{"id":152873,"date":"2016-11-01T05:00:01","date_gmt":"2016-11-01T09:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/ask-a-priest-what-to-do-about-wayward-relatives\/"},"modified":"2024-10-22T14:55:30","modified_gmt":"2024-10-22T18:55:30","slug":"ask-a-priest-what-to-do-about-wayward-relatives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/ask-a-priest-what-to-do-about-wayward-relatives\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAsk a Priest: What to Do About Wayward Relatives?\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<address>Q: How do you know when a person is full of evil? How do you protect those around you from this evil, especially in your family? For example, I have a family member who is an atheist and is extremely materialistic. What do you do with someone who has that influence among the younger members of the family? There is another member of my family who is extremely narcissistic and who is trying to take control of an elderly person in my family, using religion as a basis for their evil doings. How do I deal with such evil? -C.M.<\/address>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/p>\n<p>A: There are no easy solutions to the problems that you mention. Atheism and narcissism and materialism are rampant nowadays, and people who dabble in them can, unfortunately, influence others. Whether they are full of evil or just badly misguided, I leave to Our Lord&#8217;s judgment.<\/p>\n<p>A short (though not easy) answer to your questions could be twofold.<\/p>\n<p>One, it might take a lot of prayer and sacrifice on your part to help convert your relatives. So be prepared for the long haul. One thing that can help you is to try to see them as Jesus sees them. He suffered and died for each one of your relatives. 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He was an assistant publisher of the National Catholic Register and Faith &amp; Family magazine and an editor of the Zenit news agency\u2019s English edition. He has written for\u00a0SpiritualDirection.com\u00a0and\u00a0ePriest. Fr. McIlmail also worked in spiritual retreats in the Northeast, New England, the Midwest, and the South\u00a0and assisted with mission work in Mexico. Born in Philadelphia, he worked in journalism and was active in the pro-life movement before entering the novitiate of the Legion of Christ in 1992. His contributions to RCSpirituality include responding to\u00a0Ask A Priest\u00a0questions and sharing his insights in our\u00a0Weekly Newsletter.","url":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/author\/emcilmail\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/362"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=152873"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/152873\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/145952"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=152873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=152873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=152873"},{"taxonomy":"post_folder","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/post_folder?post=152873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}