March 25, 2025

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Is It OK to Pray the Rosary During Mass?”

Q: Is it OK to pray the rosary while at Mass? I got a little confused as one of the priests said, “It’s OK to do this.” I thought that Mass is the highest form of prayer and that we should be focused while we are there. – Elsa

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You are correct: The Mass is the highest form of prayer, and we should stay focused on it.

It times past, when the Mass was almost exclusively celebrated in Latin, many people who didn’t know the language would pray the rosary during the Eucharistic celebration. This was understandable.

The shift toward the vernacular Mass after the Second Vatican Council was meant to make it easier for people in the pews to participate more actively. Praying the rosary during Mass can distract someone from the liturgical celebration itself.

Pope Paul VI in his apostolic exhortation Marialis Cultus, in fact, said that “it is a mistake to recite the Rosary during the celebration of the liturgy, though unfortunately this practice still persists here and there” (No. 48).

While the Church heartily endorses the rosary, it reminds us that Mass is not the ideal time to pray it.

 

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Hope… and Patience

Dear Friends,

 

The theme of this 2025 Jubilee year is “Pilgrims of hope.” Our hope is in the salvation of Jesus Christ, who became Incarnate and made his dwelling among us. Our hope is in his promise that “I will be with you, even until the end of the age” (Mt. 28:20). But I must admit that sometimes my own “hopes” can rise up in my heart, and only in prayer and discernment am I able to align them again with true theological hope. The reflection from this month’s Magnificat resonated with me:

“On the practical plane, do not rush your decisions, lest you spoil God’s plan by substituting your own way of looking at things for his. If, on any particular point, circumstances indicate a change which would seem to be advisable and is feasible, act on it; but if for various reasons you are unable to carry it out, even though it appears to you to be desirable, then submit to the divine plan… Wait for God’s hour. God’s patience is more than we shall ever understand. He could break the resistance of evil doers, and make all evil cease in an instant, but he does not. Adjust, then, your pace to his” (Feb. 6, Dom Agustin Guillerand, O. Cart.).

It reminds me of the parable of the weeds and the wheat, where the master has sown good seed in his fields, but an enemy has come in the night and sown weeds. “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and pull them up?’ ‘No,’ he answered, ‘because while you are pulling the weeds, you may uproot the wheat with them. Let both grow together until the harvest’” (Mt. 13:29-30).

Perhaps this Jubilee year is an opportunity to exercise this practical acceptance of reality as it is—with the firm hope that waits on the Lord with trust.

Yours in the heart of Christ,

Glory

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Lent 2025 – Day 21 – There is Work to Do

Day 21 

There Is Work to Do

The gospel parable sets before our eyes the Lord’s vast vineyard and the multitude of persons, both women and men, who are called and sent forth by him to labor in it. The vineyard is the whole world (cf. Matthew 13:38), which is to be transformed according to the plan of God in view of the final coming of the Kingdom of God. 

— St. John Paul II, Christifideles Laici

In the early Church, some fresh Christian converts had the wrong idea of how Christ’s followers were supposed to behave in this world. They focused so much on Jesus’s promise to come again and bring human history to its fulfillment that they unplugged themselves from normal life. They idly awaited the Lord’s Second Coming, refraining from any productive activity besides prayer. This caused problems, as can be imagined, for the Christian communities. St. Paul actually had to address it explicitly in one of his letters, correcting those Christians in Thessalonica who were remiss in even the most basic responsibility to make a living:

In fact, when we were with you, we instructed you that if anyone was unwilling to work, neither should that one eat. We hear that some are conducting themselves among you in a disorderly way, by not keeping busy but minding the business of others. Such people we instruct and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to work quietly and to eat their own food. But you, brothers, do not be remiss in doing good. (2 Thesselonians 3:10–13)

Hearts in Heaven — Feet on the Ground

This problem has cropped up at various times in the history of the Church. Outsiders criticized members of the Church for being so focused on the life to come that they disengaged from life here on earth. Perhaps in certain cases the criticism was valid. Yet the actual doctrine of the Church has always stressed the importance of Christians staying engaged in earthly life in order to redeem human experience and shape it in accordance with God’s wise plan. Here is how the Second Vatican Council expressed the critics’ point of view in its modern context:

Not to be overlooked among the forms of modern atheism is that which anticipates the liberation of man especially through his economic and social emancipation. This form argues that by its nature religion thwarts this liberation by arousing man’s hope for a deceptive future life, thereby diverting him from the constructing of the earthly city.

And here is how that same Council asserted the proper understanding of the relationship between hope in heaven and active engagement here on earth:

This council exhorts Christians, as citizens of two cities, to strive to discharge their earthly duties conscientiously and in response to the gospel spirit. They are mistaken who, knowing that we have here no abiding city but seek one which is to come, think that they may therefore shirk their earthly responsibilities. For they are forgetting that by the faith itself they are more obliged than ever to measure up to these duties, each according to his proper vocation.

In other words, Christians should be hard workers. A follower of Christ knows that this earthly life is an opportunity to develop one’s potential and make a difference in the world. As Christian disciples, that opportunity is the arena we are given to exercise our love, to show and grow our commitment to God and neighbor by putting our lives and talents at the service of others. 

A Fruitful Partnership

The landowner in the parable of the vineyard goes out to look for workers, and he gives them work: “You too go into my vineyard.” The vineyard image appears throughout the history of salvation as recorded in the Bible. The vineyard is a powerful image for the Christian adventure, even on a merely natural level. The Lord owns the vineyard, and the Lord gives the vines the power to produce grapes. He also provides the sunshine, air, and water the vines need to grow and bear fruit. But those God-given elements will only reach their full potential through cultivation by human beings. The vineyard needs intense labor from many workers in order to produce the fine wine it is capable of producing. 

It is no coincidence that Jesus’s first miracle consisted of turning water into wine. In a sense, the reproduction of that miracle throughout history is the primary work of the Church. Through the cultivation of the vineyard of the world, the Church infuses God’s grace into human affairs, transforming the basic elements of the earthly community into the fine wine of  “a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of his own” (1 Peter 2:9). 

Our Best Work

There truly is work to do — both normal earthly work that needs to be seasoned with Christian love and grace in order to reach its full potential, as well as the more directly supernatural work of spreading faith in Jesus Christ. This is the work Jesus calls us all to engage in by sending us into his vineyard. This is the work his Church was established to accomplish. 

And it is this work that will give the deepest meaning to our lives. As Pope Francis explained it:

When the Church summons Christians to take up the task of evangelization, she is simply pointing to the source of authentic personal fulfillment. For here we discover a profound law of reality: that life is attained and matures in the measure that it is offered up in order to give life to others. This is certainly what mission means. 

And so St. John Paul II tells us that the Church wisely and lovingly invites each one of us, today and every day, to take our unique place in the vineyard of the Lord:

The mission of salvation is universal; for every person and for the whole person. It is a task which involves the entire People of God, all the faithful. Mission must therefore be the passion of every Christian; a passion for the salvation of the world and ardent commitment to work for the coming of the Father’s kingdom.

Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion

What idea in this reflection struck you most and why? 

 How fully do you feel part of this work that God has given us to do? In other words, to what extent do you feel you are working in the Lord’s vineyard?

 When you think about this work the Church is called to be engaged in, how does it make you feel? Excited, eager, intimidated, overwhelmed? Why do you think you feel that way?

 Various secular sociological studies point out that an important ingredient for a happy life is meaningful work. This coheres with the biblical account of the creation of man and woman. When God created us, he gave us work to do — “to cultivate and care for” the earth (Gen. 2:15). Our very nature requires that we feel in some way useful and productive in order to feel fulfilled. We will continue to explore the different ways God gives us for meeting this fundamental need as completely as possible. 

But for today, how will you raise your awareness of this need and seek to fulfill it more healthily?

  • I will take time to think about how even my most mundane activities can be useful and meaningful in God’s eyes, and I will try to live them with a greater sense of purpose.
  • I will identify one of my talents or gifts that tends to be underutilized and find a way to make it productive today.
  • I will reflect on which of my duties and responsibilities seem to be the least fulfilling to me and try to figure out why. Then I will commit to a practical or attitudinal adjustment that may help them become more fulfilling and meaningful.
  • (Write your own resolution) I will

Concluding Prayer

O God, Creator of all things, who laid down for the human race the law of work, graciously grant that by the example of Saint Joseph and under his patronage we may complete the works you set us to do and attain the rewards you promise.

— Roman Missal, Collect for May 1, Feast of St. Joseph the Worker

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March 25, 2025 – Mary’s Trust

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Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord

Luke 1:26-38

The angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town of Galilee called Nazareth, to a virgin betrothed to a man named Joseph, of the house of David, and the virgin’s name was Mary. And coming to her, he said, “Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you.” But she was greatly troubled at what was said and pondered what sort of greeting this might be. Then the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God. Behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall name him Jesus. He will be great and will be called Son of the Most High, and the Lord God will give him the throne of David his father, and he will rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his Kingdom there will be no end.” But Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?” And the angel said to her in reply, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God. And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren; for nothing will be impossible for God.” Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her.

Opening Prayer: Lord, on this day of your Incarnation, I place myself humbly before the greatest mystery of our faith. I am too small and simple to even think of being able to grasp how wonderful a thing it is that you, God, lowered yourself to become one of us. I am too small to even fathom what is in your heart, what a great love you have for each of us to do something like this. Help me to contemplate this scene with as much wonder as I can muster.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Do Not Be Afraid: Mary was a young, pure, innocent girl, and the visit from Gabriel frightened her! Yet, once Gabriel spoke with God’s power and authority, she may have found some peace. After all, she knew the voice of God and recognized Gabriel as his angelic representative who was, therefore, very trustworthy. Because Mary is our mother, she is more than willing to help us through our own worries and fears. When we lean on her shoulder, she will inspire us to turn to her Son and leave our fears with him at the foot of his cross. “In trial or difficulty, I have recourse to Mother Mary, whose glance alone is enough to dissipate every fear” (St. Thérèse of Lisieux).

  2. Of His Kingdom There Will Be No End: Mary was the first to grapple with the mystery of the Incarnation. With her background in the Old Testament and her pure faith, she was able to wonder with sincere reverence about how the lines of Scripture she had read and reflected on were about to come to fruition in her own life. Gabriel told Mary that Jesus’ name would be great, that he would be Son of the Most High, that his throne would rule over the house of Jacob forever, and of his Kingdom there would be no end. With the awe and absolute trust of Mary, let us enter into her experience and praise God for choosing such a strong, courageous, and holy woman as our Mother.

  3. Behold, I Am the Handmaid of the Lord: As loving children of Mother Mary, we wonder whether or not there was a moment of deliberation before her acquiescence. Were these words of hers spontaneous, or was she accustomed to considering herself the humble servant of God? Perhaps this was a prayer she repeated often, and now she needed only to reaffirm it in this new situation. Mary is the perfect example of a holy willingness to take risks. She had no idea what Gabriel’s invitation would imply, but she was willing to let God lead her one step at a time. She was able to give up control and let him be in charge. May we imitate this holy disposition.

Conversing with Christ: Jesus, in this moment you became man. At this moment Mary conceived you in her womb. God rewarded her openness and her humility with the greatest gift for all humanity. I, too, am rewarded by her fiat. Thank you, Lord, for our Blessed Mother.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will say yes to some request that is made of me in a small imitation of my Blessed Mother.

Fr. Adam Zettel, LC, was ordained in 2017 and worked for three years as a high school chaplain in Dallas, Texas. Now he resides in Oakville, Ontario, serving youth and young adults.

 

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!