November 19, 2021

Territorial Directors of the Legionaries of Christ and Consecrated Women Share a \”Year in Review\”

As 2021 draws to a close, the Territorial Directors of the Legionaries of Christ and the Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi shared a look at what’s happened over the past year in two “Year in Review” discussions.

On Wednesday, November 17th, Fr. Shawn Aaron, LC, and Fr. Daniel Brandenburg, LC, had a wide-ranging discussion about the status of the Legionaries of Christ, their mission, and their role in the Regnum Christi Federation. As he completed the first year of his three-year term as territorial director, Fr. Shawn reflected on the five priestly ordinations and the seven diaconate ordinations that were held in this territory in 2021, and how the Regnum Christi family embraced and supported the celebration of these new deacons and priests in each instance. He also spoke about the mission of the Legionaries of Christ in the midst of a secular world, in terms of education, youth formation through ECYD, and support of Catholic families through their involvement in programs such as the Regnum Christi initiative that has grown out of Manhattan, called Cana Uncorked. Another growing area of ministry for the Legionaries is chaplaincy in universities. They are currently involved in the chaplaincy of five universities, Benedictine College, St. Leo University, North Carolina State University, Georgia Tech and Kennesaw State University,  as well as Divine Mercy University, which is run by the Legionaries of Christ, and offers graduate degrees and certificates in several aspects of psychology through the lens of Catholic anthropology.

Fr. Shawn identifies the uniting element in all of the diverse missions the Legionaries undertake as endeavoring “to enkindle the heart of an apostle, and then teach that apostle to look around and say ‘what are the needs of the Church?'”

 

On Thursday, November 18th, Kathleen Murphy, territorial director of the Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi, joined fellow Consecrated Women, Teresa Maziarz, and Yvonne Fontaine to share their own “Year in Review” update about where they are currently serving in the North American Territory, the many ways the Consecrated Women are working to evangelize a secularized world, and the way they live their vocation as part of the Spiritual Family of the Regnum Christi Federation.  With 80 Consecrated Women in 10 communities across the territory, including a brand new community in New Orleans, Kathleen shared that 34 are fully dedicated to apostolates and programs of the Regnum Christi Federation, and 19 of them serve in Regnum Christi schools. Other Consecrated Women work in dioceses supporting the evangelization plans and vocational work of the diocese, and several are studying for post-graduate degrees to prepare themselves deeply for the evangelization of the secular world.

Apostolates Kathleen highlighted include the RC Music Collective, a group made up of Regnum Christi lay members, Consecrated Women, and Legionaries of Christ which evangelizes through music and forms parish music ministers for evangelization, and RC Mission Corps, which has 11 young women dedicating a year of full-time missionary work with the Consecrated Women in Regnum Christi localities.

After years of reflection, renewal processes, and self-identification, the Consecrated Women globally are now focused on living this identity and being fully alive in their mission. Kathleen shared the sentiment today as “Let’s live what has resounded in our hearts, let’s live the mission.”  Another top priority currently is working towards financial sustainability as a newly autonomous Society of Apostolic Life, approved by the Holy See in late 2018.

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“Ask a Priest: What If My Fiancé Mistrusts Me?”

Q: My fiancé thinks I am lying to him and cheating on him. I was reassigned by my employer to another country, and the separation has caused tensions between me and my fiancé. Recently we broke up over the phone, but my heart is bleeding. I have been praying over it again and again, but I need help. The truth is I didn’t do all he is accusing me of, and how can I confess what I didn’t do? I need help because I gave myself entirely to this relationship. This situation is so difficult to accept. – A.B.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I’m sorry to hear about your situation. In some ways, though, it might be a blessing in disguise.

Why do I say that? Because the time of courtship and engagement is when a relationship can be tested.

If your fiancé doesn’t trust you now, that might be a sign that there is something wrong — either with him, with you, or certainly with the relationship.

Since I don’t know how your fiancé thinks, I won’t try to offer any pointed diagnosis. But I would say that his lack of trust is something you need to confront.

If he doesn’t trust you now, how could you be sure that things would change after you are married?

Here, it might be good to ask yourself some questions.

Would you be able to spend your life with a man who doesn’t trust you? Would you be comfortable with him if he questions your loyalty in the future?

You mention that you have given yourself totally to this relationship. Has this been a one-sided arrangement? What might be the reasons for your fiancé’s distrust? Is he insecure? Has the relationship been healthy? Or have problems been overlooked? Sometimes it’s tempting to hope against hope that a relationship is better than it really is.

These questions aren’t meant to get your discouraged. It’s just that you want to be careful before you plunge into marriage. Men tend not to change much after the wedding day. Some do, but most stay pretty much the same way.

The point here is: Don’t expect your man to change radically after marriage. You want to be realistic.

Perhaps this time away from him has allowed the cracks in the relationship to appear. This is healthy, since it is better to discover the cracks now rather than later.

It might be good to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your fiancé and see why he is so distrustful. It would also be good to go through a solid marriage-preparation course. Such a course should push engaged couples to ask themselves questions about a full range of issues, everything from finances to children to attitudes about work and religion.

In the meantime you might want to intensify your prayer life. Stay close to Jesus, the one man you want at the center of any relationship.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!