September 20, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: What Can I Do About My Jealousy?”

Q: How do I handle jealousy? I am jealous of others who have more faith than I do. Thank you. – J.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: A good first step to overcoming jealousy is to remember that all good things come from God.

If a person is charitable, that is a grace [read: gift] of God.

If a person is patient, that is a grace of God.

If a person is humble, that too is a grace of God.

The only thing we can call our own is sin.

What all this means is that, ideally, we should give thanks when we see good qualities in other people. Their good qualities are the handiwork of God, so to speak.

Through these gifts, God is also giving the rest of us examples to imitate and aspire to. Which is even more reason that we should be grateful for these examples.

Just try imagining the opposite scenario. Imagine that everyone around you were scoundrels. They lied, they cheated, they abused their spouses, they never prayed, never did an act of kindness — would that make your life happier?

Perhaps it’s worth asking the Holy Spirit for the grace to appreciate the beautiful ways he is working in the lives of people around you. For related reading, see this Carmelite’s post.

Oh, and ask for an increase in the gift of faith, too.

Count on my prayers.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Vincent Madelgarius

Dear Gary,

Are the leaves starting to turn color yet?  Ah, how I wish I could take a walk down the oak lane in autumn just as we used to do.  But our Lord has seen fit to surround me with the drab scenery of carpet-covered cubicles for yet another fall.  Maybe this is a penance for spending too much time in the museums and the parks when I was free (thought I doubt it).  Or maybe it’s penance for those of my nephews and nieces who heedlessly feast their eyes on pictures, shows, and Web sites that stir up their base passions (probably closer to the mark).  Well, however I can do some good for the Kingdom before I kick the bucket, I am glad to do it.

I wanted to remind you to be sure to say a prayer to today’s saint before the sun goes down.  St Vincent Madelgarius (Vincent of Soignies in his native Flanders) has always reminded me of your family.  He and his wife (St Waldetrudis) had four children who are also venerated as saints. When their children had grown up, Waldetrudis joined the convent, and Vincent founded a monastery.  If your parents (may they rest in peace) had lived to see you and your siblings graduate from college, they may have dedicated the rest of their lives in some similar fashion.

I have often reflected on an obvious Christian phenomenon that we tend to overlook, one that today’s family of saints highlights.  Namely, that holiness is passed on from saint to saint. You can’t find a true lover of Christ who didn’t find the Lord through the influence of someone else, and most often Jesus’ greatest lovers were disciples of other great lovers.  Just like the passing of light from candle to candle on Christmas and Easter Eve, we have received the living flame of light from one who went before, and that person received it from one who went before him, and so on, all the way back to the Twelve Apostles, and to our Lord himself.

It occurs to me as I stare at the waning fluorescent bulb above my workstation that I am holding a candle, and that I need to pass that flame on.  I hope fire can travel by Internet… And now it also occurs to me: I would be in the dark if just one of the people who passed the flame down my line had blown out their candle, or kept it to themselves.  I thank God that they didn’t; and I pray to God that you (and all your cousins) won’t. Let’s keep the long light line going, you and I, and let’s ask St Vincent to help us. Hope to hear from you soon.

God bless, Uncle Eddy

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!