May 24, 2024

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“Ask a Priest: Does My Atheist Girlfriend Have a Chance at Salvation?”

Q: I’m worried about my girlfriend, who’s an atheist. The rest of her family is religious and believes in God. I told her I accepted her beliefs. But yesterday I forgot those who believe go to heaven and those who don’t go to hell. I don’t want her to spend eternity with Satan. She is a truly kind soul. Yes, she has sinned—everybody has sinned. Will the Lord give her a chance to get into heaven? Thank you. – A.E.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I’m sorry to hear about your friend who calls herself an atheist.

Atheism isn’t the kind of thing that naturally attracts people. It involves a choice. Perhaps your friend has visited the wrong kinds of websites or seen one too many bad videos on YouTube.

As to your question: Yes, God will give her a chance at salvation. He “wills everyone to be saved and to come to knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:4).

God sees your friend as his beloved daughter, and he would love to have her with him someday in heaven. However, the Almighty respects our freedom. He won’t force his love on anyone.

Without knowing more details, I’d recommend this:

First, start praying and offering up sacrifices for your friend. Your intercession for her might merit the grace she needs to say yes to God.

Second, always be patient and kind and respectful to her. This will show her some of the fruits of your own faith.

Third, you might want to become familiar with the arguments for God’s existence (see Peter Kreeft’s site). This might prepare you for dialogue with your friend.

And be sure to guard your own faith! You don’t want to fall into the trap that your friend has fallen into. Be careful about “accepting her beliefs”; you know that she’s in the dark and needs to come to the light of Christ.

Lastly, you might want to step back occasionally and see if there is progress in your friend. If she digs in her heels and clings tighter to atheism, that is a warning sign.

We can hope, of course, that she doesn’t go in that direction. You mention that she is a kind soul and that her family is religious. That might be the fertile ground (along with your prayers and sacrifices) on which the Holy Spirit will work.

And who knows? You might be a chosen instrument for helping to bring your friend to faith.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers for you and your girlfriend.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St David I

Dear Dave,

In the grand scheme of things, your decision to go to law school is less important than you think.  Actually, let me rephrase that.  Your DECISION (the simple fact that you have finally DECIDED on a course of action) is quite important.  Our free will as human beings is meant to be exercised, not kept on the shelf till it petrifies.  But the choice of law school is morally neutral: as a lawyer, you can do much (or little) either for or against Christ’s Kingdom.  It’s up to you, and no one else.  The example of today’s saint can give you some pointers on how to do the right thing.

David succeeded to the Scottish throne before Scotland had really come into its own.  He spent much of his reign warring against the English (he had sworn fealty to his niece, Matilda, from whom Stephen wrested the English throne), unsuccessfully (although Stephen did grant him an earldom after the Battle of the Standard).  He achieved much more in his efforts on the home front.

His mother, St Margaret, Queen of Scotland (not the later Queen Margaret, who was captured and imprisoned by the English during the Reformation – here we’re still in medieval times), seems to have educated him well in the faith.  As King, he encouraged the spread of Christianity by founding monasteries (including the beautiful Melrose abbey) and churches.  He also encouraged the establishment of numerous works of charity: poor houses, leper houses, and hospitals.

But he wasn’t just a pious do-gooder; he exercised his political power in accordance with justice and prudence.  In fact, he endowed a number of Anglo-Norman nobles with land-grants, creating an aristocracy that became the backbone of a feudal system designed to unite the many independent (and often warring) communities of Scotland under a uniform legal code.  He further stabilized the political structure by establishing a chancellor and a feudal court.  This all made St David what one recent biographer has called “The King Who Made Scotland”.

But have you ever heard of King David of Scotland?  Probably not.  And that, my bright young nephew, is my point.  King David certainly struggled with the temptation to pursue worldly glory, to “make a name for himself” – after all, the worldly power of a medieval baron was nothing to scoff at, and it was all at his fingertips.  But he didn’t give in to the temptation.  Rather, he governed as every Christian ought to exercise their earthly avocation: in such a way as to worthily represent Christ’s goodness and truth.  He dedicated himself to justice and order, and became an authentic peacemaker – which made him into a genuine child of God and guaranteed him a place in the everlasting Kingdom.

I hope you don’t let law school uproot the Christian good sense you have begun to form in the last few years.  Remember, only what we do for God and our neighbors lasts into eternity – where we won’t need lawyers anymore.

Your loving uncle,

Eddy

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!