Church is called to do the same. We must find Christ in the poor, the sick, the materially underprivileged. But we must also find him in the rich and influential, the successful leaders in every sector of society. They deserve to receive the grace and truth of the Gospel as much as everyone else, and the societies they influence will only benefit if they do receive them. They must not be spiritually overlooked or written off. They must be evangelized.

     

  3. Our Sunday Observance: In today’s secularized world, we tend to err in a different way as regards our observance of the Lord’s Day. Instead of overemphasizing its difference, we can easily underemphasize it. Sunday doesn’t look too different, in many Catholics’ lives, than Saturday or even a weekday. Instead of being a true break in the demanding rhythms of the workaday world, and a time to renew and refresh our souls with joyful worship, restful contemplation, and relaxing family fellowship, it becomes a crowded and noisy catch-all and catch-up day. Much of the freneticism of today’s world could be better managed by all of us if we would make a firm decision to live the Lord’s Day as God commands us to live it—remember, his commandments are anchored in fundamental needs of human nature, fundamental dimensions of human life that help us flourish if we respect them and disrupt our flourishing if we don’t. Here is some of the Catechism’s description of the proper living of the Lord’s Day (2184-2185): Just as God “rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had done,” human life has a rhythm of work and rest. The institution of the Lord’s Day helps everyone enjoy adequate rest and leisure to cultivate their familial, cultural, social, and religious lives. On Sundays and other holy days of obligation, the faithful are to refrain from engaging in work or activities that hinder the worship owed to God, the joy proper to the Lord’s Day, the performance of the works of mercy, and the appropriate relaxation of mind and body. How well does my normal Lord’s Day reflect those principles behind the Third Commandment? How eager am I to receive the blessings God wants to give me through my obedience to him in this area?

Conversing with Christ: At the deepest level, your will is for me to live life to the full, here on earth and with you forever in heaven after I die. Your commandments, the teachings of your Church, the duties of my state in life, the providential circumstances in which I live—these are all expressions of that fundamental will that I fulfill the dream you have for me. Please help me to always remember this. When the demands of your will feel burdensome to my fallen human nature, help me to see the bigger picture, to trust in you, and to joyfully embrace my cross, knowing that on the other side of every Good Friday, when I live it in union with you, there is always an Easter Sunday.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will talk with my family about how we live the Lord’s Day, and about how we might be able to live it better.

For Further Reflection: Read the section of the Catechism on the Third Commandment.

Father John Bartunek, LC, is an author, speaker, and contributor at RCSpirituality.org, an online spirituality center providing a variety of resources for spiritual growth.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!