June 25, 2025

“Ask a Priest: May I Baptize My Muslim Husband?”

Q: I am a practicing Catholic. My husband is Muslim. He recently said I could baptize him, but he refuses to go into a Catholic church to be baptized by a priest. He is not sick or near death. Is it OK for me to baptize him? I think it is an emergency to help save his soul. Also, I think it would be a good steppingstone for him to get to know Jesus and increase his desire to come into the Church and access the sacraments. – K.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC A: It’s a promising sign that your husband is interested in baptism. You are likely having a big impact on him. The short answer to your question, however, is no. You should not baptize him. Except for rare cases (such as imminent death of an infant), a priest or deacon should administer baptism. The Code of Canon Law says in Canon 530, “The following functions are especially entrusted to a pastor: 1/ the administration of baptism.” The fact that your husband doesn’t want to be baptized in the Church by a priest indicates that he needs to learn (and accept) more about the faith before he undergoes baptism. Jesus and his Church go together. The Church is the custodian of the sacraments and dispenses them in a way that is meant to help people. A Catholic baptism of an adult presumes that the person intends to live his faith fully, which means he would seek confirmation and attend Mass regularly, etc. In fact, adults who undergo baptism usually receive confirmation immediately afterward and then Communion. All of this implies proper catechesis and provides the true steppingstones a person needs. This is a moment when you want to intensify your prayers for your husband. It might be good to offer up sacrifices for him, too (such as fasting or Eucharistic adoration). Ideally, you want to live your Catholic faith as fully as possible, in part to be a great witness to your husband. Part of being a practicing Catholic is following Church norms on the sacraments. It might be good to speak with your pastor and see what he recommends. It would be important to learn why your husband seems to want to keep his distance from the Church. That he is interested in baptism is a good sign. You want to make sure that he receives the sacrament with the right preparation. Count on my prayers.  

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June 25, 2025 – Bear Good Fruit

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Wednesday of the Twelfth Week in Ordinary Time

 

Matthew 7:15-20

Jesus said to his disciples: “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but underneath are ravenous wolves. By their fruits you will know them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? Just so, every good tree bears good fruit, and a rotten tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a rotten tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire. So by their fruits you will know them.”

Opening Prayer: Lord help me to deeply embrace your teaching in these lines of Scripture so that, by your grace, I produce only good fruit.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Beware: False prophets have always plagued believers. These days, many succumb to  false prophets such as politicians, Hollywood stars, or Instagram influencers. The fruits of these prophets are divisiveness, confusion, loneliness, and disorientation. People look for God on apps like HeadSpace, in meditation closets, or exercise classes, completely missing that God revealed himself in the person of Jesus Christ. Our Lord counseled us to “beware” of these “rotten trees.” Like all false prophets, these lead us away from truth and happiness. If we partake of their fruit, we will not experience the peace and joy Our Lord wants to give us.

  2. Bearing Good Fruit: Jesus said good trees bear good fruit and cannot bear rotten fruit. Spiritually speaking, why is this so? Because good trees are rooted in Christ and fed by the Spirit. They know they owe their existence to God and give glory to him in their goodness. The fruit they bear is the spiritual consequence of a life aligned with God’s will for them. Their fruit is God’s doing, not theirs.

  3. You Will Know Them:  If it’s possible to know false prophets by their bad fruit, why are so many people taken in by them? One possibility is that people choose the “low-hanging bad fruit” over the less accessible good fruit. To discern good fruit from bad fruit, we must know Jesus Christ. We have to put some effort into reading, studying, asking questions—in other words, seeking—and praying. As we draw closer to Christ he gives us ways to discern good fruit from bad fruit, and good trees from bad ones. As we grow in holiness, not only do we more easily recognize good fruit, but by his work within us, we bear good fruit of our own, such as forgiveness, humility, chastity, love, mercy, and self-control.

Conversing with Christ:  Lord, false prophets abound, and their fruit seems attractive and satisfying. Protect me and those I love from consuming bad fruit. May your presence be so powerful within me that I cannot help but bear good fruit for your glory.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will ardently pray for the leaders in our world who are drawing people away from the Gospel.

For Further Reflection: CCC 1832: The fruits of the Spirit are perfections that the Holy Spirit forms in us as the first fruits of eternal glory. The tradition of the Church lists twelve of them: charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, and chastity.

Maribeth Harper celebrated paying the last tuition bill for her kids’ college by writing a book for parents who have college-aged young adults; A Spiritual Toolbox: Tips for Parenting through the First Year of College. She is a wife of thirty-five years, mother of four, and grandmother of twelve and counting.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!