March 21, 2025

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Could It Be Sinful Not to Research a Moral Issue?”

Q: Is reluctance to look into a moral or spiritual question for fear of the results a sin? – Aaron

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The short answer is yes. The fact that someone feels the need to research an issue but refuses to do so would be a form of negligence.

It’s one thing to do something wrong out of ignorance. It’s a much different case when someone has doubts about the morality of something but does it anyway.

An example might help.

Imagine a hunter walking through a forest. He sees a movement in the bushes. Instead of first checking to make sure that it’s a deer behind the bush – and not another hunter, for instance – he opens fire.

Objectively that hunter is guilty of a grave sin because he deliberately risked killing a person out of negligence, even if in fact it turns out to be a deer.

As one archdiocesan website puts it:

“A good conscience makes judgments that conform to reason and the good that is willed by the Wisdom of God. A good conscience requires lifelong formation. Each baptized follower of Christ is obliged to form his or her conscience according to objective moral standards. The Word of God is a principal tool in the formation of conscience when it is assimilated by study, prayer, and practice. The prudent advice and good example of others support and enlighten our conscience. The authoritative teaching of the Church is an essential element in our conscience formation.”

If a person feels bothered by an action that he is contemplating or is already doing, and he doesn’t research the topic, that is negligence. His ignorance would be blameworthy.

Catholics in general have a general obligation to keep learning about their faith.

In his 1992 apostolic constitution on the publication of the Catechism of the Catholic Church, Pope John Paul II wrote, “I ask the Church’s Pastors and the Christian faithful to receive this catechism in a spirit of communion and to use it assiduously in fulfilling their mission of proclaiming the faith and calling people to the Gospel life.”

Note those words: The Catholic faith have a mission to proclaim the faith. That implies we need to know our faith well.

As for fear of the results of your research, remember the words of Jesus in John 8:32 – “The truth will set you free.”

 

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Lent 2025 – Day 17 – A Profile in Virtue

Day 17

A Profile of Virtue

 [St. Paul] is concerned with the morally good or bad works, or better the permanent dispositions — virtues and vices — which are the fruit of submission to or of resistance to the saving action of the Holy Spirit. Consequently the Apostle writes: “If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit” (Galatians 5:25).

— St. John Paul II, Dominum et Vivificantem

As human beings in the world of time and space, we have to interact constantly with three basic realities: 

1) things that cause or promise to cause pleasure;
2) things that cause or threaten to cause pain or harm; and
3) other persons. 

Our passions tend to react automatically to pleasures and pains, as we have seen. If we form the habit of making our decisions and taking action based only on those automatic, irrational reactions, we will form vices — habits or patterns of acting that contradict what is truly good for our human nature. If we form the habit of taking into account those important emotional reactions as we make our decisions but finally taking action based on the firmer principles of faith and reason, we will form virtues. Virtues can simply be described as our natural powers acting habitually and easily in a proper manner, acting in accordance with the truth of our human nature and vocation. The more virtuous we are, the more doing the right thing and experiencing the internal benefits of doing the right thing — regardless of how difficult or complex that may be — become second nature.

The Cardinal Virtues

Through the ages, philosophers have identified four basic virtues that are like the hinges of our moral and spiritual life. (The word cardinal actually comes from the Latin word that means “hinge.”) They correspond to those three realities that we interact with on a regular basis.

If we learn to govern our raw desire for pleasure in accordance with what is truly healthy and in harmony with God’s purpose for our lives, we develop the cardinal virtue of temperance. Temperance takes different forms in relation to the different types of pleasure that we have to deal with (chastity, sobriety, meekness, humility). If we learn to govern the fear that pain and suffering inspire, so that this never impedes us from doing what is right and necessary according to God’s purpose for our lives, we develop the cardinal virtue of fortitude or courage, whose sister virtues include patience and perseverance. If we learn to treat all other persons (God as well as our fellow human beings) with the dignity that they deserve, regardless of how we may feel about them or what they may be able to do for or against us, then we grow in the virtue of justice, which also has a slew of sister virtues (e.g., honesty, piety, obedience). 

Those three cardinal virtues perfect the exercise of our will and emotions in relation to the types of realities that we have to interact with in this world. The fourth cardinal virtue, prudence or wisdom, is the development of our intelligence so that it recognizes and discerns what actions are proper (virtuous, healthy, in accordance with our true good) within the myriad and tangled situations of real life. 

The Theological Virtues

When we were baptized, we were adopted into God’s family, and he infused into our soul capacities to relate to him that did not belong to our pre-­baptized nature. This infusion gave the life of grace to our souls. We were enabled to know God, to recognize his voice and his truth, and to accept and believe in him and in those truths that he reveals; this capacity is known as the theological virtue of faith. We were also given a deep impulse to expect our fulfillment in life from God himself, not from any of God’s creatures, as good and beautiful as they may be. This impulse is known as the virtue, the capacity, of theological hope. Finally, were we given the ability, the supernatural capacity, to actually enter into interpersonal communion with the Trinity, to live in friendship with God, as if we were his equals — which by nature we are not; only through grace have we been given this potential. This capacity to engage with the Trinity in a relationship of mutual self-giving is known as the theological virtue, the soul-power, of love, also called divine charity.

In a sense, through the infusion of grace at baptism, God “supernaturalized” our human nature. Now faith opens and directs our intellect toward the divine light of God himself, not just to the created lights of finite truths. Now hope spurs our hearts to yearn for completeness in God himself, not only in the good things God has created. Now theological love enables us to converse with and experience an intimate, familial relationship with the infinite God, not only with fellow human beings. It’s as if God altered our spiritual DNA on the day of our baptism, so that we are now truly members of God’s family, not only legally and emotionally, in a way that no merely human adoption can make an adopted child into a member of that adopting family.

New Strength for a New Standard 

This may seem abstract and impractical, but it’s critical for a clear understanding of what growing in virtue really means for a Christian. Merely natural virtues, which have as their standard and measuring rod human nature unaided by grace, are no longer sufficient for the spiritual maturity we are called to. God’s supernatural grace is indeed infused into our human nature, and it works from within that nature. And so the four cardinal virtues that describe the maturation of our natural powers are still valid for the Christian. But they are elevated to a new standard. 

For example, self-preservation of the individual and the tribe was the highest value for the pagan world. This led them to see other tribes as inherently less worthy than themselves, as not deserving of the rights (justice) that members of their own tribe enjoyed. In the light of faith, however, and as members of God’s family, we now know that every human person has an equal dignity based on having been created in God’s image, and so all human persons have equal rights. We no longer reserve our compassion and kindness just for members of our own tribe.

To take another example, we can reflect on how our supernatural faith and hope in God enables Christians to put earthly comfort and success in second place, behind their top priority of friendship with Jesus Christ. This is how so many Christian martyrs have found the strength to refuse to renounce that friendship even in the face of seductive blandishments and agonizing tortures. Only because of this supernatural DNA, this infused grace of God at work within us, does anything in the gospel make sense to us and attract us. Only faith, hope, and love, for example, could motivate a Christian to renounce the goods of this world completely and follow a vocation to the monastery or the cloister: “What profit is there for one to gain the whole world and forfeit his life?” (Mark 8:36).

Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion

What idea in this reflection struck you most and why?

How would you explain the concept of Christian virtue to someone who asked you about it?

Up to this point in your life, what have you consciously and consistently done to exercise the virtues of faith, hope, and charity?

When dealing with definitions, as we did in this chapter, virtue can seem dry and abstract. But in fact it’s intensely practical, and it’s relevant to everything we experience on a daily basis. When we’re stuck in traffic and our blood starts to boil, the virtue of patience (a sister virtue of fortitude) keeps us calm and collected instead of getting exhausted by mild (or not so mild) road rage. When the pleasures of video games or TV or social media threaten to sabotage our sense of responsibility to God, family, and ourselves, the virtue of temperance enables us to click the off button. When we are treated unfairly at work or we get laid off and we see no solution on the horizon, the virtue of hope enables us to continue forward without imploding — we know that resurrections come after crucifixions. 

What will you do today to exercise intentionally one of the theological virtues?

  • I will go out of my way to do something kind for someone I don’t really get along with on a natural level, without looking for anything in return (love).
  • I will buy a crucifix to hang on my bedroom wall and have a priest bless it (faith).
  • I will stop putting something off simply because I am afraid of failing — I will take the next step out of confidence in God (hope).
  • (Write your own resolution) I will

Concluding Prayer

Lord, holy Father, almighty and ever-living God, I thank you.

For though I am a sinner and your unprofitable servant, you have fed me with the precious Body and Blood of your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. You did this not because I deserved it, but because you are kind and merciful. 

I pray that this holy Communion may not add to my guilt and punishment, but may lead me to forgiveness and salvation. 

 May it be for me the armor of faith and a shield of good will. 

May it remove my vices and extinguish my evil tendencies. 

May it bring me charity and patience, humility and obedience, and may it strengthen my power to do every kind of good. 

May it be a firm defense against the deceit of all my enemies, visible and invisible. 

May it perfectly satisfy all my yearnings, bodily and spiritual. 

May it unite me more closely to you, the one true God. 

May it bring me to the happy possession of the goal I am seeking.

— Prayer after Communion, St. Thomas Aquinas

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March 21, 2025 – Are We Good Tenants?

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Friday of the Second Week of Lent

Matthew 21:33-43, 45-46

Jesus said to the chief priests and the elders of the people: “Hear another parable. There was a landowner who planted a vineyard, put a hedge around it, dug a winepress in it, and built a tower. Then he leased it to tenants and went on a journey. When vintage time drew near, he sent his servants to the tenants to obtain his produce. But the tenants seized the servants and one they beat, another they killed, and a third they stoned. Again he sent other servants, more numerous than the first ones, but they treated them in the same way. Finally, he sent his son to them, thinking, ‘They will respect my son.’ But when the tenants saw the son, they said to one another, ‘This is the heir. Come, let us kill him and acquire his inheritance.’ They seized him, threw him out of the vineyard, and killed him. What will the owner of the vineyard do to those tenants when he comes?” They answered him, “He will put those wretched men to a wretched death and lease his vineyard to other tenants who will give him the produce at the proper times.” Jesus said to them, “Did you never read in the Scriptures: The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone; by the Lord has this been done, and it is wonderful in our eyes? Therefore, I say to you, the Kingdom of God will be taken away from you and given to a people that will produce its fruit.” When the chief priests and the Pharisees heard his parables, they knew that he was speaking about them. And although they were attempting to arrest him, they feared the crowds, for they regarded him as a prophet.

Opening Prayer: Lord, you were speaking to the elders and Pharisees, but please open my heart to the message you also have for me in these moments of prayer. I want to be a good tenant.

Encountering Christ:

  1. Jesus Addressed the Elders: Throughout his ministry, Jesus never ceased to warn and admonish the elders and Pharisees because their very lives were in danger, and no one knew it better than Jesus did. Here, Jesus was trying to reach them with yet “another parable.” It was as if he was pleading with them to take heed. In some ways, Jesus’ persistent efforts to reach them can console us as we fervently pray for fallen-away family members or friends. We may grow weary of praying and sacrificing for them, but Jesus never ceases to offer them means for their salvation. As he reminds us in another Gospel passage, Jesus, the Good Shepherd, is always looking for his lost sheep.

  2. Good Tenants: In this parable, tenants were put in charge of the landowner’s very valuable vineyard. We don’t know exactly why they refused to hand over the produce, but we might imagine they enjoyed their luxurious lifestyle (sensuality), wanted to stay in control (pride), or liked the prestige (vanity). They succumbed to temptations and murdered the servants, and even the son, to have their way. Our Lord has put us in charge of his vineyard and invites us, as his faithful tenants, to bear fruit. Paradoxically, if we cooperate lovingly by handing over our temporal and spiritual works, we will inherit the Kingdom for all eternity without violence or bloodshed.

  3. Cornerstone: No one was more familiar with Scripture than the elders and Pharisees, so Jesus’ reference to Psalm 118:22, “The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone…” was a clear declaration of his messianic reality. Would they believe? Because they saw and did not believe, Jesus condemned them. They were fruitless, doomed to live outside the Kingdom. What must we do to be saved? “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you and your household will be saved” (Acts 16:31).

Conversing with Christ: Lord, you spoke in a parable to the elders and Pharisees, but in your mercy, you were crystal clear in your meaning. You are the Son, the Cornerstone, and the Messiah. Help me, Lord, to believe wholeheartedly, without a doubt, that you love me and hear my prayers, especially prayers I make on behalf of my friends and family.

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will pray an Our Father for the conversion of souls.

For Further Reflection: Reflect on Psalm 118 in light of today’s parable.

Maribeth Harper celebrated paying the last tuition bill for her kids’ college by writing a book for moms who have college-aged young adults, And So We Pray, Guidance for Moms with College-Aged Young Adults. She is a wife of thirty-five years, mother of four, and grandmother of nine and counting.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!