{"id":203358,"date":"2026-08-28T00:01:24","date_gmt":"2026-08-28T04:01:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/?p=203358&#038;preview=true&#038;preview_id=203358"},"modified":"2026-08-03T16:21:28","modified_gmt":"2026-08-03T20:21:28","slug":"what-if-my-girlfriend-supports-gay-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/what-if-my-girlfriend-supports-gay-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"What If My Girlfriend Supports Gay \u201cMarriage\u201d?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"203358\" class=\"elementor elementor-203358\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-881dae8 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"881dae8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5186be0e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5186be0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote><address>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Q: My girlfriend of six months is in OCIA and God willing is going to be baptized next Easter. But she disagrees with Church teaching in a major way and has told me that she doesn&#8217;t plan to budge on it. She told me that she understands that homosexual behavior is a sin, but that she still supports the civil legality of &#8220;gay marriage&#8221; and would attend such &#8220;weddings.&#8221; I don&#8217;t know what to do. If she truly does not change her mind about this, should we break up? What should I do? \u2014 Josh<\/p>\n<\/address><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p>Faith is a journey, and your girlfriend is on her own path right now.<\/p>\n<p>That she is in the OCIA and aiming to join the Church is a good sign. She is, however, a work in progress (like the rest of us).<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not surprising that she isn&#8217;t totally embracing every aspect of the faith, at least not yet.<\/p>\n<p>She probably needs more formation and encouragement in understanding why the Church teaches what it does.<\/p>\n<p>Since she recognizes that homosexual behavior is sinful, you might gently point out to her that attendance at a same-sex &#8220;wedding&#8221; could amount to public support for sinful behavior, not to mention scandal to others.<\/p>\n<p>That said, you want to keep a question in the back of your mind: Could you see this woman as the mother of your children? Could you trust her to raise your children in the faith?<\/p>\n<p>Coming back to the first point: Your friend is on a journey. 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