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Q: I recently met a man on online after being single and celibate for seven years. I have a list in my heart of what I am seeking in a spouse, and he checks every box, and I am pretty lovestruck. I am a cradle Catholic, and he is a fallen away Lutheran. He has secular views on sex before marriage. Even though he would consider marriage he expects sex during dating. I told him I can’t do that, and he said he respects my decision but that he isn’t going to change his mind. The problem is I like him so much I am worried that I won’t stand firm around him. I have wounds from my upbringing that drive me to be a people pleaser. If we are committed to each other, will it be sinful to sleep together? We live across state lines, so seeing each other involves staying the night. I want to do what’s right. I don’t want to live in sin. I love him and don’t want to lose him over this. Any advice on how to help him understand why it’s important to wait until marriage too? \u2013 E.<\/p>\n

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Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em><\/p>\n

A:\u00a0More importantly than being a people pleaser, your first concern should be pleasing Our Lord.<\/p>\n

God has a plan for sex, and it’s meant for unitive and procreative reasons within a marriage.<\/p>\n

What you describe triggers all kinds of danger signals. Your friend is secular and expects sex while dating \u201ceven though he would consider marriage.\u201d<\/p>\n

He says he respects your decision about opposing sex outside marriage \u2013 but won\u2019t “change his mind.” So, which is it? Is he willing to live chastely or not?<\/p>\n

Moreover, you are already thinking of spending the night at each other’s residence. Do you really think you could keep this man at a chaste distance if you are spending the night under the same roof? You already acknowledge that you will have a tough time standing up to him. Listen to yourself.<\/p>\n

You say that you are lovestruck. Given that the relationship seems mostly online at this point, the better word to describe your feelings might be infatuation.<\/em><\/p>\n

Real love takes time. Real love means wanting the best for someone. A man who genuinely loves you will want to help you grow in holiness and reach heaven.<\/p>\n

Nothing that you mention indicates that this man is even remotely thinking of your eternal salvation. Rather, he seems fixed on fornicating. Does he really \u201ccheck every box\u201d for you?<\/p>\n

You want to tread carefully. It is not uncommon for men to feign love in order to get sex from a woman. You don’t want to fall for that ploy.\u00a0The happiest courtships and marriages have God at the center.<\/p>\n

If you want to pursue this relationship, a few suggestions might help.<\/p>\n

First, tell your friend that you intend to stay chaste. Tell him it\u2019s a gift you can give each other. It will also give you time to get to know each other as friends.<\/p>\n

Let him know that you don\u2019t want the both of you leading each other into\u00a0 grave sin, which is offensive to God and puts your souls at risk.<\/p>\n

Tell him that you will perceive his respect if he stays in a hotel when visiting. If you live alone, you might insist on restricting your dates to public places.<\/p>\n

If he agrees, fine. But stay vigilant. If he balks at your conditions, that might be a sign he doesn\u2019t really care about you. Men will make sacrifices for the women they love.<\/p>\n

In any case, it might be better to start cultivating a network of serious Catholic friends in your own area. Start attending Catholic events — talks, pro-life events, Theology of the Body classes, Bible studies, door-to-door missions, etc.<\/p>\n

Being around other Catholics could help you maintain balance with this online relationship. You would also improve your chance of finding someone who will respect you and your religious views.<\/p>\n

In the meantime, try to find a solid, regular confessor and\/or spiritual director to guide you. You need an objective third party to help you. Isolation can make you vulnerable to opportunists.<\/p>\n

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.<\/p>\n

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