March 15, 2024

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Is Wasting Food a Sin?”

Q: My husband and I were out for lunch, and when we were packing our leftovers away I noticed that he left a cup of rice in the bowl instead of packing it. I was raised my whole life believing that being wasteful with food is a sin. We got into a heated debate about whether it was or not a sin. He was so upset with me and didn’t speak to me the rest of the day. He claims that it directly is not a sin, and that he wouldn’t have to mention it in confession. Is that accurate? I would really appreciate the help. – K.C.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: It’s admirable that you were raised and trained not to waste food.

In a world where many people suffer from hunger, it can be scandalous to see how much food is wasted, especially in the U.S.

That said, it is also important to maintain a bit of balance.

Sometimes it takes more energy (and aggravation) to save a bit of food than the food is worth. Certainly, a cup of rice isn’t worth causing tensions within a marriage.

It’s OK to mention things to children to teach them. When it comes to adults, the better way to teach is by example, not by confrontation.

None of this is meant to stifle your conscience. If you feel as though wasting food in a particular case is sinful, you could mention it in confession. But it’s better not to attribute sin to others.

If you see a pattern of waste within the family, you might suggest a strategy in a calm moment. One thing you don’t want to risk wasting is family unity.

 

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Uncle Eddy

St Zachary

Dear Chary,

I think you make some excellent observations in your “spiritual program of work”.  The fact that you have finally decided to make such a program is in itself a great step forward.  I am going to send some specific comments on it when I get a chance to go over it with more attention.  But I wanted to make one observation right away.

It’s easy to make the spiritual life complicated.  In some senses it is complicated, but in the most important sense, it isn’t.  It can all be summed up in how you view and treat your neighbor.  This interests Christ more than anything.  This is the sign of true spiritual progress, much more than good feelings in prayer or the mastery of meditative techniques.  Kindness, self-sacrificing service, unbiased goodness, patience, generosity, faithfulness, self-control… These are the signs that the Holy Spirit is conquering your soul.  If you are playing favorites and criticizing and judging and despising, you can bet a different Spirit is behind it.

Today’s saint was one of those shining examples of this Christian charity.  He embodied the beatitudes in the most difficult position of all: the papacy.  He preached Christ’s love with his words, and he manifested it with his actions.  He visited kings in order to encourage leniency with rebels and the restoration of lands to conquered people; he bargained for war prisoners to be sent home without having to be ransomed; he negotiated peace in war torn Ravenna; he calmed ecclesiastical strife in Germany by calling an upstart priest Virgilius to task, and bringing him to Rome, where he repented so thoroughly that he was made a bishop; he purchased slaves that Venetian merchants were trying to sell to the Muslims, and then set them free, thus backing up his sermons against slavery with money from his own pocketbook; he beautified the great city of Rome (which had fallen into dilapidation in recent centuries) with glorious places of worship; he even made special allowance for a generous supply of olive oil so that the lamps in St Peter’s Basilica could always be lit, enriching the pious experience of pilgrims.

Wherever he saw someone else’s need or problem, he saw an opportunity, and he tirelessly tried to take advantage of them all.  Imagine what the world would be like if all us Catholics did the same.  Imagine what it would be like if only HALF of us did the same!

Your imagining uncle,

Eddy

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March 15, 2024 – Trust: A Lenten Resolution

 

 

 

 

 

Friday of the Fourth Week of Lent

 

 

John 7:1-2, 10, 25-30

 

Jesus moved about within Galilee; he did not wish to travel in Judea, because the Jews were trying to kill him. But the Jewish feast of Tabernacles was near. But when his brothers had gone up to the feast, he himself also went up, not openly but as it were in secret. Some of the inhabitants of Jerusalem said, “Is he not the one they are trying to kill? And look, he is speaking openly and they say nothing to him. Could the authorities have realized that he is the Christ? But we know where he is from. When the Christ comes, no one will know where he is from.” So Jesus cried out in the temple area as he was teaching and said, “You know me and also know where I am from. Yet I did not come on my own, but the one who sent me, whom you do not know, is true. I know him, because I am from him, and he sent me.” So they tried to arrest him, but no one laid a hand upon him, because his hour had not yet come.

 

Introductory Prayer: Jesus, I truly believe and hope in you and your Gospel. You have touched me by the example of trust you had in your Father’s plan. I adore you and thank you with my whole heart.

 

Petition: Lord, help me to trust more in your divine providence.

 

  1. A Way Out When Cornered: A cornered bear reacts by the instinct of self-preservation and fights until death. Christ, however, shows an altogether different attitude when challenged. He seems always to be calm and in control of every situation. He knows that not a single hair will fall from his head unless the Father deliberately permits it to occur. Many times, our fears corner us to the point that we get spooked. To conquer our fears, we need to believe more, hope more, and love Christ much more.

 

  1. The Force of Love: It is interesting to note that Jesus originally planned to stay behind in Galilee. But out of charity and trust in the Father’s will, Jesus set out on the perilous journey to Judea. Once there, he forgot the danger that loomed before him. Christ felt a renewed strength as he had compassion for the lost sheep in Judea. Nothing could diminish his resolve to feed the spiritually hungry, cure the sick, and teach the ignorant. Love gave Christ the capacity to give himself more. Love protects life from prejudices and complaints.

 

  1. Proof of God’s Love: The soldiers tried to arrest Jesus, but they were thwarted. The Father had decided that his Son was not to be given up yet. Cancer, global warming, the nuclear bomb, terrorism and natural disasters—things that might seem to be threats to us—should not make us fearful. Trust is really trust! Jesus invites us to trust, and this is powerful. Saint Paul says, “All things work for good for those who love God” (Rom 8:28). The important thing in life is for us to keep our thoughts and efforts focused on God’s will and to go about doing good, generously serving others. “Seek his kingdom, and these other things will be given you besides” (Lk 12:31).

 

Conversation with Christ: My Lord and Savior, I know that my vision is often short-sighted. Teach me to love and to trust. Enlarge my heart so that I can endure adverse situations and predicaments for the sake of my eternal salvation. Jesus, I trust in you!

 

Resolution: Today when contradictions flare up at the workplace or at home, I will not sigh in despair. Rather, I will make an act of hope: “Long live Christ the King!”

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!