May 19, 2023

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Can Non-Christians Enter Heaven Without Sanctifying Grace?

Q: How do non-Christians enter heaven without sanctifying grace? -O.A.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You touch on an intriguing topic. Jesus tells us, “Amen, amen, I say to you, no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit” (John 3:5). So how could non-Christians, the unbaptized, be saved and enter heaven?

Two points are worth noting right away.

First, no one can enter heaven without sanctifying grace. We all need it. Sanctifying grace is an indwelling of God in us. It “perfects the soul itself to enable it to live with God” (Catechism, 2000). Sanctifying grace can be lost by a single mortal sin (see Catechism, 1861).

Second — and this helps to answer your question — “God has bound salvation to the sacrament of baptism, but he himself is not bound by his sacraments” (Catechism, 1257). In other words, God can grant salvation even to a non-Christian who by definition has not received the sacraments. How exactly God works in this case is a mystery.

The Second Vatican Council stated that non-Christians can reach salvation. In its document Lumen Gentium (The Light of Nations), the council said: “Those also can attain to salvation who through no fault of their own do not know the Gospel of Christ or His Church, yet sincerely seek God and moved by grace strive by their deeds to do His will as it is known to them through the dictates of conscience. Nor does Divine Providence deny the helps necessary for salvation to those who, without blame on their part, have not yet arrived at an explicit knowledge of God and with His grace strive to live a good life” (No. 16).

As regards children who have died without baptism, the Church can only entrust them to the mercy of God. “Indeed,” the Catechism in 1261 says, “the great mercy of God who desires that all men should be saved, and Jesus’ tenderness toward children which caused him to say: ‘Let the children come to me, do not hinder them,’ allow us to hope that there is a way of salvation for children who have died without Baptism.”

So that is our hope: We believe that God can and does open to heaven to those who tried to live good lives or who died before having a chance to receive baptism.

These are comforting teachings, connected to the theological virtue of hope, but they can also be misinterpreted. For example, some people use them as an excuse not to share their faith with others, not to reach out to non-believers with the Gospel. But that is a kind of spiritual laziness. If we truly love others, we want to help them discover the good news of Jesus Christ. And since God has made baptism the normal means for receiving sanctifying grace, we should be interested and active in helping those who haven’t been baptized learn about God’s grace and receive the sacrament.

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“Ask a Priest: What If I Was Falsely Accused?”

Q: What advice does the Lord give to the falsely accused? I was falsely accused of sexual abuse, investigated by the police, and the charges were refused due to complete lack of evidence. However, the allegations have ravaged my personal life by keeping me from my kids, destroying trust, ruining friendships, and creating constant personal anxiety. How can I truly heal when the rumors and accusations have already caused seemingly irreparable harm? – D.B.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I’m sorry to hear about the trauma you suffered from the false accusations.

While there is no quick remedy to how people might view you, it might help to remember that Jesus, too, endured more than a few unfair accusations.

He was accused of everything from opposing the Law, to being under the influence of Beelzebul, to being mentally unstable (“They set out to seize him, for they said, ‘He is out of his mind’” — Mark 3:21).

It would be good to seek professional counseling. You will need help to face and adjust to what is going to be an enduring challenge, since society today tends to attach a stigma to simply being accused.

As for the matter of your children: It might be good to seek out an attorney who could help you gain access to them, especially if laws in your area place any restrictions on someone who is accused falsely.

The cultural climate and the sensitivities about sexual abuse have prompted some people to assume the worst of anyone accused. This is an unfortunate sign of the times.

As for the ruined friendships and distrust: It’s hard to change people once they make up their minds about something.

The best you can do is live the Gospel as best you can. Over time, as word of your legal exoneration is more widely known, and people see your own personal example, they might change their views.

If not, then that is all the more reason to leave things in God’s hands. He knows the truth of the situation; he alone is your judge. It is he, not your erstwhile friends, who you encounter at your particular judgment.

It will be important not to give in to discouragement or anger. The injustice done to you until now might be small in comparison to the pain you can inflict on yourself if you hold on to resentment.

So, it would be good to make an act of the will by forgiving those who falsely accused you and those who still think you are guilty.

That act of forgiveness might not take away all your challenges, but it can bring you some sense of peace. And, like Christ, your patient bearing of your cross can bring great spiritual fruit for others. Count on my prayers.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!