October 18, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Should I Skip Receiving Communion Altogether?”

Q: I always go to Mass and I am a lector, but I do not partake of the Eucharist anymore because I do not have any confidence in the sacrament of confession. I know the three things that need to be in place for a sin to be mortal, but neither the priest nor I can be certain if our judgment is correct. I have never had any peace in confession, right from the start (after RCIA). I would like a dispensation to never have to receive the Eucharist. Is that possible? – P.H.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The solution here isn’t to forgo the Eucharist permanently.

Catholics need to receive Communion at least once a year (not a very high standard). Giving up on the Eucharist isn’t the way to live one’s Catholic faith, especially since it’s the source and summit of the Christian life.

The real solution would be to form your conscience well.

Scrupulosity might be the problem here, which is why it would help to find a solid, regular confessor to guide you.

I say a confessor (singular) rather than confessors (plural). Multiple confessors might confuse you with their different shades of advice.

A good confessor could help you understand the conditions for mortal sin — grave matter, sufficient knowledge, full consent.

True, we won’t always be 100% correct about every judgment we make. But Christ doesn’t ask that of us. He asks us to do our best.

If we try our best to make a good confession, then God forgives us all our sins, even the ones we might not be aware of, including those dealing with objectively grave matter.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Luke

Dear Kasi,

I always think of you on today’s Feast.  I don’t know why. Perhaps it’s your mother’s fault.  We are only distant cousins (so your calling me “uncle” is a bit rhetorical), but we used to spend a lot of time together at a common relative’s farm during the summer.  Those were enjoyable days, and not only because of summer’s undeniable charms. What made us look forward to them especially was, well, your mother. She was like sunlight, brightening up every situation, warming up every sadness.  Just being around her was a delight. She never thought of herself, and always thought of everyone else. I was so sad to hear when she passed away – was it three years ago now?

But I think of you today, because today’s Saint, Luke, is held to have known very well a woman who your mother always held in the highest esteem: the Blessed Virgin Mary.  St Luke was a medical doctor, a writer, and an artist (probably from Greece, maybe from Antioch in Turkey), so he had an avid mind and a sensitive heart. God set him aside as one of the four Evangelists, the only four people in the history of the world chosen to record (under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit) the life and words of Jesus Christ, God become man.  He was also entrusted with giving us the inspired narration of the very first days of the Church. His Gospel and his “appendix” to the Gospel, the Acts of the Apostles, almost form a complete picture of Christian revelation. In their pages, you will find the person of Jesus Christ and the living faith of the Church masterfully described. If you take some time to dip into them every day, it will help you keep your faith fresh (it will help even more if you dip into them while making a visit to our Lord himself in the Blessed Sacrament – nothing like the Real Thing to counteract vapid ideologies like the ones you mention in the note).

One particularly noteworthy characteristic of his Gospel is the infancy narratives.  No other Gospel writer gives us such a robust picture of the incarnation and birth of our Savior.  The picturesque Christmas stories that we are so familiar with are almost all taken from Luke’s Gospel.  Now, have you ever thought about where he got those stories? St Joseph wasn’t around when Luke became a Christian, and Jesus had already ascended… It had to have been Mary herself.  Imagine those conversations… And I have always thought that the emphasis on mercy in Luke’s Gospel may have come from Mary’s influence as well (Luke alone includes the parables of the Prodigal Son, the Good Samaritan, the Lost Coin…).  

Mercy, humility, gentleness… The power of these unpopular virtues were amply evidenced the Blessed Virgin, and faithfully exemplified by your mother all through her brief but brilliant life.  Need I say that I hope and pray you have now decided to carry on the torch?

Your devoted uncle, Eddy

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!