May 6, 2025

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: May I Attend My Girlfriend’s Lutheran Services?”

Q: My girlfriend is Lutheran and I am a devoted Catholic. Am I able to go to her service every so often to be a good boyfriend? We are trying to keep God at the center of our relationship. – David

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: It’s admirable that you and your friend want to keep God at the center of your relationship. That shows that your priorities are in the right place.

Your specific question touches on various considerations.

While Catholics aren’t strictly banned from attending a Protestant service, these services do not fulfill the Sunday Mass obligation.

Long-term factors are worth keeping in mind, too.

Protestant sermons will, by nature, expound views that won’t always be compatible with Catholic teaching.

Lutherans and Catholics don’t see eye-to-eye on certain issues, such as the papacy and the fact that Jesus established seven sacraments.

Exposure to such views could weaken your faith over time if you aren’t careful.

Another factor is the matter of precedent. Would attending Protestant services become a permanent part of your life if you married this woman?

Moreover, will your friend be attending Mass with you? Or is this a one-way street?

Another point to consider is marriage itself. The Church doesn’t encourage mixed marriages, based on its long pastoral experience.

Differences in religion can cause deep tensions later in a marriage. The temptation then arises to put religion on a back burner to “keep the peace” (see Catechism, nos. 1633-1637).

Also, your attending Catholic Masses and Protestant services could send confusing signals to your children. They might grow up thinking that one religion is as good as another, which isn’t true.

The above points are worth keeping in mind … especially for the sake of future children.

 

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Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

23 New Priests are Ordained for the Legionaries of Christ

Monsignor Pedro Pablo Elizondo, LC, bishop of Cancún-Chetumal (Mexico), sent a clear message to the newly ordained Legionary priests: courage, determination, and mission. The Mass was marked by deep emotion, joy, and a special word to the families of the new priests: thank you for accompanying and supporting your children.

May 3, 2025 was a very special date for 23 new Legionary priests and the thousands of people who attended the ordinations that took place in the Basilica of St. Paul Outside the Walls, an imposing structure, which is one of the four papal basilicas in Rome (the other three major basilicas are  St. Peter’s,  St. John Lateran, and  St. Mary Major ).

Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

There, Fernando Bustos (Mexico), Hans Candell (El Salvador), Fernando Castro (Colombia), Jurandir De Oliveira (Brazil), Jerome Dejoie (France), Jonathan Da Cruz (Brazil), Luis Angel Espinosa (Mexico), Giovani Espinoza (Mexico), Peter Hemm (Germany), John Kenny (United States), Alfonso Leon (Colombia), Diego Lobo (Venezuela), Gregorio Mejia (Mexico), Adrian Olvera (Mexico), Camilo Palomino (Colombia), Jaime Plasencia (Mexico), Carlos Ramirez (Mexico), Leonardo Ramirez (Argentina), Mario Sandoval (Mexico), Hector Santos (Mexico), Javier Villar (Spain), Valentin Schmidts (Germany) and Adolfo Wissar (Venezuela) lived a life-changing experience—their priestly ordinations. There with them, families, friends, fellow Legionaries and fellow members of Regnum Christi celebrated with immense spiritual joy and profound gratitude during this Jubilee Year of Hope, and in the days leading up to the Conclave which will select the next successor of Saint Peter.

Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

By 8 :00 am, two hours before the Mass was due to begin, the massive Basilica was already half full. The emotion that overwhelmed the men who walked into the Church as deacons was written on their faces as they were ordained and greeted their loved ones after the mass as priests. And rightly so, They have completed more than 10 years of formation in theology, philosophy, and humanities; they have carried out pastoral and apostolic work; and, perhaps most importantly, they have persisted in following the call God made to each of them, in their own time and in their own way, which meant renouncing many other worldly things. As did their families, letting go of a beloved child, all for God and the Church.

Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations
Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

In his homily, Bishop Pedro Pablo Elizondo, LC, of ​​Cancún-Chetumal, thanked each of the newly ordained priests for their dedication to God. “Thank you, brothers, for your years dedicated to the Lord. Thank you for your fidelity to God’s gift. Thank you for your courage and generosity, and thank you also to your fathers, your mothers, your siblings, and your family members who have supported you on this long journey in which you knew how to believe, hope, and love God’s gift. God will reward you with an abundance of his graces.” He also reminded them of a fundamental aspect of every Christian: “A vocation is born in prayer, matures in prayer, and bears fruit in prayer.”

Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

Another aspect that Monsignor Pedro Pablo emphasized was that “the Church needs priests who know how to get out of themselves, out of their comfort zone. It needs priests who are neither well-placed  nor accommodated. It needs priests who know how to create, who know how to undertake, who know how to have initiative, who know how to give everything for the mission with an overwhelming zeal for the salvation of souls. Pope Benedict XVI, in the moments of our greatest trial, in the hardest and most difficult moments, told us firmly and forcefully, settling doubts and concerns: there you will find a charism and the new emerging society must be saved.

The Church, in the midst of renewal, needs zealous and well-grounded priests, courageous, not well-off, not sedentary, who know how to take on new projects, have activity and initiative, who know how to give everything for the mission.”

The Mass and the rites involved with ordination (the presentation and election of the ordinands; the bishop’s address; the interrogation of the ordinands; the litany of the saints; the anointing with holy chrism; the distribution of the Gospels; the paten and chalice) took place amidst palable thanksgiving to God. As the Mass ended, the new priests came together for a group photo. At that moment, resounding applause from those present rang throughout the Basilica, a clear manifestation of the emotional intensity of the moment.

Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations
Legionaries of Christ 2025 Priestly Ordinations

The thousands present poured out of the basilica to celebrate and receive the blessings of the new priests, It all ended amidst hugs, smiles, laughter and tears from family and friends. God’s promise had been fulfilled.

 

Original Spanish publication on the Legionaries of Christ International website.

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Unpacking a Pontificate

Dear Friends in Christ,

 

The joy of Easter this year was tempered quickly by the death of Pope Francis the very next day.

It seemed surreal to have watched him give his Easter blessing to the crowds in St. Peter’s Square and then to learn of his passing so soon afterward.

Predictably, the stream of articles and commentaries started to appear, offering perspectives on his pontificate and his impact on the Church.

Francis was certainly his own man, sometimes unpredictable and surprising — and in ways that left some people uncomfortable.

In many ways his life reflected the style of Jesus, who made it a point to reach out to the marginalized and who often upset the standard ways of thinking and acting.

Our Lord ate with sinners, spoke publicly with a marginalized Samaritan woman with a checkered past (and present), and cured on the sabbath. And he chose his closest disciples from among the common folk and not from the ranks of the learned and wealthy.

Like Jesus, Francis left a legacy that will take time to unpack. Time and the guidance of the Holy Spirit will help teach us what to make of some of Francis’ eyebrow-raising footnotes and off-the-cuff comments.

It will be an exercise that calls all of us to be humble and open-minded.

We can do with it with confidence, though, since the same Spirit that guided and inspired the apostles after the Ascension will be here to lead us.

This might be a good moment to pray and reflect on the papacy with one of our Retreat Guides — Built to Last: A Retreat Guide on the St. Peter and the Papacy.

As we unite our prayers for the repose of the soul of Pope Francis, we can also beseech the Spirit’s help as the Church looks toward the next Successor of Peter.

In Christ,

Father Edward McIlmail, LC
Ask a Priest contributor

 

 

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May 6, 2025 – Signs and Wonders

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Tuesday of the Third Week of Easter

 

John 6:30-35

The crowd said to Jesus: “What sign can you do, that we may see and believe in you? What can you do? Our ancestors ate manna in the desert, as it is written: He gave them bread from heaven to eat.” So Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to you, it was not Moses who gave the bread from heaven; my Father gives you the true bread from heaven. For the bread of God is that which comes down from heaven and gives life to the world.” So they said to Jesus, “Sir, give us this bread always.” Jesus said to them, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me will never hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.” 

Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, open the Scriptures to me as I turn my heart to you. I need your resurrected power and life. Make my heart burn while you speak to me.

 Encountering Christ: 

  1. Asking for Signs: You may recall in yesterday’s reading that the Galileans asked Jesus what work they must do. Jesus invited them to believe in him. And just a moment later they asked again, “What sign can you do, that we may see and believe in you?” It is reminiscent of the Israelites in the desert asking Moses for signs after they had already walked through the Red Sea and received the Ten Commandments, manna from heaven, and water from a rock. These people followed because they witnessed the miracle of the multiplication of the loaves and fishes just the day before, yet they asked again. We, too, have also seen so much, and yet we struggle in our faith. We ask for signs. When we don’t see the answer from God that we want, we can get quite discouraged and question God’s power or providence. Let’s reflect on moments when it has been hard to see God’s power, our moments of questioning, and ask for an increase in faith.

  2. Holy Moses: The people themselves invoked Moses, almost as if to say, “Why can’t you be like Moses?” Once again, they want signs and wonders on their terms in order to believe in Jesus. Yet Jesus had to make the same point he made earlier. The signs he offered were like the signs Moses offered. They point to God’s power. It was God who was at work, both then and now. The Trinity was present in the divine person of Jesus Christ. Just as God had fed them with manna through Moses, he was now sending a new and more perfect and eternal nourishment in Jesus.

  3. The Real Bread: “Sir, give us this bread always,” the crowd asked. They wanted a bread that would give them life. That was why they pursued Jesus across the lake and followed his signs. They wanted life! They wanted salvation! They wanted God! Jesus could offer them that and much more. He told them as much when he said, “I am the bread of life; whoever comes to me will never hunger, and whoever believes in me will never thirst.” The answer to all we long for is Jesus Christ. He is the bread that will satisfy us forever. Let’s spend some time expressing to Jesus how much we want him and beg for the graces of the Spiritual Communion prayer that says “never let me be parted from you.”

 

Conversing with Christ: Lord, may I seek you with all my heart and for all the right reasons. I desire the infinite and the eternal. To never go hungry! To never thirst again! I know you can provide that and so much more. I love you and want to follow you all the days of my life. Indeed, never let me be parted from you. Amen.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will pray a spiritual communion to unite myself to the Eucharist being celebrated around the world. “My Jesus, I believe you are present in the Most Blessed Sacrament. I love you above all things, and I desire to receive you into my soul. Since I cannot at this moment receive you sacramentally, come at least spiritually into my heart. I embrace you as if you were already there and unite myself wholly to you. Never permit me to be separated from you. Amen.”

For Further Reflection: The holy Eucharist completes Christian initiation. Those who have been raised to the dignity of the royal priesthood by Baptism and configured more deeply to Christ by Confirmation participate with the whole community in the Lord’s own sacrifice by means of the Eucharist. “At the Last Supper, on the night he was betrayed, our Savior instituted the Eucharistic sacrifice of his Body and Blood. This he did in order to perpetuate the sacrifice of the cross throughout the ages until he should come again, and so to entrust to his beloved Spouse, the Church, a memorial of his death and Resurrection: a sacrament of love, a sign of unity, a bond of charity, a Paschal banquet ‘in which Christ is consumed, the mind is filled with grace, and a pledge of future glory is given to us’” (Catechism of the Catholic Church 1322-23).

Fr. Mark Haydu, LC, is a priest living in Rye, New York. He currently serves as the local New York Chaplain for the Lumen Institute, where he offers spiritual coaching to business leaders seeking to integrate faith, character, and leadership. He hails from Akron, Ohio.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!