{"id":145483,"date":"2024-04-30T09:30:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-30T13:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/ask-a-priest-my-husband-is-dying-is-this-gods-vengeance-on-me\/"},"modified":"2024-09-17T11:30:49","modified_gmt":"2024-09-17T15:30:49","slug":"ask-a-priest-my-husband-is-dying-is-this-gods-vengeance-on-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.regnumchristi.com\/en\/ask-a-priest-my-husband-is-dying-is-this-gods-vengeance-on-me\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Ask a Priest: My Husband Is Dying. Is This God\u2019s Vengeance on Me?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote>\n<address>Q: I walked away from my religious vocation years ago and ended up getting married (much later) to a wonderful, loving man. Now my husband is dying of cancer, and I&#8217;ll be a widow with no family. Could this be happening to me because I turned my back on God so many years ago? \u2013 H.<\/p>\n<p class=\"m-4021602221989404838ydp69645e4cyiv5078300124ydpfd2d5a57yiv0421283852ydp3cd5237dmsonormal\" style=\"margin: 0in; margin-bottom: .0001pt; line-height: 115%;\">\n<\/address>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><em>Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em><\/p>\n<p>A:\u00a0I&#8217;m sorry to hear about your husband. It must be heartbreaking to see him suffer.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn&#8217;t see his illness, however, as a divine act of vengeance.<\/p>\n<p>God respected your free will when you didn&#8217;t pursue religious life. And he respected your free will when you married.<\/p>\n<p>This might simply be a case where you are learning in a very sobering way that marriage, too, has its crosses.<\/p>\n<p>Lots of wives who never felt a call to religious life also have to tearfully watch their husbands struggling with terminal illnesses. 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