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“Ask a Priest: Should I Support Those Violating COVID Rules?”

Q: The lockdown rules here in the UK have become quite strict. I and many others think they are over the top. That being said, there is a man I know who has lost his driving job because he refused to wear a face mask. There is also a men’s gymnasium that refused to close when ordered to and is now suffering heavy fines for staying open. Both are asking for financial help, which I would like to give, but I am worried if I do, it might be sinful, as if I might be aiding and abetting civil disobedience. Where do I stand spiritually, Father? – A.A.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: The lockdowns during the pandemic have triggered a lot of debate, no doubt.

People come down on the pro and cons sides of the argument, making their case on various economic and/or medical grounds and often citing various data to bolster their case. Other factors, including the psychological and educational fallout of long-term semi-isolation, also enter the debate. These issues can’t be settled here, of course.

As to your particular case: If you want to help these people in order to keep the driver and the gym afloat financially, that is one thing.

If you want to help them so that they can continue to violate health rules, that is another issue. Here, you could be abetting the disregard of civil authority and indirectly helping to rekindle the pandemic.

The driver and the gym presumably knew the rules and chose to violate them – and thus they freely decided to risk the fines.

While the need for strict lockdowns is debatable, there are times when it helps the common good if we follow rules set down by legitimate authority even if we disagree with the rules.

In this sense, you might ask whether helping these parties financially would only encourage them to repeat their behavior. Which, of course, could aggravate the health crisis and encourage others to disregard the rules. All things considered, this might make a difficult situation even more problematic.

As an alternative you might think about donating to charities that have been overwhelmed by the pandemic, such as soup kitchens which cater to the poor and unemployed.

It might be good to take some of this to prayer. I hope that some of this helps … and that you stay safe.

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“Ask a Priest: What If My Kids Are Content With Online Masses?”

Q: While we were in partial lockdown, my daughters, aged 18 and 20, were following Mass on the Internet. They found the sermons of the priest very down to earth and relevant and now prefer to carry on hearing Mass in this way. I’m constantly trying to make them understand that this can never replace being physically present in church, as Holy Communion is missed out on. My girls argue that when it comes to Communion, they are not missing anything because they can still receive Christ by making a spiritual communion. How can I reply? Please keep my family in your prayers. – S.

Answered by Fr. Edward McIlmail, LC

A: Your question confirms the fears of more than a few Catholics: that people accustomed to Mass online won’t be anxious to return to the pews.

You mention that you can hear Mass again, but it’s not clear whether Catholics in your area are again obliged to attend Mass (it might be optional at this point). If Mass is obligatory again, then watching online liturgies wouldn’t fulfill the Sunday obligation. (Even when public Masses are canceled, the online Masses aren’t obligatory; they are meant as a spiritual help for the faithful.)

But if Mass is obligatory again in your diocese, it sounds as though your daughters misunderstand the nature of the Mass and the duties connected with it.

Part of the importance of Mass is that it brings the faithful together as a community, a gathering. That was a meaning in the Old Testament of the Hebrew word qahal, which is translated in Greek as ekklesia, which in turn comes to us in English as Church. The link to the Greek is more evident in Spanish (iglesia) and French (église).

Christ wills to save us and gather us as one Church. Ours is not a “me and Jesus alone” religion.

And, of course, being present enables those in a state of grace to actually receive the Eucharist. If Jesus only wanted spiritual communions, he wouldn’t have bothered giving us the Eucharist.

Spiritual communions are kind of a stopgap measure for souls who can’t access the Eucharist, whether physically (they are in lockdown) or morally (they are in mortal sin).

One wonders how one of your daughters would react if her fiancé preferred to stay home on the day of their wedding and watch the nuptial Mass online.

If that scenario seems improbable, it’s not unlike what happens when people opt for online Mass rather than a live liturgy. For in the Mass Jesus himself becomes present on the altar, as an offering to God the Father and an offer to us to share in the Savior’s very body and blood.

Perhaps you might want to look for opportunities to keep open a dialogue with your daughters. It might help to have plenty of books and periodicals around that explain and defend the faith.

A book suggestion would be Vinny Flynn’s 7 Secrets of the Eucharist.

In the meantime, you might want to intensify your prayers and sacrifices for your daughters. They still need Mom’s love and guidance. They and you can count on my prayers.

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Alex Kucera has lived in Atlanta, GA, for the last 46 years. He is one of 9 children, married to his wife Karmen, and has 3 girls, one grandson, and a granddaughter on the way. Alex joined Regnum Christi in 2007. Out of the gate, he joined the Helping Hands Medical Missions apostolate and is still participating today with the Ghana Friendship Mission.

In 2009, Alex was asked to be the Atlanta RC Renewal Coordinator for the Atlanta Locality to help the RC members with the RC renewal process. Alex became a Group Leader in 2012 for four of the Atlanta Men’s Section Teams and continues today. Running in parallel, in 2013, Alex became a Team Leader and shepherded a large team of good men.

Alex was honored to be the Atlanta Mission Coordinator between 2010 to 2022 (12 years), coordinating 5-8 Holy Week Mission teams across Georgia. He also created and coordinated missions at a parish in Athens, GA, for 9 years. Alex continues to coordinate Holy Week Missions, Advent Missions, and Monthly missions at Good Shepherd Catholic Church in Cumming, GA.

From 2016 to 2022, Alex also served as the Men’s Section Assistant in Atlanta. He loved working with the Men’s Section Director, the Legionaries, Consecrated, and Women’s Section leadership teams.

Alex is exceptionally grateful to the Legionaries, Consecrated, and many RC members who he’s journeyed shoulder to shoulder, growing his relationship with Christ and others along the way. He knows that there is only one way, that’s Christ’s Way, with others!