May 14, 2019

Regnum Christi Spirituality Center Ask a Priest

“Ask a Priest: Is There Cause for Hope?”

Q: Can you tell me what else I can do besides praying night and day for peace and empathy in our world? It is hard not to enjoy the beautiful gifts God has given to me, without realizing everywhere I turn that there is endless suffering and hatred. Sometimes I wonder what heaven will be like, because only there will I know that suffering doesn’t exist. Please tell me whatever ways you think can help me cope. I enjoy volunteering when I can. I donate to the animal shelters when my finances permit, and I have a wonderful job as a nurse assistant helping the elderly at a nursing home. And I know that statement sounds as though I’m getting on a soapbox or something, but I just want to illustrate that I am trying to help others. And it does make me feel better. But at the end of the day I still have an awful depression hanging over me, knowing that there are people who are dealing with far worse things than I am. – B.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: You are feeling what a lot of people are feeling nowadays — a sense that the world is a hopelessly nasty place that we can’t do much to change.

The world has a nasty place, thanks to original sin and its fallout. Genesis gives us a taste of this: Soon after the fall of Adam and Eve comes the infamous story of Cain and Abel.

Perhaps a few ideas are worth mentioning here.

First, God hasn’t given up on the world. In fact, he sent his own Son to suffer and die on a cross for our redemption. If Jesus hadn’t come into the world, the world would be a much nastier place. And he didn’t wait for the world to improve — he jumped in and offered a new message.

That message has transformed the lives of hundreds of millions of people. One result is that there is a lot of good around us that we can see.

Second, Jesus is God, and even he didn’t convert the world. We shouldn’t hope to do it, either. But we aren’t asked to change the world. We are asked to help change that little part of the world that God assigns to us.

That part of the world might be the nursing home where you work, or your family, or the block on which you live, or your parish. Use your energy to help the people around you, and you will have a sense of improving at least some lives.

Beyond the work, it would be good to cultivate your prayer life and sacramental life. That is one of the best ways to nourish a sense of hope. Do this, and you will better help the world, for your growth in holiness gives glory to God and lets him work through you more effectively.

At the end of the day it’s God who is in charge. He has his reasons for allowing evil to thrive here and there. Our Lord can bring good out of evil. His timing might be mysterious, and his ways might be mysterious, but that is to be expected. God works at a much higher level than we do.

It’s good to remember that Christianity isn’t about cursing the darkness. It’s about lighting a candle and dispelling the darkness little by little. In God’s time, not ours.

For more reading you might look at Peter Kreeft’s Making Sense Out of Suffering and Heaven, the Heart’s Deepest Longing.

To further fuel your prayer life, you might consider listening to one or more of our Retreat Guides. I hope some of this helps.

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Legionary of Christ Reaches Out to Those on the Spectrum 

Fr. Matthew P. Schneider, LC, is a Legionary of Christ who was diagnosed with autism in 2016. He has decided to share his story publicly in hopes to reach the hearts of, and serve, those with autism.

Video Announcement

Fr. Matthew said that as a child he always felt a little different. He didn’t feel like he fit in and was often teased. However, he finished school, university, and formation as a priest without too many struggles. He noted that the clinical definition of autism has changed a lot since he was a kid: he didn’t meet the criteria back in the 1980s, but does meet it now.

Soon after he was ordained to the priesthood he was assigned to a position as a school chaplain. He explained to us that he didn’t do very well in the position and a few people, at that time, had suggested that he get tested for Asperger’s syndrome. Ultimately, this lead him to a diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder in 2016, 2 years after he was ordained a priest.

In his online video, he thanked the Legionaries of Christ for their support stating: “In the Legion, my superiors have been helpful throughout this whole process, and when I brought up the possibility of talking about this publicly, they were supportive.”

He explained several reasons for being public about having autism He indicated that people with autism are still an underserved population in the Church and often on the peripheries. He feels that by sharing his story, and the work still to come, it’s a small step in the right direction. He dreams of helping those with autism, and their families, be more connected to their Catholic faith, and come back to the Church if they’ve fallen away.  He wants to help the Church to better include those with autism. Right now, this segment of our population tend to be less religious than others are, in both belief and practice.

Media Interviews

Fr. Matthew also spoke to Catholic News Agency. He explained how he lives with the challenges of autism. He explained, “Realizing that I’m going to have these difficulties, I will try to put in as much effort as I can, even if that tires me.” He continued, “I’m not necessarily going to pick up every social cue, so I’m going to do the best I can and ask for clarification when I’m not sure.” He also mentioned that he needs to consciously do several things most people do unconsciously in social situations.

He also told Catholic News Agency of his nickname, Schneider-pedia, and why he was given it: “I have what’s kind of a stereotypical autistic memory, which is a very good memory of details and facts, which has been helpful in different ways as a priest.”

He explained that he hopes that being transparent and public about autism will pave the way for writing books on prayer or catechetical materials to help this underserved population. He stated that autism might make someone experience God differently, but God comes to each person as they are. Fr Matthew, explained, “We have the opportunity to experience God’s love in an autistic way.”

Speaking with Crux, Fr. Matthew explained how inculturatingthe Gospel to others with autism would work: “[As] someone who has the same kind of thinking patterns, which aren’t the same as the rest of society, I’m able to present the faith in a way that corresponds. It’s still the Catholic faith, just worded or phrased or explained slightly differently.”

Fr. Matthew also explained how he felt when diagnosed with autism. He stated, “I can tell you that on the drive home that day I was feeling really down about it. But, as I looked into it and read up over the following weeks and months, I realized that, oh, this is probably why I’ve had some of these struggles.” He said that overall being diagnosed was freeing and helped him better understand himself and what God was further asking him for.

Autism and Regnum Christi

We asked Fr. Matthew to explain how he sees his vision of serving those with a neurology like him fit with the charism of Regnum Christi. He mentioned four ways.

First, he noted that “we are called to go out to the peripheries and smell like the sheep.” He explained, “Autism is part of the peripheries. We often think of peripheries geographically, but so often the dividing line of the periphery is due to a trait the person has such as being on the spectrum. He says that autism is a periphery because the Church, generally speaking, has not been investing resources there.” Regarding smelling like the sheep, Fr. Matthew spoke about how having autism enables him to think like others on the spectrum, which he believes that this will allow him to reach this periphery better.

Second, he talked about forming apostles. He noted that although we don’t often think about those with autism as great leaders or apostles, he think they can become so in several ways. He believes that those on the spectrum can evangelize others like them more effectively. Also, people with autism are often very helpful in key positions in society where their unique skill-sets excel, and from there, we can lead others to Jesus.”

Third, he discussed our woundedness and vulnerability in Regnum Christi. He noted, “Given our history, we seem to have a special call as wounded Christians. In admitting my own condition, I offer a kind of transparency to my challenges that I think expresses this woundedness.”

Finally, he explained, “I think part of the Regnum Christi spirit is that each of us should use our talents to the best of our ability to transform culture, serve the Church and build the kingdom of Christ. I’m currently doing a doctorate to move into the intellectual field that better matches my skills and talents than running an ECYD section or being a school chaplain, as I found out early on. Being diagnosed with autism was part of what moved me in that direction.”

Fr. Matthew P. Schneider, LC, will be posting content on Catholicism and autism. Check him out on Facebook, Twitter, or YouTube.

His story was covered on CNN Español. He was also interviewed by EWTN Noticías (EWTN News in Spanish).

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!