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Q: My daughter is 24 and lives with us. She is not practicing her faith. She is finishing her university degree soon and just informed us that she is moving out to live with her boyfriend. They\u2019ve been dating for five years. I\u2019ve shared with her my concerns about doing things in the right, God-given order and why that is so important. I\u2019ve tried to tell her that God has a plan for her happiness that is even better than some of the big choices she is making. But we end up agreeing to disagree. My words seem to wound her without intending to. I\u2019m wondering what to do. Should I be helping my daughter move out? If I do, would my actions show that I agree with her decision (when I don\u2019t)? Would I be enabling her? Or would it be better to assist her (with things like packing, moving, giving tips on budgeting, sharing in her joy, etc.) because it is the charitable thing to do? I\u2019m concerned that I would wound her more by withdrawing my help. But how can I feel good about aiding her efforts to move in with him? My heart is torn. I\u2019ve said my peace. But now the next steps of the move are about to happen. What is the right thing to do? \u2013 S.<\/p>\n

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Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC<\/em><\/p>\n

A:\u00a0I’m sorry to hear about the situation. Unfortunately, it’s not that uncommon nowadays.<\/p>\n

There are different levels to this question.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s one thing to help your daughter move out of the house. That in itself doesn’t seem sinful.<\/p>\n

But helping her move into<\/em> a situation where she will be cohabitating is another matter. That could be complicity in sin.<\/p>\n

Just the fact that she’d be moving in with a young man would be scandalous and would certainly put them in the near occasion of grave sin.<\/p>\n

It would be good to think through the consequences if you enable your daughter to move in with her boyfriend. Would the \u201ccouple\u201d invite you over for dinner? Would they expect to be invited to spend the night in your spare bedroom if they visit you?<\/p>\n

As for your \u201cwounding\u201d your daughter, the onus here is really on her. You didn\u2019t ask to be placed in this situation. In any case, the higher priority is to avoid wounding the heart of Christ.<\/em><\/p>\n

So, you shouldn’t feel pressured into supporting her bad decision.<\/p>\n

This might be the moment to intensify your prayers and sacrifices for her.<\/p>\n

Your daughter is at an age when she might be trying to find her own identity. Rejecting (at least for now) the tenets of her faith might be her way of expressing her independence. With God\u2019s grace and the passage of time it might dawn on her that life apart from Our Lord won\u2019t be very satisfying.<\/p>\n

It might be good to remember that you are already helping her by the mere fact that she has been living at home while pursuing her studies. You might want to offer to let her remain at home after she gets her diploma. That might take pressure off her if she feels pinched financially.<\/p>\n

In any case, now is the time to draw a line and to let her know in a loving but firm way that you don\u2019t want to be complicit in helping her enter an objectively sinful situation.<\/p>\n

You might invite her to do some reading on the topic of cohabitation. Even if \u201ceveryone is doing it,\u201d cohabitation remains a bad idea. It breaks the link between intimacy and lifelong commitment.<\/p>\n

It can sap the motivation and ability of the partners (especially the man) to enter a stable marriage. And it can rob the two of the chance to develop a deep friendship apart from physical intimacy; this could help them later as a married couple when they don\u2019t have the opportunity to be intimate, be it for reasons of sickness or physical separation or lack of privacy.<\/p>\n

Perhaps the both of you could read something together. A few suggestions would the U.S. bishops\u2019 conference document<\/a> \u201cMarriage Preparation and Cohabiting Couples\u201d and a related page<\/a>, and this National Catholic Register article<\/a>.<\/p>\n

I hope some of this helps. Count on my prayers.<\/p>\n

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He was an assistant publisher of the National Catholic Register and Faith & Family magazine and an editor of the Zenit news agency\u2019s English edition. He has written for\u00a0SpiritualDirection.com\u00a0and\u00a0ePriest. Fr. McIlmail also worked in spiritual retreats in the Northeast, New England, the Midwest, and the South\u00a0and assisted with mission work in Mexico. Born in Philadelphia, he worked in journalism and was active in the pro-life movement before entering the novitiate of the Legion of Christ in 1992. 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