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“Ask a Priest: What If Dad Doesn’t Believe in Purgatory?”

Q: My dad is a practicing Catholic and goes to church every Sunday, helps with Mass and in the past helped with RCIA. But he doesn’t believe in purgatory. Will he go to hell if he doesn’t believe the Church teaching on purgatory? He also doesn’t think you have to confess your sins to a priest. I am very concerned about these very important Church teachings and my dad’s soul. – K.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: God alone knows the heart and soul of each person, so it’s not for any of us to say who is headed for perdition.

Perhaps your dad was exposed to bad catechesis somewhere in the past, and faulty ideas sank deep roots in him.

Some people get to the point of having what we call invincible ignorance. This means they are clueless about something, and anything contrary to what they believe simply doesn’t sink in. This can happen with people.

If would be unfortunate if he had a role in instructing people in the RCIA and passed on faulty information about purgatory. Even worse would have been his telling people they didn’t need to go to confession. But that’s another issue.

It’s possible that your dad is trying to live the faith as best he knows how. There might be a lot of good will here, especially if he attends Mass every Sunday.

So what might you do?

First, pray for him.

Second, considering leaving pamphlets and short books around the house that explain the faith, especially materials on confession and the last things (death, judgment, heaven and hell). You might look for opportunities to share with him how the sacrament of confession has helped you. You can do this without appearing to lecture him.

Third, you might want to do a little research on purgatory and the need for confession. A few possible resources would be articles on purgatory in the Bible, and a related video; as well as articles on confession.

Also helpful might be our Retreat Guides on confession and purgatory.

All this might help you pass on to your dad a knowledge of the Catholic faith that he tried to pass on to you.

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“Ask a Priest: Could a Muslim End Up Holier Than a Christian?”

Q: I told my Protestant friend that if a Muslim follows his conscience perfectly, then he can be holier than a Christian. My friend thought this was ridiculous. His argument was as follows. He cites Romans 3:23, “For all have fallen short, there is no way to salvation except through Jesus Christ.” Thus my friend thinks that native Indians are under just condemnation of God’s wrath. God told the Israelites to kill gentiles; that means God predestined the gentiles to hell. Likewise all people of other religions are destined to hell. If there is another way of being saved, then there is technically another gospel. My friend also said that he found out that Catholics believe that there are sins that can’t be forgiven in confession and deserve excommunication if those sins were carried out in full consent. He said that Paul tried to destroy the church, and surely that was worse than abortion. So do we believe Paul wasn’t saved? -S.H.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: As regards the Muslim, you and your friend are both right, in a sense. The Muslim could turn out holier than a Christian, though, as your friend notes correctly, salvation does come through Christ. These two positions are compatible because God doesn’t hold it against someone if he grew up without knowledge of the Christian faith. Still, the redemption of all people relies on Christ’s redemptive suffering on the cross.

A key passage from the Second Vatican Council document Lumen Gentium deals with non-Christians.

In No. 16 it says, “Those also can attain to salvation who through no fault of their own do not know the Gospel of Christ or His Church, yet sincerely seek God and moved by grace strive by their deeds to do His will as it is known to them through the dictates of conscience. Nor does Divine Providence deny the helps necessary for salvation to those who, without blame on their part, have not yet arrived at an explicit knowledge of God and with His grace strive to live a good life.​”

God, by the way, predestines no one to hell. In fact, he “wills everyone to be saved and to come to knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:4).

If all the upbaptized were lost, that would mean everyone in the Old Testament is lost. Scripture doesn’t support that at all; notice Our Lord’s parable about Lazarus and the rich man. Lazarus is in a state of peace, “carried away by angels to the bosom of Abraham” (Luke 16:22). That hardly sounds as if Abraham is in hell. The upshot is: Your friend is mistaken that all people in other religions are doomed to perdition.

As for unforgivable sins, your friend is a bit confused. There are certain sins that bring excommunication. Those sins can be forgiven in confession, though the priest might need special permission in certain cases to give absolution. In rare cases the permission would need to come from the Holy See, the anonymity of the penitent being strictly guarded, of course.

As for Paul, he repented of his sins, and he is recognized as a saint today. He was surely saved. The unforgivable sin that Jesus referred to is the case where someone is obstinate and refuses forgiveness.

The Catechism says in No. 1864: “Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven.” There are no limits to the mercy of God, but anyone who deliberately refuses to accept his mercy by repenting, rejects the forgiveness of his sins and the salvation offered by the Holy Spirit. Such hardness of heart can lead to final impenitence and eternal loss.”

I hope this helps.

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Alex Kucera

Atlanta

Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!