August 15, 2023

Meet Fr. John Bartunek, LC, New Member of the RC Territorial Directive College

“Regnum Christi is my spiritual home – this is where God led me, where he wants me to be and become part of the story of salvation, and where he wants me to receive his grace and grow to spiritual maturity myself. This is my spiritual family.”

On July 1st of this year, Fr. John Bartunek, LC, joined the North American Territorial Directive College for a three-year term.

Before becoming a Legionary priest, Fr. John received his BA in history from Stanford University in 1990, and worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and baseball coach, and even spent a year as a professional actor in Chicago. In 1993, however, he heard and followed the call to the priesthood, joining the Legionaries of Christ and becoming ordained a priest ten years later in 2003. Since then, Fr. John has gone on to earn his doctorate in moral theology, has taught at various ecclesiastical institutions at both the graduate and undergraduate levels, and has contributed news commentary regarding religious issues on NBC, CNN, Fox, and the BBC.

In his prolific writing apostolate, Fr. John has written and published many retreats, essays, and books, including The Better Part: A Christ-Centered Resource for Personal Prayer, Spiritual but not Religious: The Search for Meaning in a Material World, and Inside the Passion, the only authorized, behind-the-scenes explanation of Mel Gibson’s The Passion of the Christ, for which Fr. John provided on-set spiritual support. Fr. John currently resides in Atlanta, where he serves as the Territorial Vicar on the North American Territorial Council for the Legionaries of Christ.

Fr. John describes his first experience of the Regnum Christi charism as “love at first sight.” After converting to the Catholic Church, Fr. John felt a call to the priesthood, and began spending time with a variety of religious orders to discern where exactly God might be calling him to live out his vocation as a priest. But immediately upon visiting the Legionary novitiate in Cheshire, Connecticut, Fr. John knew that the Legionaries of Christ was where God wanted him to be, and that this was to be his spiritual home. It was here where he learned about Regnum Christi as an apostolic body and a larger spiritual family to which he now belonged. And here he found that what he loved most about the Legionaries of Christ – their joyful sense of urgency for the mission, their fidelity to the Church and to the Holy Father, their community spirit, and their very strong Eucharistic and Christ-centered spirituality – were all characteristics that were shared and enriched by the rest of the Regnum Christi members.

Fr. John dialogues with Viviana Limón at the Regnum Christi Territorial Assembly

But despite this immediate certainty in his vocation to become a Legionary priest, Fr. John’s time of formation was not always easy. He recalls his formation years as a time of spiritual purification and real growth in human maturity, and there were even moments when his spiritual directors suggested that the Legionaries of Christ may not be the path to which God was calling him. “I really had to dig deep and discern, and after a lot of prayer and discernment and discussion and conversation, I was very convinced that this was where God had led me, and this was where God wanted me,” says Fr. John. “When the scandal of the founder broke, I had already been through my own personal crisis which had confirmed my call to holiness and my mission within the Legion, and within Regnum Christi. This is my spiritual home – this is where God led me, where he wants me to be and become part of the story of salvation, and where he wants me to receive his grace and grow to spiritual maturity myself. This is my spiritual family.”

And for Fr. John, being a part of the Regnum Christi family brings with it a great desire to be at the service of Regnum Christi members in their various states of life, and at the service of their shared mission to support the Church and evangelize culture. As a Legionary priest, Fr. John hopes that living out his own brotherhood with Christ and sonship with God in a deep and meaningful way, he is able also to live out that spiritual brotherhood and fatherhood with his spiritual family of Regnum Christi, and to help form integral apostles. And it is his vow of obedience as a Legionary priest that inspires, guides, and sustains him most in this mission of forming and serving apostles. “I love our commitment to integral formation, that balance, that completeness, that ongoing desire to grow and discover and be creative in our formation and our apostolate. And I love being able to serve knowing that I am exactly where God wants me to be in my vow of obedience.”

Fr. John knows that his new role on the North American Territorial Directive College will bring with it plenty of challenges, but he’s looking forward to the opportunities that it provides to serve Regnum Christi and journey towards a vibrant and hope-filled future. “I think there’s a challenge to take what we learned in our renewal and our greater maturity during these last years of self-reflection, and to bring that to bear in such a way that we can rekindle a real, positive, creative, and optimistic sense of mission and commitment in each one of us, finding ways to live a spirit of communion more and more dynamically and fruitfully, to be creative apostolically, and, most importantly, to not be afraid,” says Fr. John. “Regnum Christi is a community of communities of apostles, and each one of us needs to be fearless and joyful apostles who find ways to support the Church, reach new people, and form leaders who can bring the Gospel into the real nodal points of culture in an effective and winsome way. I love discovering the richness of our charism, and being enriched by other members of our spiritual family, and that’s what I’m looking forward to in this new role, to be able to support all of our members so that we can continue to live the renewal, increase our impact, and grow so that we can serve the Church in this new evangelization.”

The Territorial Directive College is the governing body for the Regnum Christi Federation in the territory, and is responsible for implementing the directives and indications given by the General Directive College, ensuring that everyone, especially the Regnum Christi local directors, fulfill their responsibilities according to the statutes; furthering the consolidation, projection, and development of the apostolic activity of Regnum Christi; fostering territorial formation initiatives, especially for formators; promoting pastoral work for vocations; supervising the administration of the Federation; promoting a healthy economy based on solidarity; and fostering vertical and horizontal communication in the territory.

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“Ask a Priest: Do I Sin If I Don’t Speak Up About the Faults Around Me?”

Q: How do I live in peace and joy with family members who have different stances on moral issues that I don’t think are completely in line with what the Church teaches? They seem to follow Church teaching and rules with a loose interpretation, especially in regards to Church precepts, worthy reception of the sacraments, and rest on Sundays. What do I do if I see someone about to do or in the middle of doing something I believe might be sinful? Shouldn’t I say something? Or if I don’t, am I deliberately sinning? When I try to point these out to my family members, they get irritated and upset and don’t want to hear about “a bunch of rules.” I don’t want to be pushy, but I don’t want to commit sins of omission by not saying anything, especially if something is gravely sinful such as unnecessary shopping on Sunday or using the Lord’s name in vain. Also, I don’t always know if that person realizes it’s wrong. Sometimes I don’t think they do. If I don’t say anything, isn’t that on me? I just don’t know how I’m supposed to live as a good Catholic in the world or with my family. I am quite anxious about this. Your advice would mean so much to me. – R.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Certainly, we should be concerned about our family and how they live the faith. We should try to help them get to heaven. This is part of our mission in life.

Sometimes that help will come in the form of fraternal correction. This is not always easy to do. It’s one thing to say the right thing. It’s another thing to say it in the right way at the right time to the right person.

If you make a point and get pushback from your family, it might not be wise to keep repeating yourself. This could end up irritating people and making them dig in their heels. They might even come to resent the constant lecturing and associate it with the Church and its “bunch of rules.”

So, you might want to consider a different approach.

First, remember that our faith is ultimately about our relationship with God. And like any relationship, the focus should be on love, not just on rules. Jesus came to redeem us because he loved us. Whatever rules he gave the Church authority to establish, he did so with an eye toward helping us reach salvation.

Now, if you see something amiss, and you feel compelled to say something, do it in a calm and charitable way. And once you make your point, it might be better to leave it in God’s hands after that.

And be careful not to rush to judgment. It’s not obvious that “unnecessary shopping” on Sunday is always gravely sinful.

This isn’t to defend the practice of unnecessary shopping on the Lord’s Day. But you shouldn’t assume that the shoppers are automatically committing grave sin.

They might not understand what the Sunday rest might entail. They might see shopping as a way to relax. They might think that the shopping is, in fact, necessary at the moment. In short, they might view things much differently than you do.

A better overall approach might be this:

First, try to live your faith as best you can. If you think shopping is inappropriate on Sunday, you should avoid that activity. If pressed for an explanation, you might calmly explain that it interferes with your Sunday rest and prayer.

Second, intensify your prayer and sacrifices for your family. This could help merit the graces they need for a deeper commitment to the faith.

Third, aim to live your life of charity perfectly. This includes helping around the house, speaking well of others, and always being patient and kind. Your example will speak louder than your words.

This emphasis on the positive – by witnessing the faith and being charitable – will help you in the long run, since the wider world is getting more secular. For it’s better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.

 

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“Ask a Priest: What If I No Longer Feel the Strength to Fight Against Sin?”

Q: I’m wondering what I should do if I no longer feel the strength to fight against sin. The only thing that makes me want to change is a terrible fear of being condemned, and a little bit of love that I have for spreading the Truth. But I am not a good witness to the faith. I’m a really bad person. –F.G.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: We are all sinners and we all need God’s grace. “If we say, ‘We are without sin,’ we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us” (1 John 1:8). You say that you have a love for spreading the Truth. Well, one of the first signs of progress in the spiritual life is we aren’t afraid to face that truth about ourselves: that we are flawed and need God’s help to overcome our flaws.

It is important to remember that God will always give us the necessary grace to overcome any temptation. “God is faithful and will not let you be tried beyond your strength” (1 Corinthians 10:13). It is crucial that we don’t “psyche ourselves out” — that is, it is crucial that we don’t make excuses and say, “I can’t resist this sin” or “That is just the way I am.” No! If we say that, we are implying that God either won’t help us or has given up on us. Which he won’t do.

Still, grace builds on nature. And that means we have to try to do our part to prepare our hearts for God’s grace. You will want to make time for prayer each day. Try to set time aside for prayer when you get up in the morning. Try to get to confession once or twice a month; it is good if you can go to the same priest, since he might be able to help you more easily if he knows your situation. Try to receive Communion often (you need to be in a state of grace, that is, without mortal sin).

Try to get involved in some kind of community life, too. This is a big help in living the faith. Consider joining a Bible study group at a parish or getting involved in volunteer work (taking meals to shut-ins, etc.).

Beware the danger of discouragement. It is one of the easiest traps to fall into. Discouragement does not — repeat, does not — come from the Holy Spirit. It comes from our own fallen nature or even from the devil. God is never surprised by our weaknesses, and all he asks is that we keep making a decent effort and lean on his grace. St. Paul himself, like the rest of us, experienced deep contradictions within his soul — he wanted to do what was good and right, but he often failed (see Romans 7:15-25). God’s grace can still keep working in our lives as long as we don’t give up hope, as St. Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 10:7-12:

“Therefore, that I might not become too elated, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, an angel of Satan, to beat me, to keep me from being too elated. Three times I begged the Lord about this, that it might leave me, but he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.’ I will rather boast most gladly of my weaknesses, in order that the power of Christ may dwell with me. Therefore, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and constraints, for the sake of Christ; for when I am weak, then I am strong.”

Also, cultivate your devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary. Grow in love for her Son. It is he who calls all of us to holiness (“Be perfect, just as your heavenly Father is perfect” [Matthew 5:48]). He won’t deny the help that we need to carry out that command. Count on my prayers!

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!