October 21, 2025

“Ask a Priest: Is It OK to Deal With a Pro-LGBTQ Bank?”

Q: I do business at a bank which offers a stellar 5.15% APY [annual percentage yield] savings account. That’s mainly why I bank there. However, I noticed they offer loans for in vitro fertilization (IVF) and they seem pro-LGBTQ. They offer loans on neutral things, too. The problem is most banks are supporting bad stuff. So, is it wrong for me to still bank there? — Neil

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC:

The answer depends on various factors.

I’ll assume from your note that you don’t want to support LGBTQ stuff. That’s good.

You mention that most banks support bad causes. Are there any that don’t?

If you could find an alternative, you might want to consider doing your banking elsewhere, even if it means a lower return on your savings.

If you can’t easily find an alternative, you could probably stick with your current bank, since your intention isn’t to support bad causes. 

One suggestion: Think about letting the bank know that you don’t care for its LGBTQ policy and its IVF loans and that you will keep an eye out for an alternative institution.

This might not change any minds immediately. But if enough people sent the same message, the bank might rethink its approach. Change, if ever it comes, starts with small steps.

For further reading see this post at the National Catholic Register.

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Keeping it Real

Dear Friends,

 

A framed print hangs in my office of Mother Teresa and her quote, “Sacrifice to be real must cost, must hurt, must empty us of ourselves.” I love Mother Teresa, but I often pass this frame, smile at her face, and twinge a bit from the words.

In a mission to Haiti, we traveled to a remote village suffering from a cholera outbreak. I’ve never before or since seen a people who endured so much suffering coupled with such extreme poverty. The locals were severely malnourished following their country’s crippling by a major earthquake.

An image that stayed with me for years from that mission is of a young mother nursing her baby in the clinic’s courtyard. The mother was completely emaciated and nearing the end of her own life from starvation. She was not feeding her child from her surplus; she was feeding her from her need. The baby, just as emaciated, was depleting what scarce nutrients the mother had left.  This was love. Pure sacrificial love and, by Mother Teresa’s standards, “real.”

Some reading this might be in a situation similar to the mother above. I pray for your perseverance. Most of us are probably not. So I ask myself, where is the Lord inviting me to make real sacrifices?  Perhaps it looks more like visiting my mother in memory care for longer visits, repeating the same sentence ten times every five minutes, despite having hours of office work awaiting my return. Perhaps it looks like skipping a much-anticipated date night to watch my grandkids so my kids can have a night out. Or perhaps, its joyfully sliding to the middle of the pew between elderly couples whose hearing aids whistle all Mass, interrupting the sacred silence. 

I am certain we all have moments when the Lord invites us to make real sacrifices; sacrifices that empty us of what we want, to love others more deeply. Sacrifice is not about giving from our surplus—it’s about giving from our need. Jesus didn’t sacrifice some of his Blood, he gave it all so we can live forever with God.

Now, that is real.

Yours in the Heart of Jesus,

Donna

 

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October 21, 2025 – The Best Is Yet to Come

Tuesday of the Twenty-Ninth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Luke 12:35-38

Jesus said to his disciples: “Gird your loins and light your lamps and be like servants who await their master’s return from a wedding, ready to open immediately when he comes and knocks. Blessed are those servants whom the master finds vigilant on his arrival. Amen, I say to you, he will gird himself, have them recline at table, and proceed to wait on them. And should he come in the second or third watch and find them prepared in this way, blessed are those servants.”

 Opening Prayer: Come, Holy Spirit, come! Be with me as I ponder these words of Scripture seeking wisdom for my day.

Encountering Christ:

  1. The Last Things: Maybe you are wondering about—or even growing tired of—the recurring theme of these days’ Gospels: the end of life, the end of time, the end of the world. The reason for this emphasis is that the yearly liturgical cycle is approaching its end, and this final stretch is dedicated precisely to the “last things.” In a few weeks, the liturgical year will culminate in the feast of Christ the King before commencing the new year with Advent. Let’s take these last days of the church year to dive deeply into the themes of death, judgment, heaven, and hell with the assurance that our contemplation of these realities will help us to grow in holiness.

     

  2. Ready and Waiting: How ready are we to meet the Master? As the days grow shorter and the light becomes dimmer, we observe that nature has reached the wise and fragile age of an old man. Is one not reminded that all the intense vigor of existence, all the fresh beauty of youth, all the accomplishments of life are fleeting? We can appreciate that this time of year helps to put us in the proper frame of mind to anticipate eternity. We are asked in this Gospel to be ready to meet Jesus face-to-face at any moment. If we’re vigilant, we can expect the Master’s blessing! What will that look like?

     

  3. The Master Waits on Us: Our Lord became man—Jesus lived among us, suffered, died and was buried, and rose from the dead, all for our benefit. That’s how much he loves us. But it seems more than incredible to imagine that Jesus would want to wait on us one day at the heavenly banquet. Yet he tells us so in this parable. What love! What humility! Truly, “What eye has not seen, and ear has not heard, and what has not entered the human heart, what God has prepared for those who love him” (1 Cor 2:9). Contemplating a love so incomprehensible should inspire us to drop the shiny toys we sometimes cling to in this life and run into his waiting arms.

Conversing with Christ: Jesus, my heart is yours, and I will prepare for your visit: be it during my next holy Communion, be it at the end of my days, be it by means of your continuous visits throughout each day when you simply look out for my well-being. You are always welcome and expected here!

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will take a moment to meditate on the fact that earthly life is but the prelude before the reality of eternal life.

For Further Reflection: “Man needs eternity for every other hope is too brief, too limited for him. Man can be explained only if there is a Love which overcomes every isolation, even that of death, in a totality which also transcends time and space. Man can be explained, he finds his deepest meaning, only if there is God. And we know that God left his distance for us and made himself close. He entered into our life and tells us: ‘I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and whoever lives and believes in me shall never die’” (Jn 11:25-26) (Pope Benedict XVI during General Audience on November 2, 2011: Complete address).

Father Gabriel von Wendt, LC, works as an assistant professor at the Pontifical Athenaeum Regina Apostolorum. He has a passion for philosophy and the role of Catholic faith in contemporary culture.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!