November 5, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Could I Confess at Home on My Own?”

Q: I was brought up in a Catholic family and baptized and confirmed. After high school I moved out of the house and rarely went to church except for a handful of times per year. I never stopped believing in God and Christ. I want to go back to church every Sunday or more. Do I need to go to confession? Can I confess with prayer at home? I am surely a sinner but cannot remember all the sins I have committed. How should I confess all my sins? My son was baptized in a Catholic church but never confirmed. What should I do to get him into the Catholic Church? We live in a crazy world now, and I think it is beneficial to devote more time to the Church. Thank you for any advice. – G.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Your desire to return to the practice of your faith is a great grace from God. It’s a grace you want to take advantage of.

The world is indeed crazy, and without faith we can be swept away easily.

From what you say, yes, you need to go to confession with a priest before receiving Communion again. Confessing at home wouldn’t be enough.

As part of the sacrament of confession you need to resolve to attend Mass every Sunday and holy day of obligation and to avoid sin in general.

There are lots of online guides for making a good confession, including ones from the Archdiocese of Indianapolis and the Knights of Columbus. Father Mike Schmitz’s short video might help, too.

Just do your best to prepare for confession. Our Lord will understand if you can’t remember all your sins.

As for your son: He is already in the Church if he was baptized Catholic.

If he is at the age of reason, it would be good for him to prepare for confirmation. Contact your parish and ask about the instruction he would need to prepare for the sacrament.

He might be able to receive Communion if he has enough instruction and if he gets to confession first. Again, your parish could give you some information.

Immensely important, too, for your son is your own example of living the faith. Dads have enormous influence on whether their children will embrace and practice the faith.

Part of your mission is to help your family get to heaven.

If you dedicate yourself to a life of solid prayer, frequent reception of the sacraments, and efforts to help the Church evangelize, you will be on the right path to navigating through a crazy world.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Elizabeth and St Zachary

Dear Zach,

I’m glad you’re having such a good year on the gridiron.  You can’t imagine how much I would love to see you play. Unfortunately, college football isn’t such a priority for the guards here.  I’ll have to depend on your highlights to keep me posted.

One little avuncular warning for you, though, as regards your sports career.  You know better than I do how success in athletics tends to lead to arrogance.  Those who perform Herculean tasks on the playing field easily fall prey to the temptation of thinking they are, indeed, Hercules, able to do whatever they want, impervious to the limits bounding the behavior of the rest of us mere mortals.  You also know how foolhardy and dangerous such a mindset can be. And you also know (and this ONLY you know – I can’t tell from this distance) how much such a mindset has trickled into your consciousness. If you find that you need to purge it, or inoculate yourself against it, you could do a lot worse than contemplate the words and examples of today’s saints.

You know them well; they take center stage in the first two chapters of Luke’s Gospel.  Elizabeth is Mary’s cousin. She and Zachary had a great marriage, and God was pleased with how faithful they were to the ideals of humility, and fidelity, and zeal for the heavenly Kingdom.  But they reached old age without having any children – a painful burden, one that the Jewish culture of the time considered a punishment from God. Then, you remember, the archangel Gabriel appears to St Zachary while he is leading prayers in the Temple, and announces that Elizabeth will bear a son, who will be the precursor to the Messiah, later known as John the Baptist.  And that’s exactly what happens; the last and greatest of the prophets comes into the world and gets it ready to receive the Savior.

Neither Elizabeth, nor Zachary (nor John the Baptist, for that matter), played football, to the best of my knowledge.  But they did learn a lesson valuable even for football players. They lived life with God and his Kingdom in first place; they sought happiness primarily in furthering God’s Plan, not the Game Plan.  You see this wisdom reflected in almost all their words. Elizabeth tells Mary that “Blessed is she who believed that the promise of the Lord would be fulfilled” – blessedness, true happiness, comes from trusting and obeying God, not arrogantly sidelining him.  Zachary’s got some great lines too. One of my favorites is: “Blessed is the Lord, the God of Israel… He has raised up for us a might Savior, born of the House of David…” He thanks God for sending a Savior. That means he recognized his need for a Savior. That, my athletic young nephew, is true wisdom.  I hope the flashes of reporters’ cameras and the glare of stadium lights never extinguish that wisdom in you.

Your loving uncle, Eddy

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Eyes on Eternity

Dear Friends in Christ,

November in the global North is marked by shorter days and longer, chillier nights.

It’s also the month when the Church especially remembers the souls of the departed, as on All Souls’ Day.

And just as the cooler weather can be sobering—summer is long gone—so the focus on the deceased can be a bracing reminder of what awaits us all.

This isn’t a bad thing.

For many of us who enjoy the conveniences of modernity—central heating, indoor plumbing, fresh foods year-round and oodles of gadgets powered by electricity—it’s easy to slip into a comfortable lifestyle and live as though it will last forever.

Yet it’s precisely the awareness of our approaching death and particular judgment that should give us genuine comfort, oddly enough.

For deep down we sense that the system that supplies us with lots of creature comforts is built on shaky ground. We’re reminded of that truth whenever the power goes out in a storm or the Internet service goes kaput.

This is why a somber reminder of death can move us in the direction of real inner peace. We realize that the world will never satisfy us, so why put our hopes on it?

Real peace comes from focusing on Our Lord, the only one who can fill our hearts.

If we readjust our lives to live in line with that reality, we can start to achieve something resembling peace and calm. Only

in Jesus will we find calm amid the storms of life.


To meditate on that truth, try praying with our Retreat Guide

on “Navigating Stormy Seas.” It can help us keep our sights on reaching the shores of a

happy eternity.


In Christ,

Father Edward McIlmail, LC

Ask a Priest contributor

 
 

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!