November 5, 2021

Novena to Christ the King 2021:  He Calls Us Friends 

Novena Prayers

Day 1 | Friday, November 12, 2020

Day 2 | Saturday, November 13, 2020

Day 3 | Sunday, November 14, 2020

Day 4 | Monday, November 15, 2020

Day 5 | Tuesday, November 16, 2020

Day 6 | Wednesday, November 17, 2020

Day 7 | Thursday, November 18, 2020

Day 8 | Friday, November 19, 2020

Day 9 | Saturday, November 20, 2020


 

DAY 1  |  Friday, November 12, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend, goes out to meet us  

Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“In this is love: not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as expiation for our sins” (1 Jn 4: 10). 

The God of Christians is the God of encounter, the God who became man to live with us, in our reality. He is the God who reveals his Name, who shows us his face, who takes on a body. The God who wants to have a relationship with us and created us with the ability to dialogue and commune with Him. That is why he seeks us and is not satisfied with remaining distant and unknown. 

Jesus Christ, you have loved us first and you go out every day to meet us because you want to be our friend, without our having done anything to deserve it. We ask you for the grace to allow your love to meet us and to go out to meet those who have need of us. 

Closing prayer 

 Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world! 

 


 

DAY 2  |  Saturday, November 13, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend, looks on us with love 

Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

Then Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She replied, “No one, sir.” Then Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go, and from now on do not sin anymore” (Jn 8: 10-11). 

“Jesus’ gaze goes beyond sins and prejudices.… he does not stop at appearances, but looks at the heart.” Pope Francis, Angelus 10/30/2016. 

The gaze of Jesus changes our life. It allows us to recognize that we have value and dignity. It heals us, transforms us, and makes us grow. Under this loving gaze of God, the human person can discover their own identity and become more and more authentically “themselves.” 

Jesus Christ, we discover in your merciful eyes that we are very beloved sons and daughters and that you accept us just as we are. We ask you for the grace to learn how to look on others with your gaze of love as well.  

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world! 

 


 

DAY 3  |  Sunday, November 14, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend,  calls us by our name  

Opening prayer 

 Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world.  

“When he reached the place, Jesus looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, come down quickly, for today I must stay at your house.”” (Lk 19: 5). 

“Each one of us is God’s love story. He calls each of us by our name: he knows us by name; he looks at us; he waits for us; he forgives us; he is patient with us.” Pope Francis, General Audience 05/17/2017 

As with Zaccheus, Mary Magdalene, and the apostles, Jesus calls each of us by name to make a pledge of friendship and entrust us with a mission. The name is the icon of the person. Calling someone by name indicates the deep and intimate knowledge that God has of each of us1.  Friendship with Christ is always a personal relationship. In the midst of the reality we live in, Jesus says our name, calls us friends, and invites us to know him and share his life. 

Jesus Christ, when you call us by name you show us that we are not unimportant or unknown to you, and this closeness encourages us to go out of ourselves to follow you. Grant us the grace to know you better every day and say your name with our life, so that you will be the one who works in us. 

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity.  

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world!

 


 

DAY 4  |  Monday, November 15, 2021

Christ the King, our friend, invites us to friendship with Him  

 Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“I have called you friends” (Jn 15:15). 

 “Friendship is so important that Jesus calls himself a friend: “I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. I have called you friends” (Jn 15:15). By the gift of his grace, we are elevated in such a way that we truly become his friends. With the same love that Christ pours out on us, we can love him in return and share his love with others, in the hope that they too will take their place in the community of friendship he established.” Pope Francis. Christus Vivit, 153. In this relationship of friendship, the human person realizes that they can love because they have been loved first (cf. 1 Jn 4:19) and have been called by God in the depths of their heart to correspond to that love. 

Lord Jesus, you go out to meet us because you want to be our friend. You call us, choose us, promise us your Kingdom, and invite us to follow you. Help us to say “yes” to this invitation always, and to allow you to enter our hearts so that by fostering this friendship every day you can pour out on us your very life.   

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world!

 


 

DAY 5  |  Tuesday, November 16, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend,  reveals the treasures of his heart to us  

Opening prayer  

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world.  

“I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father” (Jn 15: 15). 

Jesus Christ has called us friends and wants to share the greatest and most beloved ideals of His Heart with us. In the Heart of Christ, that is what we are: his friends. That is what He wants to be for each one of us. Through this human and divine Heart we can enter into the heart of God, who is meek, humble, and merciful, who is full of compassion for us and wants to establish his Kingdom of love in our hearts.   

Lord Jesus, just as you remain in the Father, help us to remain always united to you, so that your law remains written on our hearts and we may be witnesses of your love. 

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world!

 


 

DAY 6  |  Wednesday, November 17, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend,  invites us to be friends with each other  

Opening prayer  

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another” (Jn 13: 34).  

Friendship with Christ is contagious. To be friends of Christ leads us to be friends in Christ with one another.  

“Love of God and love of neighbor are thus inseparable, they form a single commandment. But both live from the love of God who has loved us first. No longer is it a question, then, of a “commandment” imposed from without and calling for the impossible, but rather of a freely-bestowed experience of love from within, a love which by its very nature must then be shared with others. Love grows through love. Love is “divine” because it comes from God and unites us to God; through this unifying process it makes us a “we” which transcends our divisions and makes us one, until in the end God is “all in all”” (1 Cor 15:28). Benedict XVI, Deus caritas est, 18.  

Jesus Christ, help us to experience your love, so that by knowing that we are profoundly loved by you we may radiate this love to those around us and go out to meet our brothers and sisters like good Samaritans. 

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world!

 


 

DAY 7  |  Thursday, November 18, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend, transforms us 

Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“Behold, I make all things new” (Rev 21:5).  

“By giving us this new commandment, he asks us to love one another, not only and not so much with our love, but with his, which the Holy Spirit instills in our hearts if we invoke him with faith.” Pope Francis, Regina Coeli 05/19/2019 

The love of Christ is what transforms us, changes our lives and enables us to go out of ourselves to give ourselves to others like He did for us. Therefore, the transformation of the world begins with one’s own heart. The one who has allowed Christ to reign in his heart is transformed and transforms the world around him. 

Jesus, your friendship makes us good, your love transforms us. We offer you our hearts so that you may renew them and so that you may dwell in us. 

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world!

 


 

DAY 8  |  Friday, November 19, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend,  sends us out  

Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“It was not you who chose me, but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain” (Jn 15: 16). 

“Christ invites all to “go out” and encounter others, he sends us, he asks us to move in order to spread the joy of the Gospel!” Pope Francis, General Audience 10/16/2013 

To be a friend of Christ is to be a disciple, to accept the invitation to follow him. Nevertheless, no one can say that they are a disciple if they are not also an apostle, that is, a witness. As with the first disciple and with all the saints, the adolescent in ECYD who has encountered Jesus Christ does not remain indifferent. The encounter with the Lord moves them, transforms them, and sets them in motion.  

Jesus Christ, you call us, but you also send us. Help us to be faithful witnesses of your Word so that the joy of your Kingdom may reach all people. 

Closing prayer  

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world! 

 


 

DAY 9  |  Saturday, November 20, 2021 

Christ the King, our friend, gives his life to save us 

Opening prayer 

Jesus Christ, as we prepare to celebrate your feast as King of the universe, we want to accept your invitation to be your friends, so that you may reign in our hearts and in the whole world. 

“No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (Jn 15: 13).  

When did Jesus reveal himself as king? In the event of the Cross! Those who look at the Cross cannot but see the astonishing gratuitousness of love. For a Christian, speaking of power and strength means referring to the power of the Cross, and the strength of Jesus’ love (…) The strength of the Kingdom of Heaven is love, and therefore the kingship of Jesus doesn’t oppress us, but rather frees us from our weaknesses and miseries, encouraging us to walk the path of the good, of reconciliation and of forgiveness. Christ is not a King who dominates us or treats us like subjects. Rather, he raises us to his very dignity. He makes us reign with Him (…) But reigning with Him means serving God and our brothers and sisters in service that flows from love. To serve in love is to reign – this is what Jesus teaches us.” Pope Francis, Angelus 11/22/2015 

Jesus Christ, you are the new covenant by which God unites himself with humanity, makes us his family, embraces us and writes his law on our hearts. You are the Lamb who gives himself for our sins, the Friend who gives his life for his friends to save us. We believe in you, Lord, and we want to remain in you. Give us the grace to be faithful witnesses, make your Kingdom of love present in our hearts, in those of all people, and in society. 

Closing prayer 

Jesus Christ, our Lord and King, we are happy because we are yours and because you have called us to share in the greatest and most beloved desires of your heart. In response to the love you have shown us, we come to pledge our friendship to you. 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

By ourselves, Lord, we can do nothing; but we know that you are always with us.  You also give us your Blessed Mother to be our mother too. In her presence and under her protection; we offer you, Lord, our youth and our fidelity. 

Christ the King, our friend, come reign in our hearts and in the whole world! 

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Letter from the Regnum Christi General Directorate for the Feast of Christ the King 2021

November 5th, 2021 

 

To all Regnum Christi members

 Dear friends in Jesus Christ: 

In this jubilee year of ECYD, Christ’s call to be his friends, “I have called you friends,” acquires greater importance for each member of our spiritual family and expresses with greater insistence the burning desire to make Him reign in our hearts, in the hearts of all people and in the whole world. It is a desire that moves us to know and love Jesus Christ more every day and to foster an intimate relationship of friendship with Him (cf. SECYD 7). Christ our King, Thy Kingdom come! 

This friendship becomes a call to the mission, because the renewal of the world begins with allowing Christ to transform our own hearts in our daily lives, “it is as if a man were to scatter seed on the land and would sleep and rise night and day and the seed would sprout and grow, he knows not how” (Mk 4: 26-27). In the same way, one who has Jesus Christ as the King and Lord of their life bears fruit and gives life to those around them, because they have encountered the One who fully gives meaning to their lives, and they can do nothing other than radiate and transmit this light that has illuminated their heart.   

The petition we pray in the prayer of ECYD, “till it is you, Christ, who live and work and pray in me” acquires its fullest meaning on the Solemnity of Christ the King, because it expresses the longing of the ECYD member’s heart and that of every member of our spiritual family to make Christ’s Kingdom present. For this reason, we have decided to begin the jubilee year of ECYD on the feast of Christ the King, so as to motivate us to foster and open our hearts to the Kingdom which grows silently, but constantly.  

Along this line, the Regnum Christi General Directorate’s area of Life and Mission has published the essay The Pledge of Friendship With Christ and Among Each Other – ECYD: The Regnum Christi Charism Lived by Young People. It seeks to describe how Jesus Christ comes out to meet each young person, reveals the love of his Heart to him or her, gathers them together and forms them as his friends and apostles so that from that experience of friendship with Him they feel called to help others experience Christ as friend and together transform the world according to the Gospel (cf. SRCF 8). 

From the beginning of the first teams 50 years ago, many young people have met Christ in ECYD and have decided to let him reign in their hearts. They have opened themselves to the adventure of his friendship and his call to work so that his Kingdom come. Together with all ECYD members, those of yesterday and today, we renew the petition that we find in the prayer of the Pledge of Friendship with Christ: 

We are yours, Lord, and yours we want to be. We offer our lives so that all people might know and love you; because we want you to reign in their hearts. 

We invite you to read, meditate, and reflect on this essay, both privately and in teams. We ask that the Holy Spirit enlighten our hearts so that this jubilee year that we now begin may be a time of gratitude to God for the gift of ECYD and a fresh breeze that helps us to renew his call to our spiritual family and apostolic body that is Regnum Christi.  

We seek this grace through the hands of Mary, Queen of the apostles, that she might show us the way that leads to forging a deep and intimate friendship with her Son. 

 

General Directive College of the Regnum Christi Federation

 

Spanish Original of Letter

Essay: The Pledge of Friendship with Christ and Among Each Other – ECYD: The Regnum Christi Charism lived by young people

Spanish Version of Essay: La alianza de amistad con Cristo y entre nosotros. ECYD: El carisma del Regnum Christi vivido por los adolescentes

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“Ask a Priest: Could I Hold Grudges in Heaven?”

Q: I tend to be a bit of a grudge holder, and there are lots of people in this world that I really can’t stand to be around. I feel like this feeling is here to stay no matter what I do, so I am wondering if I were to die and go to heaven, would it still be a crime to want to avoid them completely even when I’m there if they were to somehow make it up there too? – D.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Holding grudges against people can be a serious sin against charity. It shows a manifest refusal to forgive others.

As such, it is the kind of offense that could keep a soul from reaching heaven.

It might be worth pondering that reality.

Jesus is willing to forgive us our many sins. In turn, he asks us to forgive others. He warns, “If you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your transgressions” (Matthew 6:15).

Notice that this is not a mere suggestion from Our Lord.

So much did Jesus drive home the point that he included that petition in the Our Father, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”

A few clarifications might make things easier in the way of love and forgiveness.

First, Jesus tells us to love one another. But he doesn’t insist that we have to like one another.

Loving someone means that we wish the best for the person and that we hope he reaches heaven someday.

Liking someone means that we find a person naturally agreeable. Our personalities match. We get along easily. While that is OK as far as it goes, it doesn’t go deep enough.

We might like the guy at work who’s always joking and always buying coffee and doughnuts for the office. But we might not care that he’s on his fourth marriage or that he’s a borderline alcoholic. We might like him, but we don’t love him in the Christian sense that we are really concerned about his soul.

Then there is the act of forgiveness itself. Forgiveness is an act of the will, not the feelings. We can make an act of forgiveness even if our feelings for someone are still bruised.

The key thing is that we want to forgive. We can’t control our feelings so easily, however. Feelings tend to drag up the rear. So don’t worry if, after forgiving someone, you still feel the wounds that he inflicted on you. Feelings take a while to dissipate.

If you want to go deeper into this topic sometime, the book Forgiveness: A Catholic Approach might be helpful.

Again, this is the kind of thing to ponder in the light of eternity.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!