{"id":177932,"date":"2025-12-05T05:00:32","date_gmt":"2025-12-05T10:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/?p=177932"},"modified":"2025-08-20T12:54:16","modified_gmt":"2025-08-20T16:54:16","slug":"ask-a-priest-should-i-room-with-a-new-ager-in-order-to-get-to-mass-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/ask-a-priest-should-i-room-with-a-new-ager-in-order-to-get-to-mass-again\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Ask a Priest: Should I Room With a New Ager in Order to Get to Mass Again?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"177932\" class=\"elementor elementor-177932\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div data-particle_enable=\"false\" data-particle-mobile-disabled=\"false\" class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3868b308 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"3868b308\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4368e945 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4368e945\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote><address>Q: I&#8217;m a Catholic convert still living at home for financial reasons. I have received the preliminary sacraments (except confirmation) and was able to go to Mass for almost a year. Recently, however, because of some issues with my family, I haven&#8217;t been able to attend. My parents told me that I must leave their home if I am to start attending Mass again. I can&#8217;t afford to move out without a roommate, so I&#8217;ve been trying to find one online, but it&#8217;s been tough. I found a girl renting out a room that I think might be a good match, but she practices New Age, though to what extent I am unsure. She does have several Buddhist and Hindu statues decorating the apartment, and from her social media I have ascertained that she is into astrology. I am concerned about living in that sort of environment, but I also desperately want to go back to Mass. If I pass up this opportunity it might be a long time before I find another one. Would it be too risky to live with someone who practices New Age, or would it be OK as long as I don&#8217;t get involved? &#8212; G.<\/address><\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em>:<\/p>\n<p>My heart goes out to you!<\/p>\n<p>The situation with your parents is unfortunate. In one sense, they have no right to infringe on your decision to be Catholic and to attend Mass.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t mention why they are so opposed to your attending Mass.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Perhaps they harbor insurmountable anti-Catholic prejudices picked up from their own religious or family background. They might think they are doing the right thing by pressuring you to forgo Mass.<\/p>\n<p>As for this potential roommate: It&#8217;s not ideal to be rooming with someone who is involved with New Age and astrology, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Just being in the same quarters can open you up to problems, especially if her activities blend into the occult.<\/p>\n<p>For now, you might consider a few steps:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Speak with your pastor or confessor. And reach out to a family member who could help you to dialogue with your parents.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Intensify your prayers and sacrifices for your parents.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Keep looking for alternative housing. Perhaps there might be an older couple or a widow who would rent out a room.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Keep looking for a Catholic roommate. See if there are any Catholic young adults clubs in your diocese. You might be able to connect with\u00a0someone.<\/p>\n<p>In short, try to see that your options are not just missing Mass or rooming with a New Ager. Pray to the Holy Spirit for help in finding a third way forward.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Q: I&#8217;m a Catholic convert still living at home for financial reasons. 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