August 17, 2021

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“Ask a Priest: What If My Son Doesn’t Believe in an Afterlife?”

Q: How do I respond to my 22-year-old who no longer believes that God created the world (“That’s your truth”), that we don’t have souls, and that we just stop existing when we die? I know there’s more to his disbelief, but that is the basis of it right now. – Kim

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: I’m sorry to hear about your son. He might be going through a stage in life where he rebels against religion and questions everything.

Or, as you mention, “there’s more to his disbelief.” I’m not sure if that means there are other things he doesn’t believe, or that is something bothering him beyond the religious issues.

Sometimes, when people question their faith, there is another kind of problem bubbling beneath the surface.

You might want to try to keep open dialogue with him as much as possible. But don’t feel as though you have to argue every point. He might not be ready to hear your arguments. In any case, the arguments might not really be about his core problem.

More important is that he senses your unconditional love and that you are listening to him. Keep praying for him.

And think about getting some books that explain the faith, and leaving them around the house discreetly. Maybe he will pick one up and read it.

Some suggestions: The Essential Catholic Survival Guide; Surprised by Truth; and the Youth Catechism (YouCat). You might read them yourself, too, to be prepared for more dialogue.

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.

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Stronger in the Broken Places

Dear Friends,

In preparing to write this reflection, my mind kept going back to a story I read several years ago in a book written by Fr. Cleveland. The story was shared in a chapter entitled “Stronger in the Broken Pieces”. Hence, the title of this reflection. 

The story relates how a great British violinist was once invited to play a concert on a priceless 250 plus year old Stradivarius violin. If you are a classical music buff, this has already gotten your attention. Each Stradivarius violin is made of 80 pieces of specifically selected pine, boxwood, and ebony. It is covered with 30 types of special varnish. Each one created is unique and of great value. The famed violinist knew the treasure that was placed in his hands. He knew the hauntingly beautiful notes that come from a violin of this caliber. As he walked out on stage, he tripped on a cord and fell. The violin was broken in several pieces. WOW.

I can just imagine the shock that reverberated throughout the audience and the knot of despair in the pit of the stomach of the violinist. 

After painstaking work that happened over a period of two months, this same violinist was presented with the same violin. He doubted it could ever sound the same.  It didn’t. It was even better. The notes seem to hang in the air forever. No one could even see where the instrument had been repaired. This is the work of a master craftsman. 

Catholics are taught that each person is created by the ultimate ‘Master Craftsman’ in our mother’s womb and that each one of us is completely unique. We also know we are born into a broken world and trauma and suffering may shatter our families, our friendships and maybe even shake our faith. It is here we look to draw strength from the lives of the saints and our Blessed Mother. They too suffered at the hands of others, intentionally and unintentionally. 

Our Lady of Sorrows offers us an opportunity to meditate on the seven events in the life of the Blessed Mother where it seems like her heart is pierced and breaking into pieces just like the violin.  Each moment Mary entrusts her aching heart to God our Father and He repairs it in such a way it becomes stronger.  May we as well entrust our broken lives into the hands of the Master Craftsman trusting that He will not only heal our wounds but make us stronger.

Yours in the Heart of Jesus,

Donna

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Alex Kucera

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!