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Q: My sorority runs a system where they pair you with another girl, and you meet up and have a little coffee chat. It\u2019s a good way to get to know people. So, my pair for the week and I made plans to go out to a deli and have lunch. I texted her that morning to see if she was still available. Lunchtime rolled around and I hadn\u2019t heard back from her, and unfortunately this is not uncommon. I\u2019m feeling angry because I was looking forward to meeting this girl and also angry at her because it feels a little disrespectful, but I don\u2019t know if something happened that was inhibiting her from texting back. It also made me think I would never do something like this to somebody and just make plans and not show up, but I also think that is a bad outlook and a bit self-centered. I\u2019m not better than anyone, we\u2019re all equal. I\u2019m wondering how I can manage my emotions of disappointment in others and not hold grudges against them and give them grace but not in a holier-than-thou kind of way. I appreciate your help. \u2014 A.V.<\/p>\n<\/address><\/blockquote>\n

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em>:<\/p>\n

It’s good that you recognize that you need to change, rather than focusing on this young woman.<\/p>\n

While we can\u2019t always control our spontaneous feelings of disappointment, we can work on sticking to the facts as we know them at the moment.<\/p>\n

You seemed to jump to the conclusion that this young woman was disrespecting you. Perhaps she was distracted by a last-minute emergency.<\/p>\n

In any case, try to work on the habit of assuming the best of people. Remember, some people thought the worst of Jesus. How wrong they were.<\/p>\n

But let’s say for the sake of argument that this young woman was careless. What do you do?<\/p>\n

First, it would be good to show mercy.<\/p>\n

If someone lacks basic courtesy (such as not showing up for an appointment), that might be due to poor education or growing up in a troubled home. Or maybe she’s just self-centered. The problem in this case is hers.<\/p>\n

Her problem need not throw you into a tizzy. People can take away your serenity unless you let them.<\/p>\n

This could be a simple case of live and learn. People are flawed, so they will disappoint us from time to time.<\/p>\n

You might consider reaching out to the young woman and asking her if she is OK.<\/p>\n

If she was simply being forgetful, your gentle words might prompt her to do better next time.<\/p>\n

To put things in perspective, being stood up for lunch will likely be one of the smaller problems you face in life.<\/p>\n

God allows these bumps on the road not to annoy you but to help you grow in virtue and get a handle on your own emotions. This will serve you well throughout life.<\/p>\n

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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His contributions to RCSpirituality include responding to\u00a0Ask A Priest\u00a0questions and sharing his insights in our\u00a0Weekly Newsletter.","url":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/author\/emcilmail\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/362"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=203353"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203353\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/157773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=203353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=203353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=203353"},{"taxonomy":"post_folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_folder?post=203353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}