February 27, 2024

Halt Your Mind in the Truth: How to Pray in a Time of Worry

Halt Your Mind in the Truth: How to Pray in a Time of Worry

“Pray, hope, and don’t worry.” – St. Pio of Pietrelcina

 

Easy for you to say, Padre Pio. Me, I’ve been doing a lot of all three lately, and if I’m being honest with myself, there have been many moments when the amount of worry has exceeded both the prayer and the hope. It’s sometimes hard to pray with hope in worrying times.

 

Padre Pio, the twentieth-century stigmatic priest who lived through two world wars, and a global pandemic (the Spanish Flu) must have understood this. And yet he has the faith to say “Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayer.”

 

Unfortunately, sometimes it feels like my prayer is just me verbalizing my anxiety these days, or worse, I find myself not even being able to focus on prayer over the distraction of worry. Not good, says Padre Pio.

 

“The reason you cannot meditate,” he says, “is mainly because you begin to meditate with anxiety, in search of something to gladden your spirit.” He’s right – I bring my anxiety to my prayer with the expectation of being consoled and relieved, which is fine, but according to Padre Pio, “this is not enough to find what you seek.”

 

According to Padre Pio, we must go one step further: “The only remedy I know of is to abandon anxiety.”

 

Once again, this is easier said than done, but Padre Pio gives us some solid advice: “Halt your mind in the truth about which you are meditating.”

 

For me, “halting my mind” means that I try to take a moment to stop the swirling worry and sit in the truth that God is, ultimately, Hope. I read the Gospel, and I enter in, as best I can, abandoning anxiety, and clinging to the truth that Christ is Emmanuel – God with us – then, today, and always. I halt my mind, take a breath, and try to remember Padre Pio’s words to pray, hope, and let go of worry, at least for a while.

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Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Is Acting in Sex Scenes OK?”

Q: Is acting in sex scenes in movies sinful? As an aspiring actress, I am just wondering if I were to be married and as a married woman I act in a romantic comedy or something involving heavy kissing and sex simulation, would that be sinful? I want to live a good Catholic life and want to glorify God in all aspects. But I am wondering what the protocol is, that would allow me to make the right choices? Thank you so much for listening! – Erin

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The short answer is yes; acting in the scenes you mention would be objectively gravely sinful.

It would be inappropriate behavior for anyone — married or unmarried — and it would be scandalous to do it for public consumption.

Such recorded acts would be a source of grave temptation for those who view them, especially children and teens.

It is worth quoting a passage from the Catechism on pornography, in part because so much of what fills the media could fit the category. No. 2354 says:

“Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense. Civil authorities should prevent the production and distribution of pornographic materials.”

You want to be sure to guard your dignity as a daughter of God and whatever gifts you have (including acting) in a way that gives glory to the Almighty.

Raunchy media have destroyed the innocence of countless young people and led to a cheapening of the gift of sexuality. Sometimes this is done under the guise of comedy. But there is nothing funny about misusing the God-given gift of sexuality.

If you want to act, it would be good to dedicate yourself to roles that inspire people toward leading better lives.

You might find Pope John Paul II’s Letter to Artists a worthwhile read. Count on my prayers.

 

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Giving God Access

Dear Friends,

I write to you from Rome, after a week of planning meetings for our Society of Apostolic life. While speaking about our apostolic projection, one of the consecrated women shared an insight that has stayed with me. Her initial understanding of the Kingdom was an army taking to battle against the enemy. Over time, the Gospel parables of the Kingdom, like the weeds and the wheat and the Sower who went out to sow, taught her that the Kingdom’s expansion is silent, often hidden and of poor means, but powerfully fruitful.

In this context, a group of us visited the Basilica of San Clemente to see the Tree of Life mosaic, which dates from the 12th century. At the mosaic’s center is an emaciated Jesus Christ crucified, giving his life on the cross. From Christ’s side flows blood and water that fall on and nourish the tree of life (Gen. 2: 9-14, Rev 22). From the tree, sprouts a vine whose branches extend and connect medieval figures from every walk of life, and with them all of creation (John 15:1, 4-5). There are twelve white birds perched on the cross representing the apostles who will take the message of salvation to the ends of the earth (Mat. 28:19).

This powerful image brought home the conversation we had about the parables of the Kingdom. The life that flows from the cross is gratuitously given. Nothing can stop its extension except our free decision to deny God access to our hearts or our lives.

This Lent, as we discern what to give up or what to do, it can help to ask ourselves: Where is grace stuck in me? Where am I not giving God access? Our efforts in prayer, abnegation and almsgiving can then aim to open the blocked arteries of our heart so that the sap of Divine life that flows from the heart of God may run freely in and through us. Thy Kingdom Come!

Yours in heart of Christ,

Glory

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!