January 17, 2025

Leader Like No Other

During four years of doctoral studies, we read textbooks packed with theories and models of leadership, studied scholarly articles on every conceivable contour of management, scoured websites and videos to learn the insights of effective leaders, and applied all that in papers and practice. I loved it! There were so many fascinating lessons and so much to apply to real life. We were open to learning from all teachers: generals or rank-and-file soldiers, business tycoons, elected officials, founders, civil rights leaders, and even off-the-wall religious practitioners.

Yet as my studies came to their culmination, I couldn’t shake a nagging sense that we were missing something. Or someone. We’d covered every industry, every leadership paradigm, and most time periods. What was missing?

And then it dawned on me. Not once had we examined Jesus Christ. Not even a mention. This man drew mass crowds before the advent of modern media or transportation; he riled up authority and power brokers of his age; he inspired a host of followers ready to die for him; he’s had more written about him than anyone else in history; and he achieved even more after his earthly life than during it by unleashing a religious movement unparalleled in world events. And we’d ignored him. Though I had followed him with the entirety of my life as a missionary Catholic priest, even I had glossed over him during doctoral studies due to a gaping blind spot in leadership literature. In modern academia he has become a taboo which scholars are afraid to mention, lest they be written off. Jesus has been ignored, forgotten, and excised from the company of modern leadership research.

This strange blind spot of academics sparked my curiosity. These leadership paradigms were created apart from him, but what insight could he give into them? And even more importantly, how would he stack up against these leadership models?

Hence was born the idea for this book: Using leadership paradigms developed devoid of religion and apart from Jesus, we’ll better appreciate how distinctive and remarkable a leader he is. In the pages ahead, we’ll explore how Jesus Christ measures up to modern secular scholarship on effective leaders.

Our expedition will travel through three levels, like scaling a mountain. In part one, at base camp, we’ll get equipped to understand notions of leadership and get a sense of the trek ahead. In part two, we’ll climb through ten formulations of leadership, examining them all from the summit, Jesus Christ. In part three, we’ll bring the mountaintop vision back down to the fields of application in our own lives in the 21st century.

This book is intended for three types of climbers. First, it can be utilized by individuals interested in honing their understanding and practice of leadership. Second, it also holds interest for those pursuing a deeper understanding of the unique leadership of Jesus Christ.1 Finally, this book could serve as a resource or textbook for students in college courses on leadership.

Gear up! We’ve got a great climb ahead.

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“Ask a Priest: Why Do Some in Sin Die Young, and Others Repent Late in Life?”

Q: I need help explaining something to my teenage and early-20s sons. It is so hard to understand how some people have a lifetime to make mistakes and live outside God’s will, turn their backs on their Catholic upbringing, and then have a beautiful reversion story late in life, while others die while still young and fully immersed in a life of sin. Of course, my sons understand that “Life’s not fair.” But on a deeper level, how do you explain and come to terms with this reality? – K.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: There is no easy answer to your question. Things sometimes seem inexplicable, from our limited perspective.

Our faith, however, tells us that God loves everyone and wishes the best for everyone. Indeed, he “wills everyone to be saved” (1 Timothy 2:4).

Moreover, “God is faithful and will not let you be tried beyond your strength” (1 Corinthians 10:13).

The point here is that God isn’t unfair to anyone. He gives us all the necessary grace we need to reach heaven. But he won’t force his love on us. He respects our freedom.

Jesus warns us to be ever diligent. “‘This night your life will be demanded of you; and the things you have prepared, to whom will they belong?’” (Luke 12:20).

As to the two cases you mention: While late-life conversions are possible, we shouldn’t presume that they are very common. People tend to die as they live. And as for young people who die in sin, it’s possible that God is sparing them from even worse sin.

This is speculative, of course. We won’t really understand what was going on under the surface until the Final Judgment.

God’s plan for the world was that it be peaceful. The suffering and evil we see around us is the result of man’s sin.

All of us are in a spiritual battle. We do well to take our duties to God seriously.

 

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January 17, 2025 – Anything but Ordinary

 

 

 

 

Memorial of Saint Anthony, Abbot

 

 

Mark 2:1-12

 

When Jesus returned to Capernaum after some days, it became known that he was at home. Many gathered together so that there was no longer room for them, not even around the door, and he preached the word to them. They came bringing to him a paralytic carried by four men. Unable to get near Jesus because of the crowd, they opened up the roof above him. After they had broken through, they let down the mat on which the paralytic was lying. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to him, “Child, your sins are forgiven.” Now some of the scribes were sitting there asking themselves, “Why does this man speak that way? He is blaspheming. Who but God alone can forgive sins?” Jesus immediately knew in his mind what they were thinking to themselves, so he said, “Why are you thinking such things in your hearts? Which is easier, to say to the paralytic, ‘Your sins are forgiven,’ or to say, ‘Rise, pick up your mat and walk’? But that you may know that the Son of Man has authority to forgive sins on earth”—he said to the paralytic, “I say to you, rise, pick up your mat, and go home.” He rose, picked up his mat at once, and went away in the sight of everyone. They were all astounded and glorified God, saying, “We have never seen anything like this.”

 

Opening Prayer: Lord, soften my heart and teach me to lose my doubt. I love you; I have faith in you. I want to serve you, but sometimes doubt creeps in. Strengthen my faith and my trust in you. You alone are the source of life and healing.

 

Encountering Christ:

 

  1. Extraordinary: The readings of this First Week in Ordinary Time have depicted events that are anything but ordinary. Today’s Gospel is no exception. Jesus had shown that he could heal lepers, free the possessed, and raise the dying. His popularity had exploded. Excitement was at a fever pitch. When the word got out that he was at home, the crowds who followed him unrelentingly gathered there as well. They were all looking for healing, meaning, purpose. We come to Jesus’ home every Sunday. What are we looking for?                                                                                                                                                
  2. Friends Like This: The paralytic has some very devoted and loyal friends. Their faith and devotion moved the heart of Jesus and won for their friend the greatest of all gifts—forgiveness of his sins. Jesus’ message to us is clear: It is good to be physically well, but to avail ourselves of the sacrament of Reconciliation so as to be forgiven our sins is a far greater good. This paralytic, with the help of his friends, went to great lengths to encounter Christ. We have only to prepare our hearts and show up at church at the appointed time. How grateful are we for this experience of divine forgiveness? “Every time you go to confession, immerse yourself in my mercy, with great trust, so that I may pour the bounty of my grace upon your soul. When you approach the confessional, know this, that I myself am waiting there for you. I am only hidden by the priest, but I myself act in your soul. Here the misery of the soul meets the God of mercy…”) Jesus to Sr. Faustina, Divine Mercy in My Soul).                                                                                                                                            
  3. They Just Didn’t Get It: One would think that the scribes, who had spent their lives studying Scripture, would recall the words of the prophets regarding the Messiah and realize that he was in their midst. Instead, they criticized Jesus and demanded to know why he thought he had the right to forgive sins. Jesus’ brilliant response did three things: It established his authority to heal, it established his authority to forgive sins, and it held the door open for the scribes to accept the Messiah. Jesus, our Savior, is a God of second chances. He truly loves each one of us and wants us to enter into a loving relationship with him. Jesus can reach even the most hardened sinners. Jacques Fesch was a murderer in the 1950s who experienced a profound conversion while in prison. He said of this experience: “At the end of my first year in prison, a powerful wave of emotion swept over me, causing deep and brutal suffering. Within the space of a few hours, I came into possession of faith, with absolute certainty. I believed … Grace came to me. A great joy flooded my soul, and above all a deep peace.” Jacques Fesch is being considered for canonization. Truly no one is beyond the reach of Jesus’ saving grace—not the scribes who tried to derail his mission, not a man who found Our Lord while he was on death row—no one.

 

Conversing with Christ: O my Lord, I am so grateful for two things: that you look beyond my prayer to see what I really need; and that you are a God of second chances. Often I pray for something and you do not grant what I ask. Later I see that you were working the whole time for the betterment of my soul. When I mess up, you are always there to redirect, transform, and forgive me. I give you thanks for your great wisdom and your great mercy.

 

Resolution: Lord, today by your grace I will seek out an opportunity to bring a friend to you for healing.

 

For Further Reflection: The Final Hours of Jacques Fesch.

 

Cathy Stamper lives in Maryland with her husband, Mike. They have been partners in marriage and business for over thirty-one years. They are grateful for their five young adult children and large extended family.

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!