August 9, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: What If My Friends Are Aggressively Atheistic?”

Q: I’m a young Christian woman living in an atheist-dominated city. My non-believing peers and friends upset me by telling me over and over that to believe in God is crazy, and they say the Bible is a made-up lie. I never force my views upon them; however, they always belittle my Christianity. How can I get over the uncertainty and distress they have caused? And will the Lord forgive them? – S.W.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I’m sorry to hear about the situation.

My short suggestion is this: If you find that you aren’t having a positive impact on your friends, but that they are having an increasingly negative impact on you, then you might want to start looking for a new group of friends.

Being around unbelievers who belittle your faith and insult Our Lord will wear you down. At worst, it could start to weaken your faith. It also shows they aren’t open to giving an honest hearing to the Christian message, at least not yet. (If they are open in the future, that could lead them to repentance and God’s forgiveness.)

If you find the anti-Christian talk stressful (understandable!), it would be good to seek out activities where you will be more likely to meet other Christians who are serious about their faith.

You might look to volunteer in a parish activity or a Bible study or some kind of pro-life work.

This is the time when you want to be part of a Catholic/Christian network. Having friends who love their faith will help you live yours more easily.

An Internet search might lead you to the right activities. Look for lectures by guest speakers, for instance. And check the Catholic diocesan website to see if there are any young-adult ministries in your area.

Keep up a solid prayer life. And take comfort in the words of Jesus to St. Paul in Acts 18:10 when the apostle faced opposition in Corinth: “No one will attack and harm you, for I have many people in this city.”

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Edith Stein

Dear Emily,

One thing about your generation never ceases to amaze me.  You seem completely averse to inviting non-Catholics to become Catholics.  Why is that, I wonder? Is it because you yourself don’t believe in your own faith?  Can’t be. I know that you do, and you make real sacrifices in order to be faithful to it.  Is it because you doubt your ability to explain it convincingly? Maybe, but you’re always spouting off about other types of things you don’t fully understand, so I doubt that’s really the reason.  Is it because you’re afraid of what they will think of you if you try to attract them to the truth? Probably. Nobody wants to be branded a zealot these days. That’s understandable, but also unacceptable.  The Catholic faith is the answer, it’s the truth, it’s the way to personal and social peace and prosperity, it gives authentic meaning to life – for all these reasons, you should be eager to share it, to discuss it, to understand it better and explain it as often as you get the chance.  Don’t simply preach to the choir; God is eagerly waiting for you to be his ambassador to the lives of the most unlikely converts – the head of the pro-choice club on campus, the Campus Crusade for Christ leaders, even the B’nai B’rith president are all loved by God and on his adoption list.  The power of your example and your words could bring them into the Kingdom. Really. Today’s saint is a prime example.

She came from a large, devout Jewish family in Germany.  And she was brilliant. So brilliant that she joined the cutting edge intellectual atheist trend when she was only twelve years old.  In order to be accepted to university in Germany at the time (this was the early twentieth century) she had to prove that she was not only equal to but even more accomplished than her male counterparts.  She did so. And she received her Ph.D. in philosophy, under the tutelage of the great Edmund Husserl, when she was only 25 years old – a towering achievement for that day and age.

One of Husserl’s assistants was a practicing Christian.  Edith became fast friends with him and his wife. He was killed in the prime of his life, in 1917, and it was a turning point for Edith, though not for the reasons you may be thinking.  Edith went to visit the young widow, to console her. But instead of finding her distraught and depressed, Anna Reinach was composed, at ease, and even joyful; her Christian faith had given her the vision and the strength to accept the tragedy and confide in God’s Providence.  This was Edith’s first encounter with the power of Christ’s cross.

As she continued her philosophy career, someone lent her a copy of St Theresa of Avila’s autobiography, which Edith read straight through, in one night.  The next day she went out and bought a Catholic Catechism. She read that straight through. Then she went to Mass, and afterwards she asked the priest for baptism.  He insisted that she receive formal instruction; she countered that she had already received it and challenged him to ask her anything. He did. She answered. She was baptized soon after.

Although she longed to enter a convent right away, she was advised to serve the Church in the world for a while.  So for the next twelve years she taught school, gave informal lectures, served the poor, and learned to pray. Finally, with the advent of Hitler’s Third Reich, she entered the Carmelite convent in Cologne.  As the Nazi regime enforced its Final Solution, her presence at the convent became dangerous, so she was transferred to another convent in Holland. But the Nazis conquered Holland, and when the Catholic hierarchy there vociferously protested their atrocities, Hitler responded by rounding up not only the Jews, but also all the Jewish converts to Christianity, and sent them to the concentration camps.  Edith, now Sister Teresa Benedicta of the Cross, and her sister Rosa, who had also become a Catholic and lived on the convent grounds, were bustled into the cattle cars, shipped off, and died in the gas chambers.

A lot more could be said about the spirituality, the work, and the thought of St Edith Stein, but the point I want to make is that you need not be afraid of trying to help non-Catholics discover the power and beauty of the true Faith.  There’s a slew of Edith Steins out there, just waiting for someone to introduce them to Truth and Goodness. Be courageous. Be generous. God will do the rest, and the world will be exceedingly blessed.

Your earnest uncle, Eddy

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!